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Size or stamina?

I think it's better to focus on the parameter that we can actually work on.
Nothing can be done about the size.
But we can always built the stamina and learn techniques to last longer!

P.S I totally loved @Cameron perspective on this!!
 
I think size is more important. Sex can be short but good, or it can be long but absolutely senseless. Besides, most men are worried about size. I was lucky enough to be born with a good penis, but a friend of mine had his penis enlarged with pumps https://joynights.org/best-penis-pump/. I was a little amused to hear that, but at the same time felt sorry for him that he had to do it. But he was so insecure about his small penis that he had never even been intimate with a girl. The pump solved his problem. Now he's a sexual giant.
 
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If you spend your time waving a big cock about and thinking that's all that makes good sex then you are deluded. Sex is about many things with many different women who have very different ideas on what makes sex thrilling and exciting and fulfilling. No woman is the same. No woman just likes one thing. Many women like a big penis many like them small but for most it is about the penis being hard. It can be big and not very hard and be quite nice if the situation is thrilling. The cock can be average but very hard and it will feel pretty big when pumping my pussy. A really huge cock that is hard is great yes but, lots of penetration from a really huge cock can make you sore despite the pleasure. No matter how wet you are a lot of penetration from a huge hard cock will make you tender between the legs. I know from real experience.

For me and I am sure most women it is the situation that makes the sex thrilling not the cock size. Women get attracted to the person, his character, attitude sometimes his looks so as men don't walk around with their dicks out (They would get arrested) women are only interested in the penis when the time comes to enjoy it. I like adventure variety, thrill, passion lust and just a little bit of risk. I have preferences about the cock yes but it doesn't stop me trying all sizes, shapes colours as if the situation right then why not just enjoy it.

As to stamina nothing is more boring that some guy thinking it is a competition and pumping away for hours just to prove his manhood. Sex can be quick in certain situations and very thrilling and fulfilling. It can take a bit longer but trying to do it all night is for me boring.

have fun
 
First and foremost every male should know the girls arousal points, how to please them. Size is secondary, pleasure stands first. Even if penis size is small also a man can please a lady. We should make a female ready for coitus with perfect foreplay. If one can’t make her ready to even if the penis size is big she won’t get pleasure and this is the fact.
exactly size doesn't matter. there are many ways to make a woman cum without a penis .men need to learn to arouse a woman's mind before even trying to arouse her body . it can be the simple things that can be the most pleasurable .if you can't make a woman come with example your lips ,your touch ,your tongue and your fingers then your penis isn't even worth trying
 
so almost all the guys have decided so far what matters size or pennis. Since none of the girl has answered this i would say the survey is about Gay sex and not straight sex apparently. Yes i saw Beryl commented but her comment does not matter much . lol
 
We must know about this penis size or stamina, which is the most important to participate in sex bravely and happily
Pleasure does not mean insertion.... It is all about feeling and how you arouse them.... Sometimes jist tickling give you extreme pleasure, it depends upon person to person.
 
I suggest men stop getting their sexual information from porn movies and read some of the modern books on sex written by women for women. They will realise it is very different to what they think women need sexually. Every WOMAN is different. Every SITUATION is different. Every RESPONSE is different. There is not one size fits all.
 

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We must know about this penis size or stamina, which is the most important to participate in sex bravely and happily
First need is love, even tough men with big pennies, stamina, and knowledge about sex if partner not loves you will became a sex toy (they will imagine as they are doing with loved ones). Like we open eyes and sleep in classroom feel sharing will not be there if no love exits in sex ( only masturbation will occur but two persons involved)
 
We must know about this penis size or stamina, which is the most important to participate in sex bravely and happily

nothing matters i guess if you are having passionate sex

idk i have never done sex neither hugged also

only my thinking
 
Stamina is main but can't ignore size too
I think you need to learn more about women and sex and sexuality. Sex is about many things mostly the situation and the varied personality and needs of the people participating. it is not a competition about how long or how big it is about how good, how varied, how imaginative and it all comes from the situation and the place and how adventurous the people are. If all you can do it have stamina sorry how boring to just have one thing all the time. good luck
 
I think you need to learn more about women and sex and sexuality. Sex is about many things mostly the situation and the varied personality and needs of the people participating. it is not a competition about how long or how big it is about how good, how varied, how imaginative and it all comes from the situation and the place and how adventurous the people are. If all you can do it have stamina sorry how boring to just have one thing all the time. good luck
Yeah you are right i need to learn about it... Actually doing practical is will be much better... Thank you
 
I think you need to learn more about women and sex and sexuality. Sex is about many things mostly the situation and the varied personality and needs of the people participating. it is not a competition about how long or how big it is about how good, how varied, how imaginative and it all comes from the situation and the place and how adventurous the people are. If all you can do it have stamina sorry how boring to just have one thing all the time. good luck
ayii ayiii hold down dear. for understanding this much we should had done sex first.
idk why your talk seemed to me as a scold to me also as i also havent done sex

please speak a lil bit calmly this looked harsh
not fighting but what i felt i said
 
ayii ayiii hold down dear. for understanding this much we should had done sex first.
idk why your talk seemed to me as a scold to me also as i also havent done sex

please speak a lil bit calmly this looked harsh
not fighting but what i felt i said
I am just being very clear and as you have not had sex then perhaps you should not be trying to say what is important in sex and you should be reading and learning and trying to understand what each woman really wants sexually as we are all very different in character and in sexual needs
 
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