• We kindly request chatzozo forum members to follow forum rules to avoid getting a temporary suspension. Do not use non-English languages in the International Sex Chat Discussion section. This section is mainly created for everyone who uses English as their communication language.

Why online relationship fails mostly

Online relationships are dangerous. They can develop unexpectedly and get very emotionally intense, very quickly. As others have said, you never know for sure who the other person is, you have to assume everything they say could be an exaggeration or a deception. The online setting allows both people to only reveal what they want to reveal, and usually they want to reveal their ideal self. So basically it's not as much a relationship as an overlapping fantasy. And the "online other" can be irresistibly appealing, far more perfect than any real life
 
Bcoz it's online who lies n betray us in all ways possible...:Cwl:can say lot of fake stories, gaining sympathy, love, care, sexting n finally betrayal when u realise its fake n move on emotional blackmail :facepalm:lot of things can happen in online unless u get someone true person

Online relationships are dangerous. They can develop unexpectedly and get very emotionally intense, very quickly. As others have said, you never know for sure who the other person is, you have to assume everything they say could be an exaggeration or a deception. The online setting allows both people to only reveal what they want to reveal, and usually they want to reveal their ideal self. So basically it's not as much a relationship as an overlapping fantasy. And the "online other" can be irresistibly appealing, far more perfect than any real life

Wow can't agree more well said

I wanted to add some more as well

In both of them one person will be vulnerable and emotionally needs an anchor or other person might seem so good and best which makes them to get closer

They will take use of that behaving as if he/she is the only one who can make the other feel Happy

They fall in that trap revealing more about themselves

Which inturn becomes a weapon for other to use it for emotional blackmail

So my suggestion to ANYONE out there

Before getting into something atleast study him/her for long time

And see how he behaves with other persons not only with you

As girls are more affected ,

A girl should see two things :

1) what are his intentions why is he looking for you why specifically you,

If he says something was that believable, is he being honest in the word's

what about his actions were they reflecting from what he spoke

Make sure you know his intentions so you can be careful

If you've a doubt ask directly don't hesitate you're your first priority your happiness and peace of mind is important

2) His past relationship if he has anything, how he treated her if there's a break up why what's the reason

He might lie but you need to be smart in figuring out Nothing will be from one side

Never believe anyone who blames the other without his Consent Nothin will happen no one will do anything for others without he being interested

if there's no relationship see how he treats women, his ideology his view points

is he Arrogant or egoistic or is that self respect

make sure you observe more !!!!
 
Bcoz it's online who lies n betray us in all ways possible...:Cwl:can say lot of fake stories, gaining sympathy, love, care, sexting n finally betrayal when u realise its fake n move on emotional blackmail :facepalm:lot of things can happen in online unless u get someone true person

Online relationships are dangerous. They can develop unexpectedly and get very emotionally intense, very quickly. As others have said, you never know for sure who the other person is, you have to assume everything they say could be an exaggeration or a deception. The online setting allows both people to only reveal what they want to reveal, and usually they want to reveal their ideal self. So basically it's not as much a relationship as an overlapping fantasy. And the "online other" can be irresistibly appealing, far more perfect than any real life

Wow can't agree more well said

I wanted to add some more as well

In both of them one person will be vulnerable and emotionally needs an anchor or other person might seem so good and best which makes them to get closer

They will take use of that behaving as if he/she is the only one who can make the other feel Happy

They fall in that trap revealing more about themselves

Which inturn becomes a weapon for other to use it for emotional blackmail

So my suggestion to ANYONE out there

Before getting into something atleast study him/her for long time

And see how he behaves with other persons not only with you

As girls are more affected ,

A girl should see two things :

1) what are his intentions why is he looking for you why specifically you,

If he says something was that believable, is he being honest in the word's

what about his actions were they reflecting from what he spoke

Make sure you know his intentions so you can be careful

If you've a doubt ask directly don't hesitate you're your first priority your happiness and peace of mind is important

2) His past relationship if he has anything, how he treated her if there's a break up why what's the reason

He might lie but you need to be smart in figuring out Nothing will be from one side

Never believe anyone who blames the other without his Consent Nothin will happen no one will do anything for others without he being interested

if there's no relationship see how he treats women, his ideology his view points

is he Arrogant or egoistic or is that self respect

make sure you observe more !!!!
Finally I got some interesting opinions ! Thanks !
 
1. Poor communication
2. Lack of understanding
3. Quick judgement
4. No discipline
5. Possessiveness
6. No transparency in thoughts

Sollunga makkaley
It is hard to really get to know someone on the Internet.
even here were you can DM in private.
it's about the little touches, holding of hands.
It is NOT impossible.
It is just hard.
But if two people are looking for the same thing, it can work.
It is just hard.
And if it was working, you had both cammed to chat phoned or texted each other.
We're do you both live ?
Same country,
or the other side of the world ?
Do you going on holiday to meet.
And if everything goes well , who moves where ?
As I said it can work,
it's just hard.
But somethings are worth the hard work.
 
Last edited:
Solli dhan theriyanuma asmi :happy1:

ipolam ponnunga lam porani pesuradhu illa pasanga dhan start pannitanga pola iruku:facepalm:
Ellarum kadupula irunkaainga da evanku entga figure Epdi set aavuthu nu theriyama color color ah reel vittutu irukaanga athula enna maari etha pavama jenmam ellathayum nambitu irukum
:giggle:
 
1. Poor communication
2. Lack of understanding
3. Quick judgement
4. No discipline
5. Possessiveness
6. No transparency in thoughts

Sollunga makkaley
Yar iyaaa nee ippudi potu odaikiringalae unmaiya
 
It's a false assumption. It's more strong . You will love them madly and deeply. For you meeting a day after months will be a heaven.

You can feel real happiness .

You will wait for the day of meeting.

You will feel safe even if they are not with you
 
Top