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Anger control!

Wicked said:
Important Topic it is!
As a saying goes Anger is just one letter short to Danger.The three prominent gates to hell-Lust anger n greed. Even in the medical science its believed there’s more cells destroyed in self then the person it’s aimed at.
Many problems at today are just coz of anger.Just due to uncontrolled anger.Its like we spit venom coz of agitated mind and consciousness we dont perceive things as they are and we end up taking wrong steps.Relationships and broken ,family’s are broken.Its a very dangerous emotion.
Somtimes we find our family teachers or known ones to be angry at us but its for concern and for betterment of us but most of the anger we find in our daily life with others arent aimed for betterment.
Its just coz of egocentricity or pride to put a person down.
A very practical example-If we sitting on the banks of a pond or lake and its very calm so we can see the fishes swimming inside means we can see things as they are coz the water is still.Now ifwe throw a pebble into it thers ripples formed and the water body is agitated and we cant see the fish.
The simple solution to it just wait for sometime let the water settle once all the agitation is gone then look inside and u can see the fishes and start seeing things as they are.
Connecting this example to our discussion the water is like our consciousness.When its calm and peaceful we can see things as they are but as soon as theres some provocation.The pebble of provocation touches the surface of our consciousness theres ripples or agitation and we don’t perceive things as they due to anger.
I try to run away from conversation asap,i try not to act anything if m angry.i tolerate when i go angry,i try just to keep quiet,i try not to react and talk later once the agitation is reduced and m pacified can deal things more efficiently later with peace.
Sometimes i fail too!
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Is it wicked or kamini
 
Lemme start my Philanthropy class...


Anger and Lust are within you and only you... only you can control them and they should be in your control not the vice versa...

Whenever you get angry just remember that it's only the situation not the person or anything... just be cool everything will be OK...

:wink:
 
My anger management

  • Ciggee (I realise my anger n depressions in the form of smoke)
  • Pizzaaaa (food especially cheese burst pizzaaaaa....no chocolates ntg works for me)
  • Cleaning kitchen (I like kitchen to be neat n clean even if it's clean I do it again just to keep myself calm)
  • Cooking (I love to cook n do experiments when am angry I get more ideas to try new recipes)
  • My silence (which is more dangerous....)
Uuufffff :relieved::relieved:
 
Maya21f said:
My anger management

  • Ciggee (I realise my anger n depressions in the form of smoke)
  • Pizzaaaa (food especially cheese burst pizzaaaaa....no chocolates ntg works for me)
  • Cleaning kitchen (I like kitchen to be neat n clean even if it's clean I do it again just to keep myself calm)
  • Cooking (I love to cook n do experiments when am angry I get more ideas to try new recipes)
  • My silence (which is more dangerous....)
Uuufffff :relieved::relieved:
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Mrbean said:
Is it wicked or kamini
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Rapunzel said:
So wicked and witch are in collobarative partnership is that so :giggle:

@Kamini @Wicked
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See u all forgot my earlier posts.:rolleyes:I used to say such philosophically or more somewhat shastrically at start when i newly joined forum but then i just stopped as i dont wanna type long and get involved in serious topics.as i felt it dont go well for mass here to follow as its not their taste in general.
I try to gel in the way most people here are or as they like.
 
Wicked said:
Important Topic it is!
As a saying goes Anger is just one letter short to Danger.The three prominent gates to hell-Lust anger n greed. Even in the medical science its believed there’s more cells destroyed in self then the person it’s aimed at.
Many problems at today are just coz of anger.Just due to uncontrolled anger.Its like we spit venom coz of agitated mind and consciousness we dont perceive things as they are and we end up taking wrong steps.Relationships and broken ,family’s are broken.Its a very dangerous emotion.
Somtimes we find our family teachers or known ones to be angry at us but its for concern and for betterment of us but most of the anger we find in our daily life with others arent aimed for betterment.
Its just coz of egocentricity or pride to put a person down.
A very practical example-If we sitting on the banks of a pond or lake and its very calm so we can see the fishes swimming inside means we can see things as they are coz the water is still.Now ifwe throw a pebble into it thers ripples formed and the water body is agitated and we cant see the fish.
The simple solution to it just wait for sometime let the water settle once all the agitation is gone then look inside and u can see the fishes and start seeing things as they are.
Connecting this example to our discussion the water is like our consciousness.When its calm and peaceful we can see things as they are but as soon as theres some provocation.The pebble of provocation touches the surface of our consciousness theres ripples or agitation and we don’t perceive things as they due to anger.
I try to run away from conversation asap,i try not to act anything if m angry.i tolerate when i go angry,i try just to keep quiet,i try not to react and talk later once the agitation is reduced and m pacified can deal things more efficiently later with peace.
Sometimes i fail too!
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Well said ... thanks to Google translate:cool:
 
Rapunzel said:
How is giving space to people while you are in angry going to solve the problem?:Dull:

let me check with @Administrator because he will have unique ways of dealing with anger management. He is close to saintly mode as per my observation.

Dont you really get angry?:wondering:

The one question I asked thousands of times just to get on his anger nerve but Im failing everytime.
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Probably he is so busy with Pvt messages asking where is the update lol
 
ModernSanyasi said:
Lemme start my Philanthropy class...


Anger and Lust are within you and only you... only you can control them and they should be in your control not the vice versa...

