Your words resonate deeply, and you're right, big decisions require careful consideration of all aspects. Happiness is indeed a precious thing, and while it may not see time, it's worth taking the time to ensure it lasts. And don't worry about saying too much; I appreciate your openness and wisdom.
Well what i want to say is that, not all five fingers in your own hands are the same, so not all inviduals are the same as well. There are for sure some exceptional cases as well and yes ones past shouldnt be a guideline to judge someone else. Its all about general statements i have mentioned. Anyways given a chance to talk might change your perspective about the trust and whatever you have mentioned. On a lighter note, we all love once and live happily