Your opinion about cheating/getting cheated

[Zozoguest]

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CHEATING - The word that nobody wants to hear it in their life.

Question 1
I have two scenarios 1) before marriage 2) after marriage

What will you do when you comes to know that your partner is cheating/cheated on you.

Question 2
When you found someone just like your dream girl/boy who perfectly fits for you approaches you when you are in relationship .What will you do?

Perfectly fits - he/she is having all the qualities that you expect and the person is also ok with your relationship status either married or in relationship.

 

[Zozoguest]

My answer for question 1
If it was done by a mistake and a one time thing then I accept and stay in relationship otherwise I will get out from the relationship even if I have kids.

My answer for question 2

1. Basically noone wants to cheats on anyone things happen when our control goes out of hands.
2. Initially I do resist myself from meeting that person. The strength of resisting is based on how strongly my partner supports me and loves me.If my partner is not showing much interest and having a boring lifestyle will surely make me to take the chance to chest on her.

Why cheating? Why not to openly talk about this thing and get a divorce?

It depends on the person I am having an affairs with. If she is also ok with start a new life then I can divorce my wife and start a new life incase if the girl I'm attracted to is not interested in marriage and only wants to continue in this way then i can't divorce.

Why I can't divorce and live a life of single man?

• It affects the family values
• If i have kids then it is bit tough to raise the kids as a single father. For the kids also it will be painful.
• Good or bad you need someone for you right?

After reading upto this you might think " unaku vantha ratham enaku vantha thakkali chutney ah?" I just shared my views that's it guys

 

[DeAngelo]

Kind request:
if you don't like to discuss things related to this kind of topics please skip this post.


CHEATING - The word that nobody wants to hear it in their life.

Question 1
I have two scenarios 1) before marriage 2) after marriage

What will you do when you comes to know that your partner is cheating/cheated on you.

Question 2
When you found someone just like your dream girl/boy who perfectly fits for you approaches you when you are in relationship .What will you do?

Perfectly fits - he/she is having all the qualities that you expect and the person is also ok with your relationship status either married or in relationship.

Take the chance