Duty anukunte veru.. Responsibility anukunte veru;
Duty anukunte you feel that baram or pain or bhada..When you take is as a responsibility, baram - pain - bhada are very small trivial things.
Are we talking about physical or emotional or mental pain here?
If you are of the age group 15-35, thinking about lost love OR being in a relationship that has no closure or a tagless relationship - I would just laugh and pass. Move on!! I am not hinting you at speed dating or whatever here. Try earnestly and ardently, if things didn't work out - it is alright. But if you know it is not going to work out and still staying there, that is stupidity. You are to blame, here. Badha em karma, depression kuda osthundi.
Coming to other bandhaalu,
1. Think of your mom/ any similar divine creature - would we be here? baram or pain anukunte? - endukante amma eppudu duty ankodu.. responsibility ankuntadi..thanu lekapote inka evaru leru ankuntadi..
2. Think of your dad/ grandpa or mom/ elderly family positioning authority - no family is perfect, chala ups and downs ravachu..they are very good navigators. Enni chusiuntaru, chinna godava, noppi - adi edi ani - prathi sari odhileskuntu velte, manaki evaru undaru. You need to nurture every relation, try to fix as much and break less.
3. Pain, badha, bharam or whatever - they are infact cures; they make you strong and better person. But move past it, after your experience. No need to think of it again and again OR go back to episodes.
4. Some psychos or sadist or other chatta or negative relations, cut - cut - cut; don't even give a chance to explain yourself.
