Well according to latest statistics, divorce rates are high in india compared to wester countries
Is Living Together a Good Idea Before Marriage?
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Its just because of the current influence of western culture in india . Even i also thought that living relation is better but it didn,t worked out and the breakup is happened within 18 months of relation .i explored too many things and based on that i am saying its not good at all. But sadly this culture is increasing in metropolitan cities .
moving in with your girlfriend/ boyfriend is an important step in relationship in some countries & totally normal there. I m not really convinced it will smooth in India.
One thing I m sure, a person cant enter the general marriage market after that. Imagine that in a matrimonial profile.
One thing I m sure, a person cant enter the general marriage market after that. Imagine that in a matrimonial profile.
No amount of western influence can break two people who are happily married. Hope you got my point.
Yeah. Blame the digital age stupid stuff. Where's the joint family culture these days? Kids who grow in nuclear family type is what's causing it I believe. There's a fine line between what's differentiating us and Westerners. Ours is a culture and tradition strong healthy country. Atleast it used to be. But in the name of modernization it's started to diminish and soon it'll be like the west. I don't want to see that happen to us. If anyone wants to know the meaning of the word "family" & "relationship" then we should ask our grandparents generation people. Only they knew the true meaning of that and they raised our parents well. Aren't they experts enough?
Thats really an insight of the topic. But what if you had got married with the same person? Don u think it would have ended up in a divorce? If yes the pain would have been more with respect to alimony and one of the dragging other in the court? I am no one to say this, but it just came in ma mind and put it in words. No hard feelings and don get me wrong
True that, but in the recent scenarios, old age homes are increasing day by day in India and thats a bad indication
Yep. Us as younger generation shouldn't do such horrible things
Living together is always tough even if it is before marriage or after marriage since it is facing all real life challenges. Online or distant relationship is like a fantasy world where sky is the limit for imaginations. But real life is different than the fantasy world of imaginations. I have talked to couple of colleagues in my office who are in living together relationship, married couples and as per their opinion the enjoyment they had in their fantasy world is not the same when they faced the real life, its similar to our school life experiences when we were all kids and enjoyed each moment. But when we grown up there are real life challenges, work pressures, responsibilities all these spoil the fun element.
Nna anank ethaa vendarh
only english no malayalam
Why is that so?only english no malayalam
not only but also life is like that
Nuclear family living has ruined the new gen. But yet you cant blame anyone for that, as the country develops, jobs availability made the difference or the so called the nuclear family started popping up. I still remeber our ancestral home living
Well understandable and appreciate your thoughts. But what i wana ask you is, do u prefer to have a liv in beforee marriage
So after marriage, where are ur pets?
You said it
Nah. I wouldn't do that. If I do then my raising would be meaningless. And I won't encourage my next generation either. Love, dating is fine by me. But there's a line we shouldn't cross when it comes to life. Live-in is a definite no go for me.
Allrite, thanks for the kind reply bro