Why is SEX important ?

[Julie1]

Not all wants to b in the race some likes to be where they are
And all are matured enough to gather information they need
You kept your view is appreciable but u questioned others view which its obvious theg wont like neither you liked when ur viewded whr questioned
Its good to respect others view isn't it?

So you are saying I should just accept someone's view even if it is wrong? All i do is respond and give them references then it is up to them to check. I go by clear information that is available as anyone would. Am I not allowed to defend things? Or to have an opinion? Just because I defend what I know is not forcing anyone it is merely stating what I know and what is fact - they are all there to be verified if they want to most of what I stated in not my opinion it is the opinion of people far more qualified than me. This is a forum and forums as far as I am aware as for just that sharing information and opinions. Thanks for you messages but I think this has run its course now.

 

[Kamini]

Ok, after reading all replies, I think I should step in.

Let's start from the beginning of time. Let's go back to the origins of mankind. Then we used to live just like animals, we were not better than any animals, of course, we were pack animals but we were savage with no rules, no virtues and were free birds. Then reproduction comes into the picture, but in our case, unlike animals, human offspring don't grow faster. Our offspring need long-term commitment and care. So we needed a commitment from a man and protection offered by him from other human males. If you see the animal kingdom, you can observe a particular behavior, if a male wants to continue his genome, he will kill all young offspring of a female, then mate with her to start his own progeny. It is observed in lions and some big cats. It can be observed in our close relatives, primates too (well, not in all of them). Since women are not robustly built to tackle another male and protect their own children, women needed a man's protection. But who can offer the protection better than the father of her kids?? So that started the foundation for relationships. And a relationship is a checklist. It is a long-term commitment.

There is a reason men have a high libido than women and why they cheat more. It is because they are not wired to raise kids, they are wired to reproduce. A man can have sex with many women, yet he won't lose anything, he literally got nothing to lose. So their sex drive is high. But when it comes to a woman, she always has to pick from N number of options as she is gonna carry the offspring and care for the child for a long time. So she chooses a man who thinks she is the love of his life and gives her emotional commitment (it happens in the subconscious, so the conscious mind is not aware of it).

But no matter how deep the love he has, sometimes his physiology tells him to leave her as he is not built for relationships. So his checklist needs to be completed. His mind needs to be tricked that he is reproducing. Reproduction is embedded in our subconscious. The subconscious contains habits, so to make it understand, you have to speak in its language. Which is "habit". Sex is a habit for men, so by giving him sex, you are satisfying his habit and keeping his subconscious in check. When the habit is not satisfied, he will always go looking for other women or at least he will find a way to satisfy his habit as it is built in his nature. So better give good sex to your man. The more good the sex is, the less are the chances for cheating. And when men grow old, they lose libido so even if a woman can't satisfy him at that age, there is nothing much to lose.

And by the time a man reaches his old age, he will be completely dependent on his wife. He will form a dependency, physically and mentally so he will never leave his woman. And when it comes to love, it is an artificial behavior we learned overtime (I am not talking about parental love or sibling's love). It is embedded in our minds by our elders and movies to make you ready for marital life and relationships. It is embedded to shackle men so that they can offer to protect women and their offspring. It is embedded into our subconscious so that when we reach a certain point in our life, we start to look for a suitable partner who can crack our checklist. And the checklist not always contains the same things as everyone has their own checklist.

Edits: Better choice of words and corrected silly mistakes

 

[Julie1]

Ok, after reading all replies, I think I should step in.

Let's start from the beginning of time. Let's go back to the origins of mankind. Then we used to live just like animals, we were not better than any animals, of course, we were pack animals but we were savage with no rules, virtues and free birds. Then reproduction comes into the picture, but in our case, unlike animals, human offspring don't grow faster. Our offspring need long-term commitment and care. So we needed a commitment from a man and protection offered by him from other human males. If you see the animal kingdom, you can observe a particular behaviour, if a male wants to continue his genome, he will kill all young offspring of a female, then mate with her to start his own progeny. It is observed in lions and some big cats. It can be observed in our close relatives, primates too (well, not in all of them). Since women are not robustly built to tackle another male and protect their own children, women needed a man's protection. But who can offer the protection better than the father of her kids?? So that started the foundation for relationships. And a relationship is a checklist. It is a long-term commitment.

There is a reason men have a high libido than women and why they cheat more. It is because they are not wired to raise kids, they are wired to reproduce. A man can have sex more and more with more women, yet he won't lose anything, he literally got nothing to lose. So their sex drive is high. But when it comes to a woman, she always has to pick from N number of options as she is gonna carry the offspring and care for the child for a long time. So she chooses a man who thinks she is the love of her life and gives her emotional commitment (it happens in the subconscious, so the conscious mind is not aware of it).

