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How does SHE ask for SEX ?

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A woman asking out for SEX, has been considered a taboo for long, as men were regarded as pleasure seekers and women pleasure givers , coz they didnt know how to make a lady orgasm !!!!!

But tables have turned ,the pleasure seeking amongst women is on the rise.
So how do you think a woman communicates to her partner that she is " moody ", " horny", " high " that will facilitate into having sex ?

Most men tend to "brand" women when she makes the first move.To top it men find it offensive if a woman is clear and demands on how she wants her body to be treated ! Is it wrong to express the carnal pleasure and desire ?

# WHY SHOULD MEN HAVE ALL THE FUN #


And has ZOZO become a safe space for women to ask and reach out for sex ?


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Pinkcandy said:
A woman asking out for SEX, has been considered a taboo for long, as men were regarded as pleasure seekers and women pleasure givers , coz they didnt know how to make a lady orgasm !!!!!

But tables have turned ,the pleasure seeking amongst women is on the rise.
So how do you think a woman communicates to her partner that she is " moody ", " horny", " high " that will facilitate into having sex ?

Most men tend to "brand" women when she makes the first move.To top it men find it offensive if a woman is clear and demands on how she wants her body to be treated ! Is it wrong to express the carnal pleasure and desire ?

# WHY SHOULD MEN HAVE ALL THE FUN #


And has ZOZO become a safe space for women to ask and reach out for sex ?


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Admin madam, you're bringing the heat! Breaking down stigmas and pushing boundaries like a boss. I'm loving the sass and confidence you bring to the conversation. Communication is key, and I'm all about creating a safe space for desires to be expressed - without judgment, of course. Let's get real, though - why should men have all the fun? It's time to shake things up and bring the pleasure party to the table. So, what's the plan to take down those stigmas and get the conversation started?
 
Dudeee ! A man must strategise the plan to bring down the stigma. And as one, wat would you do to be inclusive to the idea of a woman seeking sex or a one night stand ?
 
Girls do love to have fun but they can't display it to everyone out of fear trust issues n others so all u (we guys) need to do is make the girl feel relaxed ease n free with u n mainly make her get a positive impression on u ( don't ack as jerk) n done u got a standard infront of her to share her feelings with u

N if any girl trust u try to maintain the secrecy of her hope on u don't be a dumb jerk by sharing it with others
 
Pinkcandy said:
Dudeee ! A man must strategise the plan to bring down the stigma. And as one, wat would you do to be inclusive to the idea of a woman seeking sex or a one night stand ?
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Admin madam, you’re keeping me on my toes! Alright, as a man, the plan’s simple: tear down the stigma by owning my part. I’d start by ditching any double-standard BS in my head—if she’s seeking a hookup or a one-night vibe, I’m not blinking twice. Same respect I’d give a bro, no labels, no side-eye. I’d vibe with it—maybe she says, ‘Hey, I’m feeling it tonight,’ and I’d just be like, ‘Cool, I’m down, what’s the play?’ No judgment, just mutual fun.
To make it inclusive, I’d keep the door open—let her lead, listen if she’s got specifics, and not act like she’s gotta explain herself. Plus, I’d back that energy in the wild—shut down any ‘she’s too forward’ trash talk with a quick ‘Nah, she’s just real, why’s that a problem?’ It’s all about normalizing it, step by step. What do you think—any moves I’m missing to keep the stigma bonfire blazing?
 
kannaa said:
Girls do love to have fun but they can't display it to everyone out of fear trust issues n others so all u (we guys) need to do is make the girl feel relaxed ease n free with u n mainly make her get a positive impression on u ( don't ack as jerk) n done u got a standard infront of her to share her feelings with u

N if any girl trust u try to maintain the secrecy of her hope on u don't be a dumb jerk by sharing it with others
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Tottallyyy agreed!
 
Pareto optimality applies equally in Zozo, where 20 percent of the men attract 80 percent of the women, while the rest often find themselves aligned with "INCEL" (online subculture) groups. This dynamic highlights how safety and secrecy are curated within the platform.


The reason many men aspire to earn badges, become moderators, or rise to admin roles on Zozo is, in most cases (though not all), to gain access to that coveted 80 percent of women.
Reference: "Adolescence" (series), Vogue culture.


Now, to the question: "Has Zozo become a safe space for women to ask for and seek out sex?"
The answer is both yes and no. While mutual agreements for one-night stands do happen, they’re often shadowed by mistrust. Many women find that even consensual encounters are later reduced to whispers—gossip about body counts, past hookups, and private details that were never meant to leave the room.


This erosion of trust stems from a cultural shift within the platform. Many users seem more invested in socializing, clout-building, and status-driven behavior than in engaging with Zozo’s original, more discreet intent. As a result, gossip, backbiting, and behind-the-scenes chatter have become the norm rather than the exception.

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Pinkcandy said:
A woman asking out for SEX, has been considered a taboo for long, as men were regarded as pleasure seekers and women pleasure givers , coz they didnt know how to make a lady orgasm !!!!!

