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Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
 
Aparnah said:
Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
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What bright thinking ...:fingercross:
 
Aparnah said:
Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
Click to expand...
Great lines
 
Aparnah said:
Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
Click to expand...
Nyc lines.. very beautiful
 
Aparnah said:
Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
Click to expand...
Nice:)
 
Aparnah said:
Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
Click to expand...
Yah good
 
Aparnah said:
Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
Click to expand...

Aparnah said:
Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
Click to expand...
You mentioned themes of self-doubt and self-love in your poem, which I find intriguing. However, I wonder about the nature of "the self" itself. Given that "the self" is inherently comparative and rooted in past experiences, leading to internal conflicts and even violence, how can "the self" genuinely love another person? Is it possible for "the self", with its tendencies towards comparison and conceptualization, to experience true, unconditional love? Or does the very nature of "the self" inherently prevent this?
 
Aparnah said:
Self!
~Aparnah

In the quiet corners of our minds it lingers,
The question that haunts and nags, it lingers.
Am I good enough, we silently wonder,
As doubts and fears tear our thoughts asunder.

Through the growth of mental health we navigate,
Encountering strangers who echo the same debate.
Amidst the chaos of our own self-reflection,
We search for answers, seeking validation.

But is anyone truly good enough, we ponder,
In a world where we're all constantly changing, we wonder.
There is no endpoint to this quest for perfection,
Only a journey of growth and self-discovery in every direction.

We question if we're worthy of love's embrace,
If we're deserving of kindness and grace.
Am I good enough for hugs and time spent?
Or is self-doubt a wall that we've built, an impediment?

So let us shift the narrative, let us dare,
To believe in ourselves, to show ourselves care.
And in this world, we hold the power to love,
To be kind to ourselves, a gift from above.

So when the doubts creep in and the fears arise,
Remember, you are good enough in your own eyes.
Trust in yourself, in your worth and your light,
For you are enough, always, shining bright.



______________________________________________

This is something for our-self, some doubts we have on our-self, and the love we should want for our-self to find answer for that doubt. (Self doubt, self love). Hope you all will get out of it, soon! Take care.
Hands on your, heart and it'll whisper.

"you're good enough"​
Click to expand...
Great,nice lines
 
JalJala said:
You mentioned themes of self-doubt and self-love in your poem, which I find intriguing. However, I wonder about the nature of "the self" itself. Given that "the self" is inherently comparative and rooted in past experiences, leading to internal conflicts and even violence, how can "the self" genuinely love another person? Is it possible for "the self", with its tendencies towards comparison and conceptualization, to experience true, unconditional love? Or does the very nature of "the self" inherently prevent this?
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It may be that "the self" cannot experience true unconditional love. However, the past, with its traumas that make you feel weak and unworthy, offers a path to self-acceptance. Embracing and accepting the self, despite its flaws and past wounds, is crucial. This acceptance empowers you to stand up, move forward, and perhaps find a deeper form of love that transcends comparison and judgment.
 
Damon5598 said:
It may be that "the self" cannot experience true unconditional love. However, the past, with its traumas that make you feel weak and unworthy, offers a path to self-acceptance. Embracing and accepting the self, despite its flaws and past wounds, is crucial. This acceptance empowers you to stand up, move forward, and perhaps find a deeper form of love that transcends comparison and judgment.
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"Experiencing is desire, while witnessing is love, where you see things as they are but can’t capture them. The moment you try to capture, it becomes desire, which perpetuates the cycle of birth and death. Love, having already witnessed this cycle, avoids 'describing or naming anything' because it has seen the consequences of such actions. Desire, on the other hand, seeks to 'understand' rather than 'see,' and thus continues its cycle of birth and death. Desire is not love.

Experiencing 'the self' is desire, akin to pleasure or pain, while witnessing 'the self' is love, which brings everything to a state of stillness."
 
JalJala said:
"Experiencing is desire, while witnessing is love, where you see things as they are but can’t capture them. The moment you try to capture, it becomes desire, which perpetuates the cycle of birth and death. Love, having already witnessed this cycle, avoids 'describing or naming anything' because it has seen the consequences of such actions. Desire, on the other hand, seeks to 'understand' rather than 'see,' and thus continues its cycle of birth and death. Desire is not love.

Experiencing 'the self' is desire, akin to pleasure or pain, while witnessing 'the self' is love, which brings everything to a state of stillness."
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Exactly, but in between, there is a thin line called hope...

While desire tries to grasp and hold, leading to constant longing and disappointment, hope brings calmness and optimism. Hope aligns well with simply observing and loving, as it looks forward to good things without disturbing your current peace. Choosing hope over desire can break the cycle of always wanting more and bring a deeper sense of contentment and calm.
 
Damon5598 said:
Exactly, but in between, there is a thin line called hope...

While desire tries to grasp and hold, leading to constant longing and disappointment, hope brings calmness and optimism. Hope aligns well with simply observing and loving, as it looks forward to good things without disturbing your current peace. Choosing hope over desire can break the cycle of always wanting more and bring a deeper sense of contentment and calm.
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How can hope give you peace of mind when hope itself is a form of desire—a thought born out of comparison from accumulated memories, which we refer to as knowledge? This knowledge, as a thought or thinker, resides in the past and is continuously thinking, moving, incomplete, and comparative.


The present moment does not have a future; however, the past invents a future that eventually becomes the present.
 
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