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Is your happiness all about your partner's happiness?

Do you believe that if your partner is happy, you will always be happy?

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Butter Bun said:
I can be happy for my partners happiness, being happy for one and being happy with self are two different things.

Having a partner who is happy for the others happiness is a good thing, expecting him/her to be happy jus because the other person is happy isn't.

Maybe many would have come across the phrase "my partner isn't happy for me" might sometimes convey he/she has to be happy coz I am ! Duhh jus like you got two stomachs to be filled, there are two peoples emotions in play.

For me its about easing each others burden letting one find comfort in their presence, the comfort to be vulnerable with each other if one can find that comfort, maybe they'll find happiness together instead of trying to brush off their own.
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Very subtly and bluntly put guru! Glad u choose to respond in full! Cheers!
 
JalJala said:
If you can understand, it's a little bit lengthy

Just look don’t agree or disagree
My personal view
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The purpose of the relationship<love> itself is to "End of division or differentiation<choice>=OR and to create a total image<I=singular> which symbolizes Compassion which can't be described which can only be seen.

Relationship<I=and>=You and me=only One=No choice =Need=Love =Present<Now>=Understanding
No relationship<OR>=You or me =Not one =Choice =Want =Memories=Past =Differentiation.

And=I=Only One=Fact=Singlular=relationship=balance<totality>=fact=Compassion<Understanding>=Life
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Me and you
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You <Passion>, Your partner<Passion>=Total passion=Compassion

Note: - Relationship never operates "OR" it always "AND".
OR=Option<choice
AND=Need <No choice>
The relationship is a Living fact that can't be analyzed only it is "Observed" because whatever is "Living" can't be measured.

There is nothing called Your or your partner's happiness in a relationship, there is only
Happiness belongs to both<Only one>.

So where there is differentiation<choice=doubt=fear> there is no relationship at all.
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts mate
 
For the little time I was in a relationship, the ideal thing is too ensure your partner is happy. If he/she is happy rest assured they would do the same
 
Happiness is subjective, and everyone has their own definition. For some, it might come from having financial security, while for others, it might come from being with loved ones. Personally, I believe it's important not to define your happiness solely based on another person. Even if you feel you are soulmates destined to be together, it's natural for your partner to hurt you (most often unintentionally) at some point. It’s a part of being human, and it’s okay—no one is perfect. The key is how you accept these moments and work through them.

This doesn’t mean you won’t be happy for your partner’s successes—we all feel happiness, pride, and excitement for our loved ones. What I'm trying to convey is that you shouldn't place 100% of your happiness on one person. Circumstances may sometimes prevent us from being our true selves, and expecting someone else to live up to our expectations is unrealistic.

So, to answer your question, "Do you believe that if your partner is happy, you will ALWAYS be happy?" Most of the time, yes, but not always. Differences in opinions will arise, and that's okay—he/she is the love of your life, and those differences don’t diminish that..

Instead, have your own principles and live by them. Your partner should fit into your life in a way that aligns with your values or loves you for who you are, regardless of the ups and downs. That’s what true love is.
 
OliviaRose said:
Personally, I believe it's important not to define your happiness solely based on another person
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Yeah. Sharing the same opinion. and yes, people's happiness comes in different forms and sources.

Most of the time, yes, but not always.
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I do understand as individuals, few perspectives overlap and few can be opposite.

I am really glad you took time to respond in length, and pouring your views Miss @OliviaRose. Much appreciated. Keep sharing ur thoughts everywhere u can.
 
Rockzz ✨श्वेतराग✨ said:
Happiness is a positive and pleasant emotion.
As far as happiness is concerned it does not depend only the partner.
But yes, when our partner is happy then we also feel happy.
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Happiness truly is a beautiful and positive emotion, and while it can be influenced by our partners, it isn't solely dependent on them. Genuine happiness comes from within, from accepting others as they are—regardless of gender, caste, creed, religion, or any other differences. When we respect and embrace each other's uniqueness without expecting anything in return, we foster an environment where love and trust can naturally thrive. Let love prevail, built on a foundation of mutual respect, understanding, and unconditional acceptance. That's where true happiness lies.
 
nitzzz said:
Happiness truly is a beautiful and positive emotion, and while it can be influenced by our partners, it isn't solely dependent on them. Genuine happiness comes from within, from accepting others as they are—regardless of gender, caste, creed, religion, or any other differences. When we respect and embrace each other's uniqueness without expecting anything in return, we foster an environment where love and trust can naturally thrive. Let love prevail, built on a foundation of mutual respect, understanding, and unconditional acceptance. That's where true happiness lies
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Inspiring very much
Yeah, happiness comes from within
 
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