To be honest, I'm so old school when it comes to romance; it's not about what we're going to do; it's about how you appreciate your partner. It starts with your eyes when you don't even speak, but your partner can feel that craving that you already have. Then it goes to those cuddles, then kisses, and so on.
But it's all about those feelings that you have when everything, like your body, boobs, and bla bla, is just an illusion. Because if there are feelings, she is the most beautiful girl on the planet, or else she is just a piece of meat to fuck.
So basically, feelings do everything; we're just puppets of those feelings.