But no matter how deep the love he has, sometimes his physiology tells him to leave her as he is not built for relationships. So his checklist needs to be completed. His mind needs to be tricked that he is reproducing. Reproduction is embedded in our subconscious. The subconscious contains habits, so to make it understand, you have to speak in its language. Which is "habit". Sex is a habit for men, so by giving him sex, you are satisfying his habit and keeping his subconscious in check. When the habit is not satisfied, he will always go looking for other women or at least he will find a way to satisfy his habit as it is built in his nature. So better give good sex to your man. The more good the sex is, the less the chance for cheating. And when men grow old, they lose libido so even if a woman can't satisfy him at that age, there is nothing much to lose.

So you are saying women don't have a high libido? Sorry but this is just a male point of view and not really accurate but thanks and I will not comment more but I do suggest you guys go and research the changing world of female sexuality. More women are divorcing men that the other way round and that alone should tell you how it is all changing - have fun guys and good luck.

 

[Beryl]

So you are saying I should just accept someone's view even if it is wrong? All i do is respond and give them references then it is up to them to check. I go by clear information that is available as anyone would. Am I not allowed to defend things? Or to have an opinion? Just because I defend what I know is not forcing anyone it is merely stating what I know and what is fact - they are all there to be verified if they want to most of what I stated in not my opinion it is the opinion of people far more qualified than me. This is a forum and forums as far as I am aware as for just that sharing information and opinions. Thanks for you messages but I think this has run its course now.

No one asked u to accept thr view but u started it u stated thr view is wrong
I dont give lectures by lethy paras i try it simle and sweet
Its good to have our views but its bad to point out others that u wrong only my view is right
Thats what u r foing from so long

 

[Beryl]

So you are saying women don't have a high libido? Sorry but this is just a male point of view and not really accurate but thanks and I will not comment more but I do suggest you guys go and research the changing world of female sexuality. More women are divorcing men that the other way round and that alone should tell you how it is all changing - have fun guys and good luck.

Not all men and women have high libido
U think all women gave high libido lol

 

[Heart Chaser]

Ok, after reading all replies, I think I should step in.

Let's start from the beginning of time. Let's go back to the origins of mankind. Then we used to live just like animals, we were not better than any animals, of course, we were pack animals but we were savage with no rules, virtues and free birds. Then reproduction comes into the picture, but in our case, unlike animals, human offspring don't grow faster. Our offspring need long-term commitment and care. So we needed a commitment from a man and protection offered by him from other human males. If you see the animal kingdom, you can observe a particular behaviour, if a male wants to continue his genome, he will kill all young offspring of a female, then mate with her to start his own progeny. It is observed in lions and some big cats. It can be observed in our close relatives, primates too (well, not in all of them). Since women are not robustly built to tackle another male and protect their own children, women needed a man's protection. But who can offer the protection better than the father of her kids?? So that started the foundation for relationships. And a relationship is a checklist. It is a long-term commitment.

There is a reason men have a high libido than women and why they cheat more. It is because they are not wired to raise kids, they are wired to reproduce. A man can have sex more and more with more women, yet he won't lose anything, he literally got nothing to lose. So their sex drive is high. But when it comes to a woman, she always has to pick from N number of options as she is gonna carry the offspring and care for the child for a long time. So she chooses a man who thinks she is the love of her life and gives her emotional commitment (it happens in the subconscious, so the conscious mind is not aware of it).

But no matter how deep the love he has, sometimes his physiology tells him to leave her as he is not built for relationships. So his checklist needs to be completed. His mind needs to be tricked that he is reproducing. Reproduction is embedded in our subconscious. The subconscious contains habits, so to make it understand, you have to speak in its language. Which is "habit". Sex is a habit for men, so by giving him sex, you are satisfying his habit and keeping his subconscious in check. When the habit is not satisfied, he will always go looking for other women or at least he will find a way to satisfy his habit as it is built in his nature. So better give good sex to your man. The more good the sex is, the less the chance for cheating. And when men grow old, they lose libido so even if a woman can't satisfy him at that age, there is nothing much to lose.

well said ... Indhama angelina Julie enaku English varaathu nu orey karanathunala thappicha

 

[Julie1]

Not all men and women have high libido
U think all women gave high libido lol

I did not say that i was responding to a comment. If you read everything i have said you will see I say every woman and man is different and that difference is what makes the world interesting

 

[Julie1]

well said ... Indhama angelina Julie enaku English varaathu nu orey karanathunala thappicha

Perhaps he should say it in English or is he afraid too?

 

[Julie1]

No one asked u to accept thr view but u started it u stated thr view is wrong
I dont give lectures by lethy paras i try it simle and sweet
Its good to have our views but its bad to point out others that u wrong only my view is right
Thats what u r foing from so long

I have given points of reference that's all if people want dispute it then they can look at that and then give their points of reference. That's how we get informed

 

[Julie1]

Not all wants to b in the race some likes to be where they are
And all are matured enough to gather information they need
You kept your view is appreciable but u questioned others view which its obvious theg wont like neither you liked when ur viewded whr questioned
Its good to respect others view isn't it?

