It's Me, Myself

[NEPTUNE]

I admit. I'm quite a slow learner. The hardest part is to read a mind- to realize your place in someone's brain and to know what the real intention of a person is, who pretends to be the savior of our life from the miseries and pain that we endure, and then suddenly disappears.

I learnt it, not with in a day or so. Rather, gradually. A wolf can wear a sheep skin- n preferences change over time.

The once *constant contacts*, turns into rare chats over time. The bridge to *stranger-hood* is too short.

The very core of this subject is- don't ever be completely reliant on your partner when you are in a relation. At the end of the day, it's your war, it's your story, it's your pains and no other mor*ns would be there to aid u when you are needy.

Learn to respect your feelings and comforts over others happiness. Being selfish in a selfish world won't do bad. Accept it- world won't treat u same all the time.

If someone charts off your life, then elope outta the person. Run as far as u can, dat he won't be able to chase your reason.

Learn to forget. Learn to prioritize your peace. Be the sole dictator of your life- be a Hitler, in case if someone limits your freedom

It's Me, Myself- dats important.

Afterall, *Situationship* predominates over *Relationship*.

#be selfish.

~NEPTUNE

 

[Lion_Hearted]

I admit. I'm quite a slow learner. The hardest part is to read a mind- to realize your place in someone's brain and to know what the real intention of a person is, who pretends to be the savior of our life from the miseries and pain that we endure, and then suddenly disappears.

I learnt it, not with in a day or so. Rather, gradually. A wolf can wear a sheep skin- n preferences change over time.

The once *constant contacts*, turns into rare chats over time. The bridge to *stranger-hood* is too short.

The very core of this subject is- don't ever be completely reliant on your partner when you are in a relation. At the end of the day, it's your war, it's your story, it's your pains and no other mor*ns would be there to aid u when you are needy.

Learn to respect your feelings and comforts over others happiness. Being selfish in a selfish world won't do bad. Accept it- world won't treat u same all the time.

If someone charts off your life, then elope outta the person. Run as far as u can, dat he won't be able to chase your reason.

Learn to forget. Learn to prioritize your peace. Be the sole dictator of your life- be a Hitler, in case if someone limits your freedom

It's Me, Myself- dats important.

Afterall, *Situationship* predominates over *Relationship*.

#be selfish.

~NEPTUNE

This is raw, real, and filled with the weight of hard-earned lessons. It speaks to the painful truth that people change, connections fade, and not everyone who enters our lives stays.

You’ve captured something many struggle to accept—the transition from "constant" to "stranger" can be shockingly quick. And the realization that, in the end, we are our own saviors is both liberating and heartbreaking.

Your words carry the essence of resilience. Prioritizing your own peace over others' fleeting loyalties isn't selfish—it's survival. If someone walks away, let them. If they take you for granted, reclaim yourself.

And that last line—"Situationship predominates over Relationship"—hits hard. It’s a modern reality where temporary bonds often overshadow lasting commitment.

Your words resonate deeply. Did this come from personal experience, or is it a reflection of what you’ve observed around you?

 

[Purplee Heart(Elisa_Dass)]

I admit. I'm quite a slow learner. The hardest part is to read a mind- to realize your place in someone's brain and to know what the real intention of a person is, who pretends to be the savior of our life from the miseries and pain that we endure, and then suddenly disappears.

I learnt it, not with in a day or so. Rather, gradually. A wolf can wear a sheep skin- n preferences change over time.

The once *constant contacts*, turns into rare chats over time. The bridge to *stranger-hood* is too short.

The very core of this subject is- don't ever be completely reliant on your partner when you are in a relation. At the end of the day, it's your war, it's your story, it's your pains and no other mor*ns would be there to aid u when you are needy.

Learn to respect your feelings and comforts over others happiness. Being selfish in a selfish world won't do bad. Accept it- world won't treat u same all the time.

If someone charts off your life, then elope outta the person. Run as far as u can, dat he won't be able to chase your reason.

Learn to forget. Learn to prioritize your peace. Be the sole dictator of your life- be a Hitler, in case if someone limits your freedom

It's Me, Myself- dats important.

Afterall, *Situationship* predominates over *Relationship*.

#be selfish.

~NEPTUNE

I get what you are saying,its tough when people change, and it feels like they leave you behind. prioritizing yourself is important, but i also believe that not everyone is out to betray or abandon us. finding the right balance between trusting others and guarding yourself is tricky.....​

 

[Maraa]

 

[NEPTUNE]

Smoking is injurious to health, smoking causes cancer.

 

[Maraa]

Smoking is injurious to health, smoking causes cancer.

Vaa vaaaaa dont feel...

 

[Garygoodboy]

I admit. I'm quite a slow learner. The hardest part is to read a mind- to realize your place in someone's brain and to know what the real intention of a person is, who pretends to be the savior of our life from the miseries and pain that we endure, and then suddenly disappears.

I learnt it, not with in a day or so. Rather, gradually. A wolf can wear a sheep skin- n preferences change over time.

The once *constant contacts*, turns into rare chats over time. The bridge to *stranger-hood* is too short.

The very core of this subject is- don't ever be completely reliant on your partner when you are in a relation. At the end of the day, it's your war, it's your story, it's your pains and no other mor*ns would be there to aid u when you are needy.

Learn to respect your feelings and comforts over others happiness. Being selfish in a selfish world won't do bad. Accept it- world won't treat u same all the time.

If someone charts off your life, then elope outta the person. Run as far as u can, dat he won't be able to chase your reason.

