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@Orange and akka
@SiRa here it is
That's a hard question to answer isn't it ?
So, let me be my true self as everyone suggested. I was afraid of what I might comment coz,
Love is too precious for someone who wasn't loved back.
I still get a lump in my throat before I utter her name, that's love to me. "
Love isn't something that can be forced" it jus happens and it didn't take me too long to realize.
Waking up to her presence feeling blessed, feeling relived of all the pain I've endured when she holds me on a late evening, A shoulder where I can cry and still feel strong.
Being known to be the most talkative and expressive one, I'm now finding it too hard to express what love means to me, is there a bit of fear ? of falling short, yes there's a lot coz, I get a feel is this how I wanna love the girl or is this all I can do, this fear of me wanting to give more to the girl I might fall is Love to me.
Everyone wants to be loved, I'm no different instead of expecting how much I wanna feel the love from the other person, I'd want to give her the love I always longed for.
For me Love is all about the moments, like everyone I've had friends over the years who fell in love, some successfully married and happy and some had to let go for their own reasons, I used to ask them a question "What made you fall in love with her/him" everyone used to say, I like something abt the person, not sure what it is, I like the feel. Maybe it's about the moments for everyone, no one knows when they fell ( everyone celebrates their anniversary the day, their proposal was accepted ) not the moment or day when they actually fell.
I was worried I was stuck at one point, I told someone that I wrote jus 2 lines today and I got stuck again, the person asked "
how much more is left" that's when I realized
this is not something which has an end.
Love is known to be an eternal feeling, and I happened to trust or realize
Until death do as part is actually true.
Lemme say why, a few years back my granny passed away and my grandad was in his 90s hardly could remember us, it was time we buried her and we wanted him to take a last look, boy he shed tears didn't he ! did his love end ? I don't think so, only the person he loved was no more ! his love for her stayed till he passed away one good day !
With this, let me stop trying to define which isn't gonna end till I breathe, If the person I love is gonna be no more, it's still gonna be abt how much I loved her and how much I miss her.
So to answer your question, No I can't define what's love !
Love is something which can only be felt not defined.
I was taught love is all about giving, lemme love for all the while I can.