❤️꧂ Why Virtual Love Fades ??❤️꧂

[Pearl Beach]

Someone on the either side got wise and stoped wasting time virtually..​

Wasting time is one thing. You are right! But what about the serious ones?
I don't understand why virtual love is somehow dismissed and often laughed at!

One of my good old friends asked me this. "DO you think the person in a virtual relationship is a BOT? We are in this whole thing with real feelings too!" Well, he has a solid point.

Yes, we are humans too and our feelings are real too ! Just because a connection happens through a screen doesn't mean it's not real.

​

 

[Pearl Beach]

It can be a fact. May be one of them got a better option.​

Yeah, there you are!
So, most of the relationships end when a partner starts finding their
2nd "true soulmate" just some three tabs away!
It's like online shopping - alwyz browsing for a better deal! Lol
.​

 

[debb]

Yeah, there you are!
So, most of the relationships end when a partner starts finding their
2nd "true soulmate" just some three tabs away!
It's like online shopping - alwyz browsing for a better deal! Lol
.​

This only happens in virtual world, tastes, prefferences, choices, liking disliking keeps on changing.

 

[Pearl Beach]

Aami sob kota point e sohomot, no 1 ta chara. Sob manus physical intimacy khuje na. Kichu manus singarao khete chai.......​

Ahhh That first point of yours got all my attention, dude !

Virtual relationships can change faster than ur internet connection during a Teams call Lol. Especially wen there’s no physical intimacy, Gameover babe!

In the beginning, every couple feels butterflies for the "I miss you" and "I miss u more bae" texts. But tbh, who would wanto spend entire life cuddling an IOS touchscreen! So they often go "buffering..."

But true peopl stand for each other, and for their relation, in this test of time n distnce. Afterall, one should be hopeful of their reunion at some point of lyf.

​

 

[Pearl Beach]

You're not sleepy?? don't overthink .. You're not in love… you just had a long afternoon nap! ..sounded like this

He thinks everyone is Sleepy but he himself is...!
LOL he definitely needs to Wake up from this nap akka.​

 

[TheWiTcher08]

Virtual Love is Fun - No doubt!
1. Perfect selfies: you don't have to show ur messy wakeup hair, just show the last week's best selfie
2. No inlaws tension
3. 'Pause' fights: say it's a bad network and take a break. ICU(Internet connection unstable)
4. Date outfights? : Glittering blouses on and pyjamah down (down below where the Cam can't see you)! No invigilator
5. No need to share Fries: for a Foodie like me, this is bliss. Your fries yours, mine r mine
6. Last but not the least, no smelly-socks fights and bad breath Surprises

Agree with all the above? OKAY! Super.
When everything is going pink and purple, why all of a sudden, one partner starts Ghosting???
Why do some people start using the Magical Block button??

Let's discuss why people start playing bad - like, Why does one person get his/her chip down before the other?
So here is my answer:

Desperate times call for desperate measures.
When the girl/boy is being over-protective and over-Jealous, relation starts to lose its magic!
When you keep checking , the other person defly starts to Lie!
​

You: where were you?
Him: Bro, I was buffering, not cheating you!

You: why no instant replies?
Him: Babe, I blinked! Won't happen again

You: who's that liking all your posts?
Hin: self employed AI bot

You: why did u crop me in your dp?
Him: silence! Sssshhh
Me: Girl!! Cmon!! It's his social media account. Not some group project to keep n tag everyone!!

See!! Maybe, You meant well, but look where you ended up! Don't keep asking your partner where they are.... They are probably writing their Autobiography -Life outside your chat window!
Soo, this is how I ruined mine.
Now you tell me why virtual fires die often?? And let's all work on this together.

With Lust,
Pearl Beach

This is so well written & thoughts are expressed as such! I guess you definitely put some time into it! Appreciate the effort you have taken.
And talking about the content, you said so right, but this isn't something just limited to virtual love. The same is happening in the real world as well, but yea , the reason or rather the excuses might change accordingly & the timeline is shorter here when compared to real world!

 

[Shez4u4ever]

Ahhh That first point of yours got all my attention, dude !

Virtual relationships can change faster than ur internet connection during a Teams call Lol. Especially wen there’s no physical intimacy, Gameover babe!

