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What do you do if someone likes and dislikes you for the same reason ?

@URum @Deepa Reddy @SiRa I was taught love is all about giving and I still do go by it, the last time I heard "its the same old you, nothings changed" we giggled had a laugh, had a moment.

With all the chaos running around, people have less time to change if they do change there's gonna be a time when they'll miss the old you whom they loved and go "you changed"

At times I feel sacrifices are overrated, when you're not being loved for who you are Is it really worth being loved? Let people love you for who you are and let us love for who they are.
 
Butter_Bun said:
@URum @Deepa Reddy @SiRa I was taught love is all about giving and I still do go by it, the last time I heard "its the same old you, nothings changed" we giggled had a laugh, had a moment.

With all the chaos running around, people have less time to change if they do change there's gonna be a time when they'll miss the old you whom they loved and go "you changed"

At times I feel sacrifices are overrated, when you're not being loved for who you are Is it really worth being loved? Let people love you for who you are and let us love for who they are.
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Precisely why I said don't change. The core you will not accept a different you. My school mates still say I haven't changed. Be yourself people will want that originality and uniqueness
 
Sloka said:
Can't help.....

We wer liked by the person for some reason..... And now it has became the reason for dislike means the problem is with the person....
He may come with many stupid supporting reasons like situations... person etc etc bla bla.... But all are just the stupid reasons for breakup ......
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Yeah so true problem is in person wonderfullyy said. Ignoring her or him is good then @Butter_Bun
 
Butter_Bun said:
@URum @Deepa Reddy @SiRa I was taught love is all about giving and I still do go by it, the last time I heard "its the same old you, nothings changed" we giggled had a laugh, had a moment.

With all the chaos running around, people have less time to change if they do change there's gonna be a time when they'll miss the old you whom they loved and go "you changed"

At times I feel sacrifices are overrated, when you're not being loved for who you are Is it really worth being loved? Let people love you for who you are and let us love for who they are.
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Yeah that's why i told that.. never change....
Even if you change and they like it....
You will Always miss a piece of yourself..
 
SiRa said:
Bro it depends on both giver and receiver's moods and needs!
If someone is very low and craving for attention , u give them all and they  like it and later they are out of their low phase still we don't stop giving attention, sometimes we do it more and more because they liked it ,but now they really don't need it , so they might dislike it !

What to do?
Balance is the key...as they say wear high heels on Saturday and walk barefoot on Sunday... sometimes more .. sometimes less!!
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What if the person liked for what he is and believed in everything he said but it turns out to be different that he actually does the opp for what he said .
 
I don't even give a fuck to them , then h0w the hell I care their opinion. Nothing to do. Just to ignore as road side barking dogs or footpath fellow :emo:
 
First learn what made them like you for “that reason” <whys and hows>
and then just look if there’s anything wrong in the way it’s been portrayed in the past or being portrayed wrong now or if it’s always been the same.

For example: if it’s flirting, they might’ve liked when you flirted only them but maybe they don’t like you flirting the same way with others.

So it’s to you whether to change yourself or the person.

IMO, it’s always worth it going for the one that takes you for who you are.

Just make sure there’s no misunderstanding between you two about “that reason”
If it’s something silly, you know what to say - “ _|_ “ this would do good I guess
 
I used to be a people pleaser. So i do adjust myself according to their perspective about me. And am so done being that way. Being caged into something that is unhealthy for you and hinders your growth as a person.

Now i just dont give a damn and that feels great to be able to do what you want and it does not really matter — those external voices that tried and still maybe trying to say negative shtz xD stay free and do what you do.
 
Butter_Bun said:
I'm really curious !

I thought a lot and I haven't quite understood why it happens or what to do, so here I am with my eyes lit up with excitement.
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My ex loved me cause of my aggression also hated me for my temper but now I listen monk's podcasts , helped me to overcome it
 
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