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Cheating Has No Gender : A real one

Honey bunch said:

Growing up isn’t about reaching a specific limit; it’s about understanding that life doesn’t always go as planned.

It’s about handling situations without letting disappointment or resentment take over.

And honestly, there’s no limit—just keep leveling up!

Think of it as getting a power-up for life. The more you accept and learn from experiences, the stronger and more at peace you’ll feel.

Trust me, it’s worth it!

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Sure I understand now well you are a good well wisher
 
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Can we hit 100+ msg in this thread today because we made half century just in 1 hour :Laugh1:
 
Choudhary_ said:
I know many of you become angry or maybe shocked because everyone says boys are not fair in love world assumed boys as betrayal deceiving cheater and not loyal in love okay I respect your perspective because everyone looks everything in different no one can think same as another person.
Real story comes here :
It's not a long story it's about three months old when I use to go Library for study there. One day I was in office of library and I found a girl is looking at me I ignored at first then second again I noticed her she was looking at me and when I enter library and looks at her she smiled.
I understood that she likes me but I ignored cuz I didn't want any kind of rush in this matter. After 3 or 4 days it become a regular for me one day she came in office to have water because toilet and water point both are attached to library office. I was standing at a side she drink water I was looking at her she looked back and smiled after that she said " Your shirt is so nice " but I didn't listened her clearly.
Next day at morning time I reached before her and started waiting for her to come after sometime she came and smiled then said " I was saying that you have nice collection of shirts "
I said "thanks "
She entered library after sometime I also entered and started studying. At lunch time I had to go at my room to have lunch so I came in office to have water she was following me. She came outside and asked me my Instagram. She gave her phone to me I gave my I'd and started walking at my way. It was like a dream for me. She was pretty gorgeous and a hot girl. We started talking normally and while chatting she said " You are my crush ".
In starting she didn't showed that she loves me every time when I ask her she refused and every time her reply was "You can make any girl as your girlfriend I have no problem with that we will be good strangers".
One day I was chatting with her and in funny way I asked "What you want to do if you don't wanna be my girlfriend?"
She replied" I like to spend time with you >> you looks attractive that's why"
I replied" Okay I'll not ask you about relationship and all"
She said " So now I'll show you my flirting skills"
I replied" Ok then go for it "
When she Started I got amazed ' what's going on ......'
Because she started with this line ---" What you do if I'm sitting on your lap and my lips are close to yours "
I started thinking is this flirt???
After from that point she started showing her dark sides and I started her explore more deep.
At that day in night I had sex chat with her. She become happy with me. From that day I never show her shyness or never she saw. But these things started cuz of a reel of Kapil Sharma show in which a question was asked to guest and guest was female so she replied " I don't have big boobs like her "
After sending this reel I message "What will she do with big boobs if anyone can't grab them Fully in his hand."
She replied" You don't like big boobs ?""o_O
Now everything become normal for us late night chatting video calls cam fuck daily.
I started kissing her and pressing her boobs in library too had many more things also in library cuz she was craving for that.
After all these one day she accepted that SHE LOVES ME......
But who knows these things are for a very short time. One day she said " let's fuck"
I replied "where??"
She said " At my home "
I replied "But you live with your mom and brother how can we ??"
She replied" when they got slept after that we will do "
I was really scared but I said okay.
I Reached her at 12 am she hugged me and after that we had sex till 2 hours. I come back after having sex.
We talked 8 or 9 days after that and one day she blocked me. I shocke
d wtf this happened??
I tried to talk with her on tg but she blocked at that place too and deactivated her ig account. I also started accepting this situation.
After 3 months today I msg her from my friend's ig that I want to talk with you.
She replied " I can't talk with you please forget whatever happened between us"
I replied okay calm down I just come to know how's you and you are saying this.
She replied " Don't msg I can't talk"
I just said her one thing "Don't fuck anyone like this you fucked up with me"
She replied"I'm sorry"
And she blocked .........
World criticizing boys but what about feelings of boys when a girl use them like this ?? Boys also have feelings they care they crave they fucking loves you not just for need of your body.
I heard that girls love a boy more after they got physical but what happened here ??
Means your need is yours and if we demand like this then "Boys need only sex"??
Wtf means "I'm sorry"
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Aww
:blush:
So sweet of her
She said sorry too...
So Lucky you...​
 