In the beginning, every couple feels butterflies for the "I miss you" and "I miss u more bae" texts. But tbh, who would wanto spend entire life cuddling an IOS touchscreen! So they often go "buffering..."

But true peopl stand for each other, and for their relation, in this test of time n distnce. Afterall, one should be hopeful of their reunion at some point of lyf.

​

Nope Dear After ur Perfect Match In Virtual Relationship.....
It will Be Real Then

And Tht Physical Intimacy Will Also Happen Then .

First Thing In Vitual Affair Is To Understand Each Other And Give Much More Time As U Can ...
Next Is To Understand Behaviour .
And I Believe In True Relationship Can Happen Anywhere Anytime . May Be It Real OR Virtual.

In Hindi We Are Always Saying Ki (Nibhane Wala Chahiye Bass )

 

[debb]

Mohabbat kar to le lekin mohabbat raas aaye to, logo ko boj laagte hai, julfo ki sayye vi.......

 

[Pearl Beach]

This is so well written & thoughts are expressed as such! I guess you definitely put some time into it! Appreciate the effort you have taken.
And talking about the content, you said so right, but this isn't something just limited to virtual love. The same is happening in the real world as well, but yea , the reason or rather the excuses might change accordingly & the timeline is shorter here when compared to real world!​

Hahaha yess!!​

Hahahaha yes!!
Thanks for recognising my efforts.
I was worried the forum owner might yeet me out fr mahh essay-length posts!

And yepp, the timelines r lyk real shorter here!
" Good morning my queen Baeeeeee" turns into "K" within a week.... Saaaaddd.
But this hurts even more! No time-No romance-Only breakups

​

 

[Pearl Beach]

Nope Dear After ur Perfect Match In Virtual Relationship.....
It will Be Real Then

And Tht Physical Intimacy Will Also Happen Then .

First Thing In Vitual Affair Is To Understand Each Other And Give Much More Time As U Can ...
Next Is To Understand Behaviour .
And I Believe In True Relationship Can Happen Anywhere Anytime . May Be It Real OR Virtual.

In Hindi We Are Always Saying Ki (Nibhane Wala Chahiye Bass )

"Exactly!
Aftr all, a relationship isn’t a pizza....physicl intimacy isn’t the main topping,
but only a bonusssooo!!

So, u think build the connection 1st, and yea, the rest will come… lyk that extra cheese when the time is right! (Omoo cheese burst is mahh favorite )
Lyk my Chotu alwys says, VIBING is the only thing that matters...​

 

[Shez4u4ever]

"Exactly!
Aftr all, a relationship isn’t a pizza....physicl intimacy isn’t the main topping,
but only a bonusssooo!!

So, u think build the connection 1st, and yea, the rest will come… lyk that extra cheese when the time is right! (Omoo cheese burst is mahh favorite )
Lyk my Chotu alwys says, VIBING is the only thing that matters...​

Aww Thanks For Understanding And Making Love Pizza in Short Time .
And Ignoring Short Love Like Fast Food ...
And That topinng lines and cheese things are really awesome .....

Lets Take Our Freindship Selfie So We Remember Each Other From Now

 

[JAXY]

True!
Sad ....Reality checks dunt come wth a fairytale filter.
But maybe this time, you can be a responsible character in my fairytale!
Ready for the ride, mentor or Knight?

Wrooooooommmmm!!​

So, you finally Responsible Rapido guy me.

Fantastic - Dream job unlocked!​

 

[LionBeast]

 

[TheWiTcher08]

98Hahahaha yes!!
Thanks for recognising my efforts.
I was worried the forum owner might yeet me out fr mahh essay-length posts!

