What people should n must know ... About depression

[Deleted member 3142]

Well i know posting things here changes nothing....
I know you have been there for me... Friends.. caring.love .. sisters.. brothers.. family (And you might think that why would she post it)..
Cuz there are things people should know about. It's not just about me. It's about depression and the things we actually deal with when we are in depression..

Because i always heard people say ..oh c'mon only you are suffering? Life is not fair to anyone .. c'mon you will be alright... it's not a big deal ..
But do you know that how many times a person dies when they are in depression?
Cause i want to scream out loud that I'm not alright .. i want to cry out loud that I'm not okay .. yet i smile and say that i am fine . Everything is okay... Because no one would understand anyways ..no one would actually care ..

I am a mother.. if at all i am not a mother...
I would have not been alive today....
Because there are years of unheard screams and tears that i dealt with .... Even today i wanted to die . Yet i can't ...i want to scream and shout ..yet i can't ...i want to cry out loud... Yet i can't...i want to share and talk to someone about how much it actually hurts ...and how much i wish that things are different ... But yet i can't...

Not because no one is there for me to share but no one would actually understand it ...they just say... You have everything in life.
Money ...kid ...family .... Beautiful life ....
But they can't see the screams and tears behind my smile.....they can't hear my thoughts... usually they say everyone has a story and shut my mouth off before even completing my story ..

So
Guys why i am posting this thread is ...

If someone shares something about their pain or suffering with you....you don't need show empathy...but atleast listen to them...be a good listener... If you actually care for them ..give them your time..and don't let them feel lonely...

Cuz not everyone can have a strong cause not to die.. do they ...!


PS...don't sympathize with me .. i don't want that... And also i fucking know that i will be fine ... don't say that ....i know better days will come ... I know that i am brave enough to handle ...i know all these things.... Yet i mourn through pain silently....cuz only it helps me to sleep...no other
I posted this so people'might actually learn to accept others situation rather than suggesting about life and philosophy...


Thanks

 

[Radheyy]

Me too come across such sitvns and thots...hope today mrng i just overcome this depression from past 4yrs... today i feel light nd relax... which makes happy inside...
 
Now i too realise just wait for your moment to happen which changes your life as you wish...

 

[Freaky]

 

[KIARA]

Well i know posting things here changes nothing....
I know you have been there for me... Friends.. caring.love .. sisters.. brothers.. family (And you might think that why would she post it)..
Cuz there are things people should know about. It's not just about me. It's about depression and the things we actually deal with when we are in depression..

Because i always heard people say ..oh c'mon only you are suffering? Life is not fair to anyone .. c'mon you will be alright... it's not a big deal ..
But do you know that how many times a person dies when they are in depression?
Cause i want to scream out loud that I'm not alright .. i want to cry out loud that I'm not okay .. yet i smile and say that i am fine . Everything is okay... Because no one would understand anyways ..no one would actually care ..

I am a mother.. if at all i am not a mother...
I would have not been alive today....
Because there are years of unheard screams and tears that i dealt with .... Even today i wanted to die . Yet i can't ...i want to scream and shout ..yet i can't ...i want to cry out loud... Yet i can't...i want to share and talk to someone about how much it actually hurts ...and how much i wish that things are different ... But yet i can't...

Not because no one is there for me to share but no one would actually understand it ...they just say... You have everything in life.
Money ...kid ...family .... Beautiful life ....
But they can't see the screams and tears behind my smile.....they can't hear my thoughts... usually they say everyone has a story and shut my mouth off before even completing my story ..

So
Guys why i am posting this thread is ...

If someone shares something about their pain or suffering with you....you don't need show empathy...but atleast listen to them...be a good listener... If you actually care for them ..give them your time..and don't let them feel lonely...

Cuz not everyone can have a strong cause not to die.. do they ...!


PS...don't sympathize with me .. i don't want that... I posted this so people'might actually learn to accept others situation rather than suggesting about life and philosophy...


Thanks

Yeah true da

 

[Snowflake]

Well i know posting things here changes nothing....
I know you have been there for me... Friends.. caring.love .. sisters.. brothers.. family (And you might think that why would she post it)..
Cuz there are things people should know about. It's not just about me. It's about depression and the things we actually deal with when we are in depression..

Because i always heard people say ..oh c'mon only you are suffering? Life is not fair to anyone .. c'mon you will be alright... it's not a big deal ..
But do you know that how many times a person dies when they are in depression?
Cause i want to scream out loud that I'm not alright .. i want to cry out loud that I'm not okay .. yet i smile and say that i am fine . Everything is okay... Because no one would understand anyways ..no one would actually care ..

I am a mother.. if at all i am not a mother...
I would have not been alive today....
Because there are years of unheard screams and tears that i dealt with .... Even today i wanted to die . Yet i can't ...i want to scream and shout ..yet i can't ...i want to cry out loud... Yet i can't...i want to share and talk to someone about how much it actually hurts ...and how much i wish that things are different ... But yet i can't...

Not because no one is there for me to share but no one would actually understand it ...they just say... You have everything in life.
Money ...kid ...family .... Beautiful life ....
But they can't see the screams and tears behind my smile.....they can't hear my thoughts... usually they say everyone has a story and shut my mouth off before even completing my story ..

So
Guys why i am posting this thread is ...

If someone shares something about their pain or suffering with you....you don't need show empathy...but atleast listen to them...be a good listener... If you actually care for them ..give them your time..and don't let them feel lonely...

Cuz not everyone can have a strong cause not to die.. do they ...!


PS...don't sympathize with me .. i don't want that... I posted this so people'might actually learn to accept others situation rather than suggesting about life and philosophy...


