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Why Indian girls are not expressive when it is about SEX ?

ALBIN_7

ALBIN_7

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I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex. And we can't blame them but everyone for making their social environment so difficult for it.

When a girl wants to have sex or feel like experiencing real sex , a thousand of morał questions starts hitting her mind and she ends up deciding not to do that or instead masturbate or sext over to a stranger which is the possible SAFE way without risking her social commitmemts she is forced to follow.


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ALBIN_7 said:
I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex. And we can't blame them but everyone for making their social environment so difficult for it.

When a girl wants to have sex or feel like experiencing real sex , a thousand of morał questions starts hitting her mind and she ends up deciding not to do that or instead masturbate or sext over to a stranger which is the possible SAFE way without risking her social commitmemts she is forced to follow.


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ALBIN_7 said:
I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex. And we can't blame them but everyone for making their social environment so difficult for it.

When a girl wants to have sex or feel like experiencing real sex , a thousand of morał questions starts hitting her mind and she ends up deciding not to do that or instead masturbate or sext over to a stranger which is the possible SAFE way without risking her social commitmemts she is forced to follow.


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You are absolutely right
 
We live in a society where we are characterised based on our actions ...and these things are considered as "bad character"... ...we get judged.... and hence to avoid that sort, we don't express things in public or even generalise the one who are brave enough to express themselves....
 
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ALBIN_7 said:
I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex. And we can't blame them but everyone for making their social environment so difficult for it.

When a girl wants to have sex or feel like experiencing real sex , a thousand of morał questions starts hitting her mind and she ends up deciding not to do that or instead masturbate or sext over to a stranger which is the possible SAFE way without risking her social commitmemts she is forced to follow.


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Indian culture is like a great programming tool. Our parents and society have programmed our mind with these useless moral values, which other countries break free from. When we grow up, these values becoming a shackle that bind us. Its not just about girls, boys also have the same problem. (Writing from experience)
 
ALBIN_7 said:
I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex. And we can't blame them but everyone for making their social environment so difficult for it.

When a girl wants to have sex or feel like experiencing real sex , a thousand of morał questions starts hitting her mind and she ends up deciding not to do that or instead masturbate or sext over to a stranger which is the possible SAFE way without risking her social commitmemts she is forced to follow.


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Right.... due to her social boundaries....... They can't properly express what they want.....
 
rits_ said:
We live in a society where we are characterised based on our actions ...and these things are considered as "bad character"... ...we get judged.... and hence to avoid that sort, we don't express things in public or even generalise the one who are brave enough to express themselves....
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Yes, exactly.

So I think these can all change future generations if we put on a li'l effort to not moral traffic or judge people around and mind our own business. I say this coz I've close friends, some who are doctors like me , so even highly qualified and most of them live their life on their own wish. None of them want anyone to judge'em. But.... when it comes to other's matter they tend to be the usual judging, moral policing , narrow minded , and the reasonbthey say is , they didn't have this freedom when they wished for , so they cant let the new generation enjoy it easily.

Which sound insane and immaturely revengeful.


So I hope atlwast we can put aside such stupid thoughts and make it a better social environment for new generations.


" LIVE AND LET LIVE "
 
Tom26 said:
Indian culture is like a great programming tool. Our parents and society have programmed our mind with these useless moral values, which other countries break free from. When we grow up, these values becoming a shackle that bind us. Its not just about girls, boys also have the same problem. (Writing from experience)
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I agree. Talking of culture. Culture is not some old tradition to be kept that way. Culture is our way of living for the give social environment. But in India and a few Asian countries culture has been misinterpreted or purposely kept it that way so that the powerful people can always be powerful and dominant.

And I'll agree this methods was useful and helpful for certain tine periods in the past. But clearly not anymore.

While most countries understand the importance of their culture and respect it, we Indians and still forced to live according to old standards and the people who advantage of this is politicians in my personal view.
 
ALBIN_7 said:
I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex. And we can't blame them but everyone for making their social environment so difficult for it.

When a girl wants to have sex or feel like experiencing real sex , a thousand of morał questions starts hitting her mind and she ends up deciding not to do that or instead masturbate or sext over to a stranger which is the possible SAFE way without risking her social commitmemts she is forced to follow.


