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ద్వేషించిన వాళ్ళను ప్రేమించగలిగే మనం ప్రేమించిన వాళ్ళను ఎందుకు ద్వేషించలేకపోతునం... అది లోపమా లేక బలహీనత..?

We can love the persons whom we hate... But Why can't we hate the ones we love ... Is it a defect or a weakness?
 
Maybe because Love is far more superior than Hate. You are capable of love than hate, so yeah hahahaha... :emo: and btw we can hate the one we love, after all we are human, but if you truly love that fella, hate is nothing but a simple heartache ( lol almost copied from a song) Thus, Love and Hate --- love always win in the end. :p

Insert: its a strength! Coz you choose loving despite whatever circumstances comes.
 
Well, it is because of endorphins. Love is a drug, whenever you see someone you love, whenever you remember memories of your love, it releases endorphins in your body which will give you a high, just like doing drugs. But whenever you cross paths with someone you hate, your subconscious triggers its protective mechanism releasing different hormones cause you have bad memories with them or they exhibit behaviour that makes you uncomfortable. Those hormones make you feel shitty, hence you feel low.

Fun fact: Do you know Oxytocin is responsible for both love and hate? So whenever you love someone technically you are also hating them.

We are wired to avoid pain and seek pleasure. So love always wins in the end as it is a drug and hate always loses as it makes you feel shitty, I mean, come on, nobody wants to feel shitty for a long time. Having said that, when I say "love always wins" I mean "the other person may not love you back but they give up on hating you, hence creating a possibility to fall in love with you but it is highly unlikely"

As much as people love to believe "Love is a strength"
I would like to say "It is a weakness disguised as strength" (But believing in the former makes you feel better, so go ahead, no problemo)

So, love, is a drug and drugs are not good, they will make you lose control and make you do stupid things.

So hey you...................yes I am talking to you, don't do drugs ok, drugs are not good.
 
Well, it is because of endorphins. Love is a drug, whenever you see someone you love, whenever you remember memories of your love, it releases endorphins in your body which will give you a high, just like doing drugs. But whenever you cross paths with someone you hate, your subconscious triggers its protective mechanism releasing different hormones cause you have bad memories with them or they exhibit behaviour that makes you uncomfortable. Those hormones make you feel shitty, hence you feel low.

Fun fact: Do you know Oxytocin is responsible for both love and hate? So whenever you love someone technically you are also hating them.

We are wired to avoid pain and seek pleasure. So love always wins in the end as it is a drug and hate always loses as it makes you feel shitty, I mean, come on, nobody wants to feel shitty for a long time. Having said that, when I say "love always wins" I mean "the other person may not love you back but they give up on hating you, hence creating a possibility to fall in love with you but it is highly unlikely"

As much as people love to believe "Love is a strength"
I would like to say "It is a weakness disguised as strength" (But believing in the former makes you feel better, so go ahead, no problemo)

So, love, is a drug and drugs are not good, they will make you lose control and make you do stupid things.
And hypothalamus is the mastermind hahahahha poor heart always blamed:brokenheart: when all it does is just pump and supply blood :(
 
Well, it is because of endorphins. Love is a drug, whenever you see someone you love, whenever you remember memories of your love, it releases endorphins in your body which will give you a high, just like doing drugs. But whenever you cross paths with someone you hate, your subconscious triggers its protective mechanism releasing different hormones cause you have bad memories with them or they exhibit behaviour that makes you uncomfortable. Those hormones make you feel shitty, hence you feel low.

Fun fact: Do you know Oxytocin is responsible for both love and hate? So whenever you love someone technically you are also hating them.

We are wired to avoid pain and seek pleasure. So love always wins in the end as it is a drug and hate always loses as it makes you feel shitty, I mean, come on, nobody wants to feel shitty for a long time. Having said that, when I say "love always wins" I mean "the other person may not love you back but they give up on hating you, hence creating a possibility to fall in love with you but it is highly unlikely"

As much as people love to believe "Love is a strength"
I would like to say "It is a weakness disguised as strength" (But believing in the former makes you feel better, so go ahead, no problemo)

So, love, is a drug and drugs are not good, they will make you lose control and make you do stupid things.

