I have no words actually.. Healing is a journey, and progress may be slow, but it's worth it one fine day.. You deserve everything..Be your self always.. Be strong..Be gentle with yourself, and don't give up on your journey. You are strong, capable, and deserving of love and happiness and friends too..Take care of yourself and keep moving forward!
Oh, is it because of the work stress?Work stress or anything beyond..
Take care sissy
I never thought about it.
My biggest fear is that I'm scared of love and attachment. Although I flirt and put on a carefree facade all the time but there's a vulnerable girl inside me who craves attention and affection from someone close. I have a tendency to become possessive, jealous, and toxic, but that doesn't mean I want to harm anyone.... I simply want my partner to be mine alone....(who doesn't??) However, in the past I've been left heartbroken, and it's haunting me. I'm unsure if I'll ever be able to love someone the way I did before. My past experience has taught me not to trust anyone completely
With due respect, your problem is like it was raining still I came out without umbrella and I got wet. When you are attached to somebody, then you are attached to what? You are attached to their emotions only. So if you are attached to somebody, you are condemned to be affected by them how they treat you. What is solution? Solution is realizing that love is not attachment, nor feelings. Love is consciousness and awareness. Awareness of what? Awareness of your well beings and and others' well beings too. Solution is knowing that if love is awareness and not emotions, then love blossoms when you are detached from your mind and others' emotions. The more detached you are, the more profoundly you can think about others' well beings and yours too and the more love you can give out others and experience in you. So solution is - Practise detachment. P.S. detachment from what? Detachment from your unconscious thoughts and emotions.
My fear is wt if someone take advantage of me coz of the amount addiction im having for them? This is my all time fear
We get hurt because we are afraid of being hurt. Fear is fearful
Let this fear take a reverse gear and kill it foreverWe get hurt because we are afraid of being hurt. Fear is fearful
Yeeees!! Detachment is the key. Attachment sucks, detachment rocks
Not every attachment... Attachment with a wrong person sucksYeeees!! Detachment is the key. Attachment sucks, detachment rocks
Nhi nhi. There is no good attachment or bad attachment. Poison is poison. Is there good poison or bad poison? Same for attachment. When we are attached to somebody, we get dependent on them and when we are dependent on anybody, don't we feel all kinds of bad emotions if they do something that we don't like? Tell me is it love when we get dependent on somebody? Are we even able to care about them if we get dependent on anybody? If attachment is dependence then this must not be love and if detachment is independence then it must be love. P.S. since we are social animals, we are bound to be dependent on one another to an extent in terms of social needs but here I am talking about emotional dependence. Wanna know your view.
As you said we are social animals, and bound to be dependent on one another... As per me this dependence has emotional factor also... For me it's nearly impossible to get 100% emotionally detached...
Hahah but thanks to make me curious, I'll look after the theories of attachment and detachment....
Design of girls ring is too good