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Choudhary_ said:
I know many of you become angry or maybe shocked because everyone says boys are not fair in love world assumed boys as betrayal deceiving cheater and not loyal in love okay I respect your perspective because everyone looks everything in different no one can think same as another person.
Real story comes here :
It's not a long story it's about three months old when I use to go Library for study there. One day I was in office of library and I found a girl is looking at me I ignored at first then second again I noticed her she was looking at me and when I enter library and looks at her she smiled.
I understood that she likes me but I ignored cuz I didn't want any kind of rush in this matter. After 3 or 4 days it become a regular for me one day she came in office to have water because toilet and water point both are attached to library office. I was standing at a side she drink water I was looking at her she looked back and smiled after that she said " Your shirt is so nice " but I didn't listened her clearly.
Next day at morning time I reached before her and started waiting for her to come after sometime she came and smiled then said " I was saying that you have nice collection of shirts "
I said "thanks "
She entered library after sometime I also entered and started studying. At lunch time I had to go at my room to have lunch so I came in office to have water she was following me. She came outside and asked me my Instagram. She gave her phone to me I gave my I'd and started walking at my way. It was like a dream for me. She was pretty gorgeous and a hot girl. We started talking normally and while chatting she said " You are my crush ".
In starting she didn't showed that she loves me every time when I ask her she refused and every time her reply was "You can make any girl as your girlfriend I have no problem with that we will be good strangers".
One day I was chatting with her and in funny way I asked "What you want to do if you don't wanna be my girlfriend?"
She replied" I like to spend time with you >> you looks attractive that's why"
I replied" Okay I'll not ask you about relationship and all"
She said " So now I'll show you my flirting skills"
I replied" Ok then go for it "
When she Started I got amazed ' what's going on ......'
Because she started with this line ---" What you do if I'm sitting on your lap and my lips are close to yours "
I started thinking is this flirt???
After from that point she started showing her dark sides and I started her explore more deep.
At that day in night I had sex chat with her. She become happy with me. From that day I never show her shyness or never she saw. But these things started cuz of a reel of Kapil Sharma show in which a question was asked to guest and guest was female so she replied " I don't have big boobs like her "
After sending this reel I message "What will she do with big boobs if anyone can't grab them Fully in his hand."
She replied" You don't like big boobs ?""o_O
Now everything become normal for us late night chatting video calls cam fuck daily.
I started kissing her and pressing her boobs in library too had many more things also in library cuz she was craving for that.
After all these one day she accepted that SHE LOVES ME......
But who knows these things are for a very short time. One day she said " let's fuck"
I replied "where??"
She said " At my home "
I replied "But you live with your mom and brother how can we ??"
She replied" when they got slept after that we will do "
I was really scared but I said okay.
I Reached her at 12 am she hugged me and after that we had sex till 2 hours. I come back after having sex.
We talked 8 or 9 days after that and one day she blocked me. I shocke
d wtf this happened??
I tried to talk with her on tg but she blocked at that place too and deactivated her ig account. I also started accepting this situation.
After 3 months today I msg her from my friend's ig that I want to talk with you.
She replied " I can't talk with you please forget whatever happened between us"
I replied okay calm down I just come to know how's you and you are saying this.
She replied " Don't msg I can't talk"
I just said her one thing "Don't fuck anyone like this you fucked up with me"
She replied"I'm sorry"
And she blocked .........
World criticizing boys but what about feelings of boys when a girl use them like this ?? Boys also have feelings they care they crave they fucking loves you not just for need of your body.
I heard that girls love a boy more after they got physical but what happened here ??
Means your need is yours and if we demand like this then "Boys need only sex"??
Wtf means "I'm sorry"
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It’s true that people, regardless of gender, can have different motivations and ways of handling relationships, and unfortunately, sometimes that includes behavior that might feel hurtful or even disingenuous. It's possible that she had her own reasons, whether emotional, situational, or personal, that led to her decision to disconnect. It can be painful to experience the feeling of being "used" or treated as disposable, especially when you've shared something meaningful with someone.
 