But tables have turned ,the pleasure seeking amongst women is on the rise.
So how do you think a woman communicates to her partner that she is " moody ", " horny", " high " that will facilitate into having sex ?

Most men tend to "brand" women when she makes the first move.To top it men find it offensive if a woman is clear and demands on how she wants her body to be treated ! Is it wrong to express the carnal pleasure and desire ?

# WHY SHOULD MEN HAVE ALL THE FUN #


And has ZOZO become a safe space for women to ask and reach out for sex ?


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For too long, women were told to stay silent about their desires, seen as givers, not seekers of pleasure. But times have changed. Women crave, feel, and own their sexuality.

Expressing desire isn’t wrong, it’s powerful. A woman saying she’s “in the mood” isn’t bold, it’s natural.

If a man feels threatened by a woman taking the lead or expressing how she wants to be touched, that says more about him than her.


I have always claimed my rights when I needed to, this is no different.


Pleasure isn’t a privilege—it’s a right.

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Ultimately, whether girls should ask for sex is a personal decision that depends on individual circumstances and values. What's most important is that women (and men) feel empowered to communicate their desires and boundaries in a respectful and consensual manner.
 
Honey bunch said:
For too long, women were told to stay silent about their desires, seen as givers, not seekers of pleasure. But times have changed. Women crave, feel, and own their sexuality.

Expressing desire isn’t wrong, it’s powerful. A woman saying she’s “in the mood” isn’t bold, it’s natural.

If a man feels threatened by a woman taking the lead or expressing how she wants to be touched, that says more about him than her.


I have always claimed my rights when I needed to, this is no different.


Pleasure isn’t a privilege—it’s a right.


You're absolutely right—pleasure is a fundamental part of being human, and claiming it as a right is a powerful shift in perspective. For too long, societal norms boxed women into roles that ignored their agency, but that’s crumbling. Women owning their sexuality isn’t just natural; it’s a reclamation of power that’s been suppressed. And yeah, if a man’s rattled by a woman who knows what she wants and says it out loud, that’s his insecurity talking, not her overstepping. You’ve always stood up for yourself—this is just another arena where that strength shines. No one’s handing out permission slips for desire; it’s yours to take.​
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Honey bunch said:
For too long, women were told to stay silent about their desires, seen as givers, not seekers of pleasure. But times have changed. Women crave, feel, and own their sexuality.

Expressing desire isn’t wrong, it’s powerful. A woman saying she’s “in the mood” isn’t bold, it’s natural.

If a man feels threatened by a woman taking the lead or expressing how she wants to be touched, that says more about him than her.


I have always claimed my rights when I needed to, this is no different.


Pleasure isn’t a privilege—it’s a right.

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Love the punchline

"Pleasure isnt a privilege! It is a right !!!!"
 
Phantom said:
Admin madam, you’re keeping me on my toes! Alright, as a man, the plan’s simple: tear down the stigma by owning my part. I’d start by ditching any double-standard BS in my head—if she’s seeking a hookup or a one-night vibe, I’m not blinking twice. Same respect I’d give a bro, no labels, no side-eye. I’d vibe with it—maybe she says, ‘Hey, I’m feeling it tonight,’ and I’d just be like, ‘Cool, I’m down, what’s the play?’ No judgment, just mutual fun.
To make it inclusive, I’d keep the door open—let her lead, listen if she’s got specifics, and not act like she’s gotta explain herself. Plus, I’d back that energy in the wild—shut down any ‘she’s too forward’ trash talk with a quick ‘Nah, she’s just real, why’s that a problem?’ It’s all about normalizing it, step by step. What do you think—any moves I’m missing to keep the stigma bonfire blazing?
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In short - u say that u want a DOMINATRIX ! :bandid:
 
Pinkcandy said:
A woman asking out for SEX, has been considered a taboo for long, as men were regarded as pleasure seekers and women pleasure givers , coz they didnt know how to make a lady orgasm !!!!!

But tables have turned ,the pleasure seeking amongst women is on the rise.
So how do you think a woman communicates to her partner that she is " moody ", " horny", " high " that will facilitate into having sex ?

Most men tend to "brand" women when she makes the first move.To top it men find it offensive if a woman is clear and demands on how she wants her body to be treated ! Is it wrong to express the carnal pleasure and desire ?

# WHY SHOULD MEN HAVE ALL THE FUN #


And has ZOZO become a safe space for women to ask and reach out for sex ?


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For all the ladies out there, I don't kiss and tell....what happens in zozo stays in zozo ;)
 
Ihsan said:
There was an incident when a girl called me "d***y" and I responded with "yes babygirl" (even though I didn't know squat about the girl :p) and she was quick to remark, "oops wrong d***y" :rolleyes: :Cwl:
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I jusst laughed harddd reading tat :Cwl: but am happy she has been expressing herself around !!! More power to that mysterious baby girl :highfive:
 
Pinkcandy said:
I jusst laughed harddd reading tat :Cwl: but am happy she has been expressing herself around !!! More power to that mysterious baby girl :highfive:
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All the women around me expresses themselves really well. When are you being around me?! :Dream1:
 
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