Thanks

Recently, I am in a phase but I passed that

 

[Shyam]

Me too come across such sitvns and thots...hope today mrng i just overcome this depression from past 4yrs... today i feel light nd relax... which makes happy inside...
 
Now i too realise just wait for your moment to happen which changes your life as you wish...

If someone shares something about their pain or suffering with you....you don't need show empathy...but atleast listen to them...be a good listener... If you actually care for them ..give them your time..and don't let them feel lonely...

Every pain inside us can be light and gradually fades away after being shared to our loved one, it's happy to know you are feeling light now

 

[sssingh]

Usually i don't read such a long posts but this post about to depression and especially this is your post @The D€✓!l DR the devil's post (how can i dare to unread)
You know I'm great listener.

Yes as you said atleast we should listen to them after that they feel relaxed

 

[Versatile]

Well i know posting things here changes nothing....
I know you have been there for me... Friends.. caring.love .. sisters.. brothers.. family (And you might think that why would she post it)..
Cuz there are things people should know about. It's not just about me. It's about depression and the things we actually deal with when we are in depression..

Because i always heard people say ..oh c'mon only you are suffering? Life is not fair to anyone .. c'mon you will be alright... it's not a big deal ..
But do you know that how many times a person dies when they are in depression?
Cause i want to scream out loud that I'm not alright .. i want to cry out loud that I'm not okay .. yet i smile and say that i am fine . Everything is okay... Because no one would understand anyways ..no one would actually care ..

I am a mother.. if at all i am not a mother...
I would have not been alive today....
Because there are years of unheard screams and tears that i dealt with .... Even today i wanted to die . Yet i can't ...i want to scream and shout ..yet i can't ...i want to cry out loud... Yet i can't...i want to share and talk to someone about how much it actually hurts ...and how much i wish that things are different ... But yet i can't...

Not because no one is there for me to share but no one would actually understand it ...they just say... You have everything in life.
Money ...kid ...family .... Beautiful life ....
But they can't see the screams and tears behind my smile.....they can't hear my thoughts... usually they say everyone has a story and shut my mouth off before even completing my story ..

So
Guys why i am posting this thread is ...

If someone shares something about their pain or suffering with you....you don't need show empathy...but atleast listen to them...be a good listener... If you actually care for them ..give them your time..and don't let them feel lonely...

Cuz not everyone can have a strong cause not to die.. do they ...!


PS...don't sympathize with me .. i don't want that... And also i fucking know that i will be fine ... don't say that ....i know better days will come ... I know that i am brave enough to handle ...i know all these things.... Yet i mourn through pain silently....cuz only it helps me to sleep...no other
I posted this so people'might actually learn to accept others situation rather than suggesting about life and philosophy...


Thanks

For me in zozo its been like more of a good listener recentlyy. Just listen to them and dont utter a word till they want me to respond on it.
Am i just being some psychiatrist at times is what makes me feel. But yeah feels good though cause i kinda see more of fun intended people around who be for us less . Im alll earsssss is what i say and just place ma hands on my cheeks and listen to them and feel them as much as i can

 

[Octavia]

Just a naked truth.
Recently, i feel like my soul slowly departing my body as if am just floating and my mind wanders somewhere as if am looking my self in a third person's perspective.
Witnessing howoverwhelming to feel something you do not completely understand as if a hole is there and all you do is breathe deeply as if you're on a deep sea swimming to survive.
i just lost someone under my care made me realized alot of things . That every moment of every day is precious that you will never know what tomorrow may bring , good or bad. sad or happy. When its over it is over , you can never undo anything.
So keep winning battles no one knows .

 

[Deleted member 3142]

Me too come across such sitvns and thots...hope today mrng i just overcome this depression from past 4yrs... today i feel light nd relax... which makes happy inside...
 
Now i too realise just wait for your moment to happen which changes your life as you wish...

Good to know that you came out of it.... And thanks for wishing me well

Yeah true da

Thanks for taking your time to read it .. it actually means you are patient enough to listen to someone when needed ..keep it up..

Recently, I am in a phase but I passed that

Glad to hear that you passed that phase....i know how hard it is.....hope you never have to go back...

Thanks dear for suggesting something that is of help

Every pain inside us can be light and gradually fades away after being shared to our loved one, it's happy to know you are feeling light now

Yes ...it does.....but sometimes the hope and light fades... that's when it makes me feel lost....but it's okay i always get backup....

Usually i don't read such a long posts but this post about to depression and especially this is your post @The D€✓!l DR the devil's post (how can i dare to unread)
You know I'm great listener.

Yes as you said atleast we should listen to them after that they feel relaxed

Thanks naresh ...i know you will be there for me to listen whenever I needed....but thanks for reading it ...thought it's long...

Just a naked truth.
Recently, i feel like my soul slowly departing my body as if am just floating and my mind wanders somewhere as if am looking my self in a third person's perspective.
Witnessing howoverwhelming to feel something you do not completely understand as if a hole is there and all you do is breathe deeply as if you're on a deep sea swimming to survive.
i just lost someone under my care made me realized alot of things . That every moment of every day is precious that you will never know what tomorrow may bring , good or bad. sad or happy. When its over it is over , you can never undo anything.
So keep winning battles no one knows .

Thank you so much dear ...for those meaningful words.... Yes no matter what kind of battle it is we always have to fight it ...winning or losing doens't matter....fighting is what matters

For me in zozo its been like more of a good listener recentlyy. Just listen to them and dont utter a word till they want me to respond on it.
Am i just being some psychiatrist at times is what makes me feel. But yeah feels good though cause i kinda see more of fun intended people around who be for us less . Im alll earsssss is what i say and just place ma hands on my cheeks and listen to them and feel them as much as i can

Thanks babes.... For helping someone in need....cuz most of all what people really need is someone to lean on to...when these phase came....so thanks ