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Why Cheating?

marcello

marcello

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എന്തുകൊണ്ട് ആവും ഒരാളുമായി relationship ഇൽ ആയിരിക്കുമ്പോൾ മറ്റൊരാളെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നതും അവരെ തേടി പോകുന്നതും? ഒരേ സമയം രണ്ടുപേരെയും അഥവാ.. ഒരാളെ ഉപേക്ഷിച്ചിട്ട് മറ്റൊരാളുടെ കൂടെ പോകുന്നത്?
( Why love and pursue someone else when you are in a relationship? Both at the same time or.. leaving one to go with another? )

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marcello said:
എന്തുകൊണ്ട് ആവും ഒരാളുമായി relationship ഇൽ ആയിരിക്കുമ്പോൾ മറ്റൊരാളെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നതും അവരെ തേടി പോകുന്നതും? ഒരേ സമയം രണ്ടുപേരെയും അഥവാ.. ഒരാളെ ഉപേക്ഷിച്ചിട്ട് മറ്റൊരാളുടെ കൂടെ പോകുന്നത്?
( Why love and pursue someone else when you are in a relationship? Both at the same time or.. leaving one to go with another? )

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A very insightful and sensitive question!

In my opinion, pursuing someone else while being in a relationship is a sign of underlying issues, such as:

1. Unhappiness or unfulfillment in the current relationship.
2. Lack of communication or emotional intimacy with one's partner.
3. Personal insecurities or low self-esteem.
4. Desire for excitement or novelty.

It's essential to acknowledge that relationships involve commitment, trust, and respect. Pursuing someone else while in a relationship can lead to hurt feelings, betrayal, and damage to all parties involved.

Instead of pursuing someone new, it's crucial to:

1. Reflect on the reasons behind your desire to pursue someone else.
2. Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns.
3. Address any underlying issues in your current relationship.
4. Consider counseling or therapy to work through personal issues.

Remember, true fulfillment and happiness come from within. It's essential to focus on personal growth, self-awareness, and nurturing your current relationship rather than seeking external validation or excitement.
*A_AICS
 
marcello said:
എന്തുകൊണ്ട് ആവും ഒരാളുമായി relationship ഇൽ ആയിരിക്കുമ്പോൾ മറ്റൊരാളെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നതും അവരെ തേടി പോകുന്നതും? ഒരേ സമയം രണ്ടുപേരെയും അഥവാ.. ഒരാളെ ഉപേക്ഷിച്ചിട്ട് മറ്റൊരാളുടെ കൂടെ പോകുന്നത്?
( Why love and pursue someone else when you are in a relationship? Both at the same time or.. leaving one to go with another? )

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വിശാലമായ ഹൃദയമുള്ളവർ അങ്ങനെ ആണ്. സ്നേഹം കിട്ടാതെ വിഷമിക്കുന്നവരെ കാണുമ്പോൾ അവർക്കും സ്നേഹം കൊടുക്കാൻ തോന്നും. അതൊരു തെറ്റല്ല എന്നാണ് എന്റെ അഭിപ്രായം. :)
 
marcello said:
എന്തുകൊണ്ട് ആവും ഒരാളുമായി relationship ഇൽ ആയിരിക്കുമ്പോൾ മറ്റൊരാളെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നതും അവരെ തേടി പോകുന്നതും? ഒരേ സമയം രണ്ടുപേരെയും അഥവാ.. ഒരാളെ ഉപേക്ഷിച്ചിട്ട് മറ്റൊരാളുടെ കൂടെ പോകുന്നത്?
( Why love and pursue someone else when you are in a relationship? Both at the same time or.. leaving one to go with another? )

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Nalla chodyam
P.S - site updatenu poyi. Nik boradiknu
 
marcello said:
എന്തുകൊണ്ട് ആവും ഒരാളുമായി relationship ഇൽ ആയിരിക്കുമ്പോൾ മറ്റൊരാളെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നതും അവരെ തേടി പോകുന്നതും? ഒരേ സമയം രണ്ടുപേരെയും അഥവാ.. ഒരാളെ ഉപേക്ഷിച്ചിട്ട് മറ്റൊരാളുടെ കൂടെ പോകുന്നത്?
( Why love and pursue someone else when you are in a relationship? Both at the same time or.. leaving one to go with another? )

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ഏട്ടനെ കുത്തി പറയുന്ന പോലെ തോന്നുന്നു
 


Men psychology is like this...They will go behind females ready for relationship. It's a bitter truth everyone is hiding.. Chila aangalamar ippo ente thalayil kayaran varum...
There may be very very few exceptions.

Females psychology enik ariyilla....
 
Cheating has nothing to do with the worth of the partner that was cheated on. It is done to fill and unfillable void and causes more pain to the one who cheats in the long run because they can't even trust themselves.,!
 
marcello said:
എന്തുകൊണ്ട് ആവും ഒരാളുമായി relationship ഇൽ ആയിരിക്കുമ്പോൾ മറ്റൊരാളെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നതും അവരെ തേടി പോകുന്നതും? ഒരേ സമയം രണ്ടുപേരെയും അഥവാ.. ഒരാളെ ഉപേക്ഷിച്ചിട്ട് മറ്റൊരാളുടെ കൂടെ പോകുന്നത്?
( Why love and pursue someone else when you are in a relationship? Both at the same time or.. leaving one to go with another? )

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Instead of using more words let me say it in one line "cheap behaviour " i feel this word is enough coz when we are in a relationship its like we r promising them to be with them at any cost as we are Loving them ..