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reading this and sharing it with some other females ,we do see some valid points ,what we dont see is who to blame when you speak of social eviroment or society . when it comes to sex maybe women are more resevered but it is not because of questions ,it is not of how they were brought up or disrespecting family etc .
it is because the moment a woman decides to be open about sexual discussions or sex in real or virtual they are automatically put into a catagorie . women dont have to sexualize themselves because the part of the Society that dominant the world are MEN. You Spoke about Indian girls not expressing themselves but it isnt just them it happens to women all over the world ,the fact that women in other countries are more free to express themselves and stronger doesnt mean they are less oppressed ,they just allow others to live there lives for them.

have you ever question how a woman feels being sexualised by men while walking down the street or out with friends or even just shopping for groceries , have you even looked or withnessed the behavoir of men in here for instance. in sex chat when a female gets on cam wether she be under dressed or dressed and just chattting she has to deal with men constantly demanding to show THEM this show them that and when the woman says NO she is abused ,called a whore or asked why you in the chat .
Why should women be forced to do what everyone else expects of her and suffer injustice

A man can go out and brag about his sex lfe ,what or who he had sex with ,cheat on his GF /Wife and nobody says anything ,he gets praised .
A woman who does the same ,who openly expresses sex or herself gets called a slut ,a whore.

Sexual expression isnt about society ,isnt about being scared ,isnt about disrespecting family values or how you were raised ,it is about someones self respect ,someones choice and someone's life .

and maybe if men made women feel more equal and less sexualised then maybe more women would feel comfortable expressing themselves more
and yes i am blaming in party the Male dominance in this situtation because you are also to blame in treating women as non equals in the world. it is about time you learn women dont just belong in the kitchen ,women have a right to be part of the world and have voices aswell as choices.

i wonder how many men in here will admit to doing what is mentioned ,how many have sexualised a women because you didnt care about how they felt or wanted but only you own sexual desire
 
ALBIN_7 said:
I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex. And we can't blame them but everyone for making their social environment so difficult for it.

When a girl wants to have sex or feel like experiencing real sex , a thousand of morał questions starts hitting her mind and she ends up deciding not to do that or instead masturbate or sext over to a stranger which is the possible SAFE way without risking her social commitmemts she is forced to follow.


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They are expressive , but the situations aren't.. healthy social changes should pave the way for them to jump out of their insecurities.
 
ALBIN_7 said:
I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex. And we can't blame them but everyone for making their social environment so difficult for it.

When a girl wants to have sex or feel like experiencing real sex , a thousand of morał questions starts hitting her mind and she ends up deciding not to do that or instead masturbate or sext over to a stranger which is the possible SAFE way without risking her social commitmemts she is forced to follow.


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Ath avark thonath kondaaa
 
u said [ " I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex." ] and then [ And we can't blame them ] .

so on ur first word you blame them when you wrote " I really think Indian girls are not open or expensive about sex "

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But yes guys [ not all ] whenever done sext or even sex in real they wanna share this like its something BIG ... soo after you can only blame yourself why girls are close ...just they don't wanna be point out !! So i alwyas say same ... keep things private even tho u not anymore with that person or it was just a fast romance ...
 
JUPITER said:
u said [ " I really think Indian girls are not open or expressive about sex." ] and then [ And we can't blame them ] .

so on ur first word you blame them when you wrote " I really think Indian girls are not open or expensive about sex "

________

But yes guys [ not all ] whenever done sext or even sex in real they wanna share this like its something BIG ... soo after you can only blame yourself why girls are close ...just they don't wanna be point out !! So i alwyas say same ... keep things private even tho u not anymore with that person or it was just a fast romance ...
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Ufff
 
Aphrodite said:
I appreciate your perspective and the points you've raised. While I understand that some aspects may be open to debate, I wholeheartedly agree with your emphasis on respecting and not sexualizing women. However, I'd like to share a few scientific insights that align with logical reasoning.

It's often assumed that men are solely to blame for objectifying attractive women, but it's important to acknowledge that men are naturally inclined to be visually stimulated by feminine beauty due to genetic factors. Personally, I've found it helpful to redirect my thoughts by considering the discomfort it could cause the woman in question, and by empathizing with my own sister and mother in similar situations.

By consciously suppressing our natural inclinations, men can contribute to creating a more comfortable environment for women. It's encouraging to see that many men are already making efforts in this regard, and I believe that collectively we can strive to make the world a better place for everyone.

Regarding the historical dominance of men, it's true that in the past, men often served as the working class while women focused on reproduction to ensure the survival of their communities. However, given our current overpopulated world, women now have the opportunity to be seen as equals in families rather than solely as reproducers. I genuinely hope this trend continues to improve.

When discussing "domination," it's crucial to note that it primarily refers to work-related aspects. For instance, it's challenging to envision a woman dominating a physically demanding job like heavy lifting, as the female body is not naturally equipped for such strenuous tasks. However, it's essential to remember that men are men, and women are women, each with their unique qualities. It's not about seeking equal outcomes for both genders, but rather striving for equity—a fair and just treatment that acknowledges and respects the inherent differences between men and women.

Please note that I don't intend to offend anyone with my perspective. These opinions and beliefs are entirely personal. Let's engage in respectful dialogue to foster understanding and create a world where both genders can thrive
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