Can you ever truly move on from someone you once loved deeply, or does a part of them always stay with you?
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I think it's hard to move on but you can do it if you start loving yourself
That's strength—carrying lessons, not burdens. Wishing him fairness shows your kindness. Keep moving forward!yessssss.........he still exists within me, but only as a scars nd a lesson....I have moved on, despite I still hope life is fair to him
For me, it has 3 phases
1. You lose hope and starting to accept what ever happened to you. (Painful phase : duration : 6 months to 1 year )
2. When you get some news of your ex or come across some old picture, feeling of sadness for some time, then you can easily go back to normal mood. (Nutral phase : Duration 1 year to 2 years)
3. When you feel nothing for him/her. Even that person come face to face, you don't care any more.
Congratulation.. you are into your new happy world.
1. You lose hope and starting to accept what ever happened to you. (Painful phase : duration : 6 months to 1 year )
2. When you get some news of your ex or come across some old picture, feeling of sadness for some time, then you can easily go back to normal mood. (Nutral phase : Duration 1 year to 2 years)
3. When you feel nothing for him/her. Even that person come face to face, you don't care any more.
Congratulation.. you are into your new happy world.
I've found that moving on doesn't mean I've forgotten the person I loved. It means I have learned to cherish the memories and move forward with a sense of gratitude for the experience...
Depends on circumstances. Many a time its not a person but other factors are the reason of partition. To me its almost impossible to wipe out that feelings for that loved one from my heart even after being apart.
Is this necessary to leave?? I mean you said move on )) Move on is actually going away from a condition in which you are suffering or living. If you are leaving somebody that's not move on if you stop somebody loving that's move on from love to another way
I have experience we can let go..
but it requires time
With time, the intensity of emotions u once felt towards a certain person goes down. Memories stay though... Can't really erase them and nothing wrong in cherishing the good times either. Nothing wrong with reminiscing what went wrong so you recall your lessons or draw strength from your journey so far.
That’s a powerful way to look at it. When you’ve given your all, when your love was true and your intentions pure, you walk away with no regrets. The past doesn’t define you—your strength in choosing yourself does.
Some people leave footprints, but only those who truly valued you deserve to stay in your heart. The rest? Let them fade like a chapter that no longer serves your story. Moving on isn’t about forgetting; it’s about reclaiming your peace.
I feel like moving from the person once we loved deeply is impossible, it is not what they did to us ,but if we loved them with a whole heart they will be a part of our memories, no matter how bad they are , no matter of the pain we got, still they are a memory for us even after years of moving on still we have spark of their memories in our mind which we recall intentionally or accidentally ..