So hey you...................yes I am talking to you, don't do drugs ok, drugs are not good.
Then whats good...?
 
A good can become bad any time
so love can be turn into hate anytime

whereas chances bad becoming good is very rare so hate turning to love is also rare

but in movies you can see heroines hates hero first they fight very often and she likes villan but later vice versa :Cwl:
 
ద్వేషించిన వాళ్ళను ప్రేమించగలిగే మనం ప్రేమించిన వాళ్ళను ఎందుకు ద్వేషించలేకపోతునం... అది లోపమా లేక బలహీనత..?

We can love the persons whom we hate... But Why can't we hate the ones we love ... Is it a defect or a weakness?
Who said we can't hate the ones we love???

It depends on 2 things basically

1.If u truly love him/her and you understand that, whatever bad happened is not because of his/her real intention, then u never hate.

2. If u truly love him/her and you know that he/she cheated u intentionally, u definitely hate him/her including urself as u loved such a cheater.

Few people (who feel that they love the most) claims that "I'm avoiding him/her because I can't control my emotions and forget the memories and gives me lot of pain in my heart. Avoiding u is the best way of being myself happy".
Doesn't this looks soo selfish. What about the one who loved u who moved away because of unavoidable circumstances.

Simply like the validity is over 'sorry'.
 
Who said we can't hate the ones we love???

It depends on 2 things basically

1.If u truly love him/her and you understand that, whatever bad happened is not because of his/her real intention, then u never hate.

2. If u truly love him/her and you know that he/she cheated u intentionally, u definitely hate him/her including urself as u loved such a cheater.

Few people (who feel that they love the most) claims that "I'm avoiding him/her because I can't control my emotions and forget the memories and gives me lot of pain in my heart. Avoiding u is the best way of being myself happy".
Doesn't this looks soo selfish. What about the one who loved u who moved away because of unavoidable circumstances.

Simply like the validity is over 'sorry'.
Nice Explainesion..... But cheat chesina love cheyadame ga love ante..... Enemy ni kuda prema tho chuse vallam.... Antha preminchina ammai ni ela hate chestham... Am I right..?

Anyway Am lucky.... In my love ❤
 
Nice Explainesion..... But cheat chesina love cheyadame ga love ante..... Enemy ni kuda prema tho chuse vallam.... Antha preminchina ammai ni ela hate chestham... Am I right..?

Anyway Am lucky.... In my love ❤
1. Nobody loves an enemy, same time no hate may be because he is least bothered about him.
2. Even if u love ur enemy as u have a hugeeee heart, u don't believe or trust him. But in love u trust and believe, that's the reason u hate when u r cheated.
Again I'm saying u hate because u lost the trust not the love.
 
1. Nobody loves an enemy, same time no hate may be because he is least bothered about him.
2. Even if u love ur enemy as u have a hugeeee heart, u don't believe or trust him. But in love u trust and believe, that's the reason u hate when u r cheated.
Again I'm saying u hate because u lost the trust not the love.
Ya your right.... But antha nammina vallame ayithe.... Valla situations ni artham chesukolema.. ?
 
ద్వేషించిన వాళ్ళను ప్రేమించగలిగే మనం ప్రేమించిన వాళ్ళను ఎందుకు ద్వేషించలేకపోతునం... అది లోపమా లేక బలహీనత..?

We can love the persons whom we hate... But Why can't we hate the ones we love ... Is it a defect or a weakness?
Haha who said we can't hate the one we loved...
Am still hating n will hate for my life time the one who I loved the most :emo::smoking:
 
ద్వేషించిన వాళ్ళను ప్రేమించగలిగే మనం ప్రేమించిన వాళ్ళను ఎందుకు ద్వేషించలేకపోతునం... అది లోపమా లేక బలహీనత..?

We can love the persons whom we hate... But Why can't we hate the ones we love ... Is it a defect or a weakness?
Balahinathaa ne....!
Smoking or drinking ki nenu ante dwesham kani avi rendu ante naku prema
Antha try chesina smoke and drink ni dweshinchaleka pothunna
Adhi na balahinatha...
 
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