Every ones point of view should be challenged even mine and they, and I have the right to reply sorry it is not a one way flow. I have merely stated some facts and some opinion like they have they can check and find things to support their point of view just as I have I am not attacking anyone just responding.

 

[Heart Chaser]

Perhaps he should say it in English or is he afraid too?

Lol I'm not afraid of anything well Im just here to entertain my friends... I said I'm not good in English to argue with you... .
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Perhaps I need a new dictionary

 

[Julie1]

Lol I'm not afraid of anything well Im just here to entertain my friends... I said I'm not good in English to argue with you... .
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Perhaps I need a new dictionary

I am not arguing with you just stating and opinion in response to your comments which I happen to disagree with based on known information and as a woman. Perhaps you can provide points of reference like I did that might help good luck

 

[Deleted member 3142]

Perhaps he should say it in English or is he afraid too?

Why do you actually think people are afraid to express their opinions .. here people are from various places so language is a barrier so when you don't understand what he said , don't interpret it in the way you like ...

Here anyone can express their opinions , no one is stopping you ... Just respect others opinions and you will recive the same ...

 

[Kamini]

So you are saying women don't have a high libido? Sorry but this is just a male point of view and not really accurate but thanks and I will not comment more but I do suggest you guys go and research the changing world of female sexuality. More women are divorcing men that the other way round and that alone should tell you how it is all changing - have fun guys and good luck.

I didn't say women don't have a high libido dear, I said relatively men have more. And I am not a male and what part of it is not accurate??

But I do agree @Julie1, the world is changing and women are becoming more job-oriented so we are becoming just like men, as we are becoming independent. Women need no protection from men anymore and we became more civilized so our subconscious is learning new behaviors.

 

[Heart Chaser]

I am not arguing with you just stating and opinion in response to your comments which I happen to disagree with based on known information and as a woman. Perhaps you can provide points of reference like I did that might help good luck

Ha ha Julie ! Julie ! U did ...

Really?? Sex is physical and cerebral as well. it is very possible for it to be recreational and for pleasure without having to be locked in to some emotional attachment and that is reality not fiction as seen by the freedom women are enjoying with sex - look up the sites I have listed you will see. You use the name lusty bull yet you think of sex as purely emotional? sex can and is very wonderful it is a huge pleasure for women is every sense and there are no words to describe to men how wonderful sex feel for women who enjoy sex as not all women do. The situation is what makes the sex thrilling it is what dictates what kind of sex can happen it is about variety, thrill yes adventure and women see that sexually now just as men have for centuries. Women want sex their way not your way and they are more free sexually to have it their way. No woman is the same and many many women want good fun recreational sex not tied to some man who wants them to be in love with them for their ego. We enjoy recreational sex just a men do check it out don't live in an illusion about women we have changed. Unless you are a woman and can understand the wonderful pleasure we get from good varied sex you will never grasp reality. It is only your fear of our sexual freedom that makes you think free sexual women don't get satisfaction along with your narrow perspective of what makes sex thrilling and interesting yes men watch so much porn then expect women to do that for them? We do things because they excite us give us pleasure not because of what some woman is paid to do to entertain men for masturbation. have fun

See this is the way you convey your message that your point of view is stated according to some kinda research or what you told based on known information ... Be kind and just leave your opinion and make sure not to convey others opinion is wrong

 

[Julie1]

Why do you actually think people are afraid to express their opinions .. here people are from various places so language is a barrier so when you don't understand what he said , don't interpret it in the way you like ...

Here anyone can express their opinions , no one is stopping you ... Just respect others opinions and you will recive the same ...

Sorry but it seems they don't like an opinion that is not theirs or is not based on informed opinion or known fact. Everyone here is free to research what i have said then respond. I have commented from known information that is freely available to all.

 

[Heart Chaser]

Why do you actually think people are afraid to express their opinions .. here people are from various places so language is a barrier so when you don't understand what he said , don't interpret it in the way you like ...

Here anyone can express their opinions , no one is stopping you ... Just respect others opinions and you will recive the same ...

Thanksie

 

[Julie1]

I didn't say women don't have a high libido dear, I said relatively men have more. But I am not a male and what part of it is not accurate??

But I do agree @Julie1 world is changing and women are becoming more job-oriented so they are becoming just like men, as they are becoming independent. Women need no protection from men anymore and we became more civilized so the subconscious learning new behavior.

Thank you yes we are far more independent and financially free and also sexually free. It is a good thing for most men and women.

 

[Heart Chaser]

Sorry but it seems they don't like an opinion that is not theirs or is not based on informed opinion or known fact. Everyone here is free to research what i have said then respond. I have commented from known information that is freely available to all.

Okay tell me now Julie what kind a reaserch you do and you always saying according to knowing information can u listed that information here

 

[Kamini]

Thank you yes we are far more independent and financially free and also sexually free. It is a good thing for most men and women.

Okies but I don't agree with you completely though, but I am intrigued which part that I said seem wrong to you?? I am asking so that I can get the right facts.