Whenever you get angry just remember that it's only the situation not the person or anything... just be cool everything will be OK...
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Oh there is a control button too:think1:If control lost ! WASTED ...:spoileralert:
 
Maya21f said:
My anger management

  • Ciggee (I realise my anger n depressions in the form of smoke)
  • Pizzaaaa (food especially cheese burst pizzaaaaa....no chocolates ntg works for me)
  • Cleaning kitchen (I like kitchen to be neat n clean even if it's clean I do it again just to keep myself calm)
  • Cooking (I love to cook n do experiments when am angry I get more ideas to try new recipes)
  • My silence (which is more dangerous....)
Uuufffff :relieved::relieved:
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Where can I see that silence :selfie:i just wanna see how dangerous it was :rofl1:
 
Anger management isn't not an easy one obviously.Coz if u can control ANGER then you can control any other emotions easily which means you're an mother fuckn saint.

R we saint? Nooooo

So rather than trying to control it you can stop yourself from bursting out often but not always

Sometimes you gotta just get it out so you can feel like yourself again.

But try this next time you get angry. . .

Just go away from that place or the person pissing you off.Remember is that person or the matter worth getting angry and loosing your peace.No right , just try to b the person you wanna b.Dont let your anger control you.

I haven't typed all of this for nothing. So you better listen to me now.What ? Yeah im rising my voice so what ??
:Cwl:
 
ModernSanyasi said:
Lemme start my Philanthropy class...


Anger and Lust are within you and only you... only you can control them and they should be in your control not the vice versa...

Whenever you get angry just remember that it's only the situation not the person or anything... just be cool everything will be OK...

:wink:
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Sanyasi correct thaan pola eee macha only you can control anger macha :Like:
 
Rapunzel said:
How is giving space to people while you are in angry going to solve the problem?:Dull:

let me check with @Administrator because he will have unique ways of dealing with anger management. He is close to saintly mode as per my observation.

Dont you really get angry?:wondering:

The one question I asked thousands of times just to get on his anger nerve but Im failing everytime.
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Ofcourse i do get very angry at certain point or time. But, after some deep breath and several neurons firing in my brain i will come to one conclusion, is it worthy to be angry now?

Anybody can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way - that is not within everybody's power and is not easy. - Aristotle
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From the above quotes, its very true. I do think twice or thrice or over and over, is this angry gonna lead us to chaos or we gonna get anything fruitful? And the answers will be always a NO

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Let me share some of my opinion, this will be for the world, not for this comment.

Mostly i get disappointed for trusting people other than being angry. But, now i overcame it too, that's simple. Do not trust anyone. How can someone can live any life without trusting anyone. Yeah, sure it is hard life. But, when you are living in hell, it's necessary.

Enemies never jump from sky and challenge you. Enemies always will be the person who you knew the most, the person you trusted the most, the person who you have loved the most.

If you can't trust yourself, then its total waste on blaming others for the mistake you made by yourself.

Let me explain you something "for any reason, if you share your secret or past experience to someone you might call as a friend? and someday in future you may hear the same story that you shared by a third party source. At that particular time you will realize that you friend have betrayed you. Exactly, but its not your friend who betrayed you. It's you who betrayed yourself by not keeping those secrets by yourself" So self control is more needed, so be aware of everyone. There is no any written rule or un-written rule, you should share everything to your friend, or your partner. There is no such thing called good friend. May be i might be wrong, anyway you may have a good friend when you need them the most and will do anything for you at anytime. Then you are a lucky fella to have a such friend. But its all just matter of time. Maybe your opinion might change when years goes by. Let me know when you are 60+ year old and if you guys are still the same good old true friends. may be in future at that particular time, i might change my opinion.

Anyhow this comment took turns and going out of the topic. Yes, i do get angry a lot. A LOOOOT. But... hmmm.. thats complicated lol.
 
Administrator said:
Mostly i get disappointed for trusting people other than being angry. But, now i overcame it too, that's simple. Do not trust anyone. How can someone can live any life without trusting anyone. Yeah, sure it is hard life. But, when you are living in hell, it's necessary.
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U can trust me.. I do no harm haha
 
Administrator said:
Ofcourse i do get very angry at certain point or time. But, after some deep breath and several neurons firing in my brain i will come to one conclusion, is it worthy to be angry now?



From the above quotes, its very true. I do think twice or thrice or over and over, is this angry gonna lead us to chaos or we gonna get anything fruitful? And the answers will be always a NO

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Let me share some of my opinion, this will be for the world, not for this comment.

Mostly i get disappointed for trusting people other than being angry. But, now i overcame it too, that's simple. Do not trust anyone. How can someone can live any life without trusting anyone. Yeah, sure it is hard life. But, when you are living in hell, it's necessary.

Enemies never jump from sky and challenge you. Enemies always will be the person who you knew the most, the person you trusted the most, the person who you have loved the most.

If you can't trust yourself, then its total waste on blaming others for the mistake you made by yourself.

Let me explain you something "for any reason, if you share your secret or past experience to someone you might call as a friend? and someday in future you may hear the same story that you shared by a third party source. At that particular time you will realize that you friend have betrayed you. Exactly, but its not your friend who betrayed you. It's you who betrayed yourself by not keeping those secrets by yourself" So self control is more needed, so be aware of everyone. There is no any written rule or un-written rule, you should share everything to your friend, or your partner. There is no such thing called good friend. May be i might be wrong, anyway you may have a good friend when you need them the most and will do anything for you at anytime. Then you are a lucky fella to have a such friend. But its all just matter of time. Maybe your opinion might change when years goes by. Let me know when you are 60+ year old and if you guys are still the same good old true friends. may be in future at that particular time, i might change my opinion.

Anyhow this comment took turns and going out of the topic. Yes, i do get angry a lot. A LOOOOT. But... hmmm.. thats complicated lol.
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(Google translate kanda padi soluthu adjust panikonga englishu)
 
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