Beyond Goodbye...

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Emotional blackmail after a breakup happens when a former partner tries to control you by using your feelings. They might use your guilt, fear, or sense of duty to get you back or to manipulate your actions. This kind of behavior can make the breakup even more painful and can slow down your recovery.
One way they might do this is by making you feel guilty. They could say things like, "You've ruined my life" to make you feel responsible. They might also make threats, such as saying they'll hurt themselves if you don't get back together with them.
Another tactic is playing the victim, where they act like they can't cope without you and that you are responsible for their well-being. They may also try to make you feel obligated by reminding you of past promises or using your children or mutual friends to pressure you. Sometimes, they may promise to change or declare their undying love to try and lure you back.
Whether it's subtle or obvious, emotional blackmail is always about taking away your control and freedom to make your own choices.
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[SiRa]

Love should lift you, not burden you with fear and guilt..don't let your kindness be an obligation.. Emotional blackmail.. guilt tripping and manipulation are their weapons to destroy u..

This quotation is a reminder

"It’s not your job to set yourself on fire to keep them warm.”

Well expressed!

 

[TheWiTcher08]

This is something many of us would have experienced right

 

[Anshhi]

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Emotional blackmail after a breakup happens when a former partner tries to control you by using your feelings. They might use your guilt, fear, or sense of duty to get you back or to manipulate your actions. This kind of behavior can make the breakup even more painful and can slow down your recovery.
One way they might do this is by making you feel guilty. They could say things like, "You've ruined my life" to make you feel responsible. They might also make threats, such as saying they'll hurt themselves if you don't get back together with them.
Another tactic is playing the victim, where they act like they can't cope without you and that you are responsible for their well-being. They may also try to make you feel obligated by reminding you of past promises or using your children or mutual friends to pressure you. Sometimes, they may promise to change or declare their undying love to try and lure you back.
Whether it's subtle or obvious, emotional blackmail is always about taking away your control and freedom to make your own choices.
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Emotional blackmail after a breakup can be particularly challenging to navigate. It's a manipulative tactic that exploits emotions like guilt, fear, and obligation to control the other person's actions or decisions.
It's essential to prioritize your own emotional well-being and autonomy in such situations. Setting clear boundaries, seeking support from trusted friends, family, and focusing on self-care can help you navigate these challenges and move forward.
*A_AICS

 

[Kanna202]

Good massage

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

This is something many of us would have experienced right

But not me. I didn't even get a chance to be in a relationship.

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Emotional blackmail after a breakup can be particularly challenging to navigate. It's a manipulative tactic that exploits emotions like guilt, fear, and obligation to control the other person's actions or decisions.
It's essential to prioritize your own emotional well-being and autonomy in such situations. Setting clear boundaries, seeking support from trusted friends, family, and focusing on self-care can help you navigate these challenges and move forward.
*A_AICS

Thanks for sharing your insights on this.

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Good massage

 

[TheWiTcher08]

But not me. I didn't even get a chance to be in a relationship.

Ennem koodi karayippikkuo

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Ennem koodi karayippikkuo

ഇജ്ജ് കരയണ്ട... എന്റെ ഒരു അവസ്ഥ പറഞ്ഞതല്ലേ... ഇതൊക്കെ ഇപ്പോൾ ശീലം ആയതുകൊണ്ട് വലിയ വിഷമം ഒന്നുമില്ല.

 

[Solara]

"It’s not your job to set yourself on fire to keep them warm.”

So true .. so true ..! *Solemn nod*

Was a struggle to stop myself from the constant burning .. but once I did... Ah... Felt liberated..

 

[Dom55]

Its very painful but truth.Well said bro.

 

[JackDani]

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Emotional blackmail after a breakup happens when a former partner tries to control you by using your feelings. They might use your guilt, fear, or sense of duty to get you back or to manipulate your actions. This kind of behavior can make the breakup even more painful and can slow down your recovery.
One way they might do this is by making you feel guilty. They could say things like, "You've ruined my life" to make you feel responsible. They might also make threats, such as saying they'll hurt themselves if you don't get back together with them.
Another tactic is playing the victim, where they act like they can't cope without you and that you are responsible for their well-being. They may also try to make you feel obligated by reminding you of past promises or using your children or mutual friends to pressure you. Sometimes, they may promise to change or declare their undying love to try and lure you back.
Whether it's subtle or obvious, emotional blackmail is always about taking away your control and freedom to make your own choices.
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A relationship is all about trust and being there in tough times as an emotional support and not turning against each other irrespective of the other problems we are already facing .

There isn't any gain in blackmailing or revenge. It only degrades the character. Focus on the life will be deviated from performing other productive things in our day-to-day routines.

If one is cheating on other, no matter what, letting go is an only option to maintain the inner peace and remembering they'll face the same situation in the circle of life.

Ending up being toxic clearly states - Ego sounds more than Understanding. Letting go is also another form of love.

 

[criss cross]

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Emotional blackmail after a breakup happens when a former partner tries to control you by using your feelings. They might use your guilt, fear, or sense of duty to get you back or to manipulate your actions. This kind of behavior can make the breakup even more painful and can slow down your recovery.
One way they might do this is by making you feel guilty. They could say things like, "You've ruined my life" to make you feel responsible. They might also make threats, such as saying they'll hurt themselves if you don't get back together with them.
Another tactic is playing the victim, where they act like they can't cope without you and that you are responsible for their well-being. They may also try to make you feel obligated by reminding you of past promises or using your children or mutual friends to pressure you. Sometimes, they may promise to change or declare their undying love to try and lure you back.
Whether it's subtle or obvious, emotional blackmail is always about taking away your control and freedom to make your own choices.
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Emotional blackmail is using guilt or fear to control someone after a breakup. It’s manipulation, not love

 

[zanaa]

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Emotional blackmail after a breakup happens when a former partner tries to control you by using your feelings. They might use your guilt, fear, or sense of duty to get you back or to manipulate your actions. This kind of behavior can make the breakup even more painful and can slow down your recovery.
One way they might do this is by making you feel guilty. They could say things like, "You've ruined my life" to make you feel responsible. They might also make threats, such as saying they'll hurt themselves if you don't get back together with them.
Another tactic is playing the victim, where they act like they can't cope without you and that you are responsible for their well-being. They may also try to make you feel obligated by reminding you of past promises or using your children or mutual friends to pressure you. Sometimes, they may promise to change or declare their undying love to try and lure you back.
Whether it's subtle or obvious, emotional blackmail is always about taking away your control and freedom to make your own choices.
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Some people think differently from that.they are too sensitive.they feel too much.every word, every actions, and every energy goes straight to their heart. so they're walk away from such things.. they won't manipulate.. they won't tries to control others emotions.They understand that everyone is human. They want to others understand that everyone has a heart too.