Learn to forget. Learn to prioritize your peace. Be the sole dictator of your life- be a Hitler, in case if someone limits your freedom

It's Me, Myself- dats important.

Afterall, *Situationship* predominates over *Relationship*.

#be selfish.

~NEPTUNE

This is so strong, I feel a lot of different emotions coming from you with this xx

 

[Honey bunch]

I admit. I'm quite a slow learner. The hardest part is to read a mind- to realize your place in someone's brain and to know what the real intention of a person is, who pretends to be the savior of our life from the miseries and pain that we endure, and then suddenly disappears.

I learnt it, not with in a day or so. Rather, gradually. A wolf can wear a sheep skin- n preferences change over time.

The once *constant contacts*, turns into rare chats over time. The bridge to *stranger-hood* is too short.

The very core of this subject is- don't ever be completely reliant on your partner when you are in a relation. At the end of the day, it's your war, it's your story, it's your pains and no other mor*ns would be there to aid u when you are needy.

Learn to respect your feelings and comforts over others happiness. Being selfish in a selfish world won't do bad. Accept it- world won't treat u same all the time.

If someone charts off your life, then elope outta the person. Run as far as u can, dat he won't be able to chase your reason.

Learn to forget. Learn to prioritize your peace. Be the sole dictator of your life- be a Hitler, in case if someone limits your freedom

It's Me, Myself- dats important.

Afterall, *Situationship* predominates over *Relationship*.

#be selfish.

~NEPTUNE

I understand how difficult this must be for you.

I've experienced similar things myself, especially in friendships, and I’ve learned that sometimes, we can't expect others to share the same connection with us. It can be painful when someone you trusted suddenly disappears or changes.

Letting go isn’t just about releasing people, but also about letting go of the memories tied to them. It’s about honoring your feelings and focusing on what’s around you.

Even when you least expect it, someone will be there, no matter where you stand emotionally.

Prioritizing your peace and well-being is important, and it's okay to choose yourself first.

In a world where things shift unexpectedly, protecting your emotional health is key. Remember, it's your journey, your story, and your peace matters the most.

​

 

[Indrajith]

Lesson learnt in hard way ?

No worries it's a learning curve and everything is an experience u need to endure for the future.

 

[Honey bunch]

The right person will come to you at the right time @NEPTUNE

Don’t focus on what or who left, focus on what’s around you. Even when you least expect it, someone will be there, no matter whether you’re at your best or worst.

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[Garygoodboy]

The right person will come to you at the right time @NEPTUNE

Don’t focus on what or who left, focus on what’s around you. Even when you least expect it, someone will be there, no matter whether you’re at your best or worst.

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Well said @Honey bunch x

 

[Bhoot]

To be happy stop expecting anything.
To be self reliant stop excepting anything.
To be happy by yourself, stop expecting some one to bring it to you.

Moral : Expectation kills

 

[NEPTUNE]

To be happy stop expecting anything.
To be self reliant stop excepting anything.
To be happy by yourself, stop expecting some one to bring it to you.

Moral : Expectation kills

tho, life widout expectations 'll be so plain n simple. If u wanna decor it, u must hope outta comfort zone. N in dat case expectations r basic.

 

[Honey bunch]

To be happy stop expecting anything.
To be self reliant stop excepting anything.
To be happy by yourself, stop expecting some one to bring it to you.

Moral : Expectation kills

Expectations hurt at first, and then that hurt eventually destroys U..

 

[Bhoot]

tho, life widout expectations 'll be so plain n simple. If u wanna decor it, u must hope outta comfort zone. N in dat case expectations r basic.

Try live a simple life , at first it seems hard but once you become habituated, you'll surely tates it's Nectar

 

[Bhoot]

Expectations hurt at first, and then that hurt eventually destroys U..

Yes! expectations hurts us badly.

 

[Solara]

I hear ya there my girl...

Completely relatable ... *Hugs*

 

[NEPTUNE]

I hear ya there my girl...

Completely relatable ... *Hugs*

Huggies alone? chocolates?

 

[Honey bunch]

Huggies alone? chocolates?

She is as sweet as chocolate

Then why you asking chocolate

 

[SiRa]

I admit. I'm quite a slow learner. The hardest part is to read a mind- to realize your place in someone's brain and to know what the real intention of a person is, who pretends to be the savior of our life from the miseries and pain that we endure, and then suddenly disappears.

I learnt it, not with in a day or so. Rather, gradually. A wolf can wear a sheep skin- n preferences change over time.

The once *constant contacts*, turns into rare chats over time. The bridge to *stranger-hood* is too short.

The very core of this subject is- don't ever be completely reliant on your partner when you are in a relation. At the end of the day, it's your war, it's your story, it's your pains and no other mor*ns would be there to aid u when you are needy.

Learn to respect your feelings and comforts over others happiness. Being selfish in a selfish world won't do bad. Accept it- world won't treat u same all the time.

If someone charts off your life, then elope outta the person. Run as far as u can, dat he won't be able to chase your reason.

Learn to forget. Learn to prioritize your peace. Be the sole dictator of your life- be a Hitler, in case if someone limits your freedom

It's Me, Myself- dats important.

Afterall, *Situationship* predominates over *Relationship*.

#be selfish.

~NEPTUNE

You're not alone—this is a part of everyone's story specially in this virtual space..At some point, we all go through it. Making peace with it doesn't happen overnight, so let it take its own sweet time. Eventually, we move on from what was never meant for us...cheers!!