And yepp, the timelines r lyk real shorter here!
" Good morning my queen Baeeeeee" turns into "K" within a week.... Saaaaddd.
But this hurts even more! No time-No romance-Only breakups

​

Ha yea! That is how things work nowadays right, even the youtube videos have turned to Youtube shorts! Entertainment itself has reduced the window frame, so just think about rest. Be it a relationship, friendship or sexual things, & being a digital platform these all can be replaced easily than in real life ! N that's how it all work in general i think eventhough it hurts

 

[ModernSanyasi]

Virtual Love is Fun - No doubt!
1. Perfect selfies: you don't have to show ur messy wakeup hair, just show the last week's best selfie
2. No inlaws tension
3. 'Pause' fights: say it's a bad network and take a break. ICU(Internet connection unstable)
4. Date outfights? : Glittering blouses on and pyjamah down (down below where the Cam can't see you)! No invigilator
5. No need to share Fries: for a Foodie like me, this is bliss. Your fries yours, mine r mine
6. Last but not the least, no smelly-socks fights and bad breath Surprises

Agree with all the above? OKAY! Super.
When everything is going pink and purple, why all of a sudden, one partner starts Ghosting???
Why do some people start using the Magical Block button??

Let's discuss why people start playing bad - like, Why does one person get his/her chip down before the other?
So here is my answer:

Desperate times call for desperate measures.
When the girl/boy is being over-protective and over-Jealous, relation starts to lose its magic!
When you keep checking , the other person defly starts to Lie!
​

You: where were you?
Him: Bro, I was buffering, not cheating you!

You: why no instant replies?
Him: Babe, I blinked! Won't happen again

You: who's that liking all your posts?
Hin: self employed AI bot

You: why did u crop me in your dp?
Him: silence! Sssshhh
Me: Girl!! Cmon!! It's his social media account. Not some group project to keep n tag everyone!!

See!! Maybe, You meant well, but look where you ended up! Don't keep asking your partner where they are.... They are probably writing their Autobiography -Life outside your chat window!
Soo, this is how I ruined mine.
Now you tell me why virtual fires die often?? And let's all work on this together.

With Lust,
Pearl Beach

Virtual love fades away because....

• Either the person got connected to another or found the things he/she was missing with their partner
• No more feelings -- lost them due to several reasons.
• Invading too much into the partners life by not giving space -- loss of mutual respect.
• Not trying to understand what their partner is facing or the situation they're in.
• etc etc... idk why I said these things... but just felt to say...

 

[Elsa]

Wasting time is one thing. You are right! But what about the serious ones?
I don't understand why virtual love is somehow dismissed and often laughed at!

One of my good old friends asked me this. "DO you think the person in a virtual relationship is a BOT? We are in this whole thing with real feelings too!" Well, he has a solid point.

Yes, we are humans too and our feelings are real too ! Just because a connection happens through a screen doesn't mean it's not real.

​

Virtual or real love always fails when the love is not expressed , it fails when too many lies fall into it , it fails when it was only giving affection but not recieving in return , but the major reson for the failure of any relationship was lies, it is better to hurt by saying the truth than making happy by saying a lie...

Most of the relationships or partners got effected by knowing the truth themselves, here the truth hurts the partner but when they realise their partner lied it hurts more ....

 

[Pearl Beach]

Take Our Freindship Selfie So We Remember Each Other From Now​

Wow​

Not everyone has a great sense of humor n even if they do, they may not express it as much. !
You're such a positive soul! Stay blessed, and yep, we are F R I E N D S!​

 

[Pearl Beach]

So, you finally Responsible Rapido guy me.

Fantastic - Dream job unlocked!​

Ahh Look at how humble you areeee!!
that's exactly why I can't help but keep my eyes on you - Stalkerrr!
Now lemme quickly install Rapido before I get lost in ya again..!

And the slogan goes lyk:
BIKE WALI TAXI
SABSE SAXI
WHERE IS MY JAXIE..!​

 

[Pearl Beach]

eventhough it hurts​

Love hurts ofcrs when the other person is not as invested as you are..most of us know ths fact n yet, don't tread carefully! That's okay suffering is inevitable in love. I prefer suffering to Boredom​

Entertainment itself has reduced the window frame, so just think about rest. B​

​

This metaphor z a puuure genius, Crispy! You jus turned my boring conversation into smthing deep - interesting and meaningful at the same time ​

 

[Shez4u4ever]

Not everyone has a great sense of humor n even if they do, they may not express it as much. !
You're such a positive soul! Stay blessed, and yep, we are F R I E N D S!​

Aww This Really Made My Day .... Such A Beautifulll Personality U Are ...... God Bless U In Every Situation . Be Happy Always . And Happy Holi to U And Ur Family Dear .... @Pearl Beach