Persuing others is just proving they lied and the partner who got betrayed should know that, is saying love u is a lie? Or promising to stay is a lie? ...
 
GandharvaJr said:
ഏട്ടനെ കുത്തി പറയുന്ന പോലെ തോന്നുന്നു
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ആരെയും കുത്താൻവേണ്ടി അല്ല പോസ്റ്റ്‌... Actually alll my posts are to share my opinion :giggle:
 
Elsa said:
Instead of using more words let me say it in one line "cheap behaviour " i feel this word is enough coz when we are in a relationship its like we r promising them to be with them at any cost as we are Loving them ..

Persuing others is just proving they lied and the partner who got betrayed should know that, is saying love u is a lie? Or promising to stay is a lie? ...
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I won't support cheating, but there is always a reason!!
 
ＥＲＯＳ said:
വിശാലമായ ഹൃദയമുള്ളവർ അങ്ങനെ ആണ്. സ്നേഹം കിട്ടാതെ വിഷമിക്കുന്നവരെ കാണുമ്പോൾ അവർക്കും സ്നേഹം കൊടുക്കാൻ തോന്നും. അതൊരു തെറ്റല്ല എന്നാണ് എന്റെ അഭിപ്രായം. :)
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വിശാലമായ മനസ്സ് എപ്പോഴും നല്ലതല്ല :giggle::angel:
 
Anshhi said:
A very insightful and sensitive question!

In my opinion, pursuing someone else while being in a relationship is a sign of underlying issues, such as:

1. Unhappiness or unfulfillment in the current relationship.
2. Lack of communication or emotional intimacy with one's partner.
3. Personal insecurities or low self-esteem.
4. Desire for excitement or novelty.

It's essential to acknowledge that relationships involve commitment, trust, and respect. Pursuing someone else while in a relationship can lead to hurt feelings, betrayal, and damage to all parties involved.

Instead of pursuing someone new, it's crucial to:

1. Reflect on the reasons behind your desire to pursue someone else.
2. Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns.
3. Address any underlying issues in your current relationship.
4. Consider counseling or therapy to work through personal issues.

Remember, true fulfillment and happiness come from within. It's essential to focus on personal growth, self-awareness, and nurturing your current relationship rather than seeking external validation or excitement.
*A_AICS
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Well said:clapping::heart1:
 
marcello said:
I won't support cheating, but there is always a reason
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Cheating is cheating there's no explanation for it....!!

It's always a personal decision to cheat someone.

Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are, if there's no further hope, they will end that relationship with mutual consent and move to another...

This idea came to my mind when i read your post.. May or may not match the thread, its just a relationship advice.

"There are a group of people who gets easily attached to people... You actually don't get attached to the person, but what you get attached to is the version of them that you create in your mind. So every time you are INFATUATED OR OBSESSED with a person, what you are doing is....., YOU are looking at only the GOOD SIDES of the person and creating an ideal version of them in your mind.

Also Forgetting the reality that you are with someone or committed and also forgetting the reality that no one is either only good or only bad.

All have both sides the best solution to this ADDICTION OR FANTASY is to ask yourself do I actually like them for who they are, or do I like the version of them that is in my head...?!

The reason why you get hurt or upset is not because of their action, it's because, their action did not match with the fantasy that you have about them in your mind. All of us have qualities that are 'great and that are not so great' and all we want is to get accepted, appreciated and valued for who we are.


So Learn to love and accept the people who are with you with all their heart.

Your eyes reflects your soul. The beauty of the person is to see through their soul and also their actions that aligns with their values.
 
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Anshhi said:
A very insightful and sensitive question!

In my opinion, pursuing someone else while being in a relationship is a sign of underlying issues, such as:

1. Unhappiness or unfulfillment in the current relationship.
2. Lack of communication or emotional intimacy with one's partner.
3. Personal insecurities or low self-esteem.
4. Desire for excitement or novelty.

It's essential to acknowledge that relationships involve commitment, trust, and respect. Pursuing someone else while in a relationship can lead to hurt feelings, betrayal, and damage to all parties involved.

Instead of pursuing someone new, it's crucial to:

1. Reflect on the reasons behind your desire to pursue someone else.
2. Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns.
3. Address any underlying issues in your current relationship.
4. Consider counseling or therapy to work through personal issues.

Remember, true fulfillment and happiness come from within. It's essential to focus on personal growth, self-awareness, and nurturing your current relationship rather than seeking external validation or excitement.
*A_AICS
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True that..!
 
ＥＲＯＳ said:
വിശാലമായ ഹൃദയമുള്ളവർ അങ്ങനെ ആണ്. സ്നേഹം കിട്ടാതെ വിഷമിക്കുന്നവരെ കാണുമ്പോൾ അവർക്കും സ്നേഹം കൊടുക്കാൻ തോന്നും. അതൊരു തെറ്റല്ല എന്നാണ് എന്റെ അഭിപ്രായം. :)
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ദൈവം ഇങ്ങനെ സ്നേഹം കൊടുക്കാൻ തുടങ്ങിയാൽ ഞങ്ങൾ മനുഷ്യർ എന്നാ ചെയ്യും....
 
People cheat for various reasons, including dissatisfaction in their relationship, emotional or physical needs not being met, thrill-seeking, lack of self-control, or simply opportunism. Some may also cheat due to unresolved personal issues, such as insecurity or past trauma.
Each to their own and I don't want to judge because I don't know wht broke them ....ppl choose diff ways to fix themselves.
When ppl choose to cheat out of lack of self control....THAT is something that shld not be overlooked.
 
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