Moderators and admins can step in to correct things, like stopping people from sharing obscene gifs or using private parts as their display pictures. Just doing these things doesn’t make someone a "macho" or a "goddess of lust." But instead of focusing on this, moderators seem to pay attention to smaller issues like using regional languages, which is fine for a light warning but not the main issue.
It’s actually these moderators who are making obscenity seem normal. Even though this is a sex chat or adult site, there should still be boundaries that people often forget. If the moderators and admins gave proper warnings or told users to change their inappropriate DPs and stop sharing pornographic gifs, it would help.
In India, as we all know, pornography is banned. There’s a thin line between erotic content and pornography, and this is where moderators and admins need to use their judgment.
@Hades , I hope you can consider this suggestion and pass it on to the other admins and moderators in a friendly way. It’s just a suggestion that would only prevent the issue to some extent but not entirely. When people see DPs with private parts or pornographic gifs, it gives the wrong impression—that everyone here is desperate for sex.