criss cross said:
It’s true that people, regardless of gender, can have different motivations and ways of handling relationships, and unfortunately, sometimes that includes behavior that might feel hurtful or even disingenuous. It's possible that she had her own reasons, whether emotional, situational, or personal, that led to her decision to disconnect. It can be painful to experience the feeling of being "used" or treated as disposable, especially when you've shared something meaningful with someone.
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Totally agreed bro with your views I do but sometimes I lost in emotions and in that condition I don't know what to do
 
Choudhary_ said:
Totally agreed bro with your views I do but sometimes I lost in emotions and in that condition I don't know what to do
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I get that—it’s easy to get swept up in emotions, especially when you really care about someone or when the relationship gets intense. Emotions can cloud judgment, and it can be tough to know how to handle things when you're in that heightened state
 
First of all, it’s important to acknowledge that cheating knows no gender, age, or ethical boundaries. This is why people sometimes choose to cheat.

Each person is unique, with their own traits and behaviors, independent of gender. What one person finds outrageous may seem perfectly normal to someone else.

Now, when you judge a woman for sleeping with you after just a week of friendship, consider this: didn't you do the same thing? In a short time, didn't you also sleep with her?

I’m not defending how she ended things with you—her choice to cut ties could have been handled better. But up until the moment she distanced herself, you both benefited from the situation. She might have been more honest or brave in ending things sooner, but it’s also important to remember that this was not "love." So, let’s avoid labeling it as cheating.

Nobody is perfect. It’s easy to play the victim by seeing things only from your perspective, but it’s worth taking a step back for clarity.

Ultimately, this is just my opinion, and I don’t plan to continue this discussion or entertain further comments on the matter.

And for the record, don’t mistake me for a feminist—I’m not.
 
EkaLustYa said:
I read the story now -

Two things came to my mind -

1. May be , there is iota of May be -you didn’t fuck her good or the way she imagined !

2. She is a better player than you in the game of love or flirt - OR she has different story to tell us.

Synopsis-men should grow balls to accept a “no” instead of branding.
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Wow.. That's what I felt..
Atleast someone who understands the brain functioning . Kudos to you .
 
Trinity said:
First of all, it’s important to acknowledge that cheating knows no gender, age, or ethical boundaries. This is why people sometimes choose to cheat.

Each person is unique, with their own traits and behaviors, independent of gender. What one person finds outrageous may seem perfectly normal to someone else.

Now, when you judge a woman for sleeping with you after just a week of friendship, consider this: didn't you do the same thing? In a short time, didn't you also sleep with her?

I’m not defending how she ended things with you—her choice to cut ties could have been handled better. But up until the moment she distanced herself, you both benefited from the situation. She might have been more honest or brave in ending things sooner, but it’s also important to remember that this was not "love." So, let’s avoid labeling it as cheating.

Nobody is perfect. It’s easy to play the victim by seeing things only from your perspective, but it’s worth taking a step back for clarity.

Ultimately, this is just my opinion, and I don’t plan to continue this discussion or entertain further comments on the matter.

And for the record, don’t mistake me for a feminist—I’m not.
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Well I read it ....
So I narrate the story and you read did you notice who first asked for fuck?? Did you ever notice who who stopped talking and who is SORRY ?? No you didn't you just catch points and put them here ....
Starting was good but ending wasn't why?? Cuz of her she stopped everything and wanted to end. She accepted love and all that she do and then changed in just few time. Atleast I tried to talk with her.
If you are not a feminist then I'm also not misogynist
 
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