Am not into those Situations Muthuma, bt my thought is..
Kalyanam aprm gals ku evlo kashtam iruko, kalyanathuku munnadi guys ku avlo kashtam iruku..
U mentioned sondha veetla jolly ah irundhurpom nu, aftr mrrg mudiyala lyk, Porandhadhula irundhey amma appa koodavey irundha boys, going to clg staying in hostel nu family vittu velaguvom, veetla Raja maadhri irundhurpom, oru naal leave ku ooruku pona, ellathayum vittutu ingaye irundhurlam nu thonum, bt mudiyadhu padipu mukiyam. Sari job poita amma appa kooda irukalam nu paatha, engayo vela kedaikum, oru vela sapda kaasillama verum TEA mattum kudichu vaazhra guys Exist.. Nan irundhurken.
IIdhuku idaila Heart Breaks vera, leave ku amma madila paduthuklam veetla nimmadhiya irukalam nu povom, porapo ponavala nenachutu povom, aana veetuku pona adutha nimisham ellamey marandhu santhoshama irupom, 2 hrs maadhri irukum, 2 days odirum. Again same pain, same longing of home nu kelambi sondha ooru, sondha veeda vittutu kelambi porom. Govt. job irukravan amma appa kooda irupan, bt pvt la irukravan kashtam ma..
SSari nalla earn pandrom, family ah kooptukalam nu paatha, avanga native vittu vara matanga, paavam aged and avangaluku anga set aairkum. Aprm edhadhu solli oru kalyanam panni veipanga.. Ivlo naal yaarumey illama thaniya irundha oru paiyan, avanukunu oruthi vandha, avala romba freeya vidanumnu nenaika maatan.. Avala aravanachu koodavey vachukanumnu thaan yosippan.. 2 family um mukkiyam nu yosikra pasangalum irukanga..
Job also native la irukadhu, engayadhu poi guy n gal irupanga, new place la protective ah paathukanum, loving ah irukanum, offz stress samalikanum, monthly expense amma and wife ku equal ah contribute pannanum, offz la evanachum kova patturpan adha express pannama irukanum, ipdi oru tym la pala thoughts mind la vachutu nadakanum..
Kashtam ma Rombaaa kashtam..
idhu edhuku sonnen na, 2 side um kashtangal iruku, Kashtam illana lyf assault aairum Muthuma. Irukradhu oru lyf, idhu thaan namma vazhi nu aaidchu, pochey pochey nu feel pannama, dhairiyama lead pannu, love ur hubby.. Support him, avan kitta nee kekama unga veetuku kooptu ponum., u can b bold than this. Dont feel..
And enaku kalayanam aagala, so am nt much experienced wit these, bt oru bachelor aavum.. Married guys kooda irukradhunalayum i got some idea and shared those.. SORRY if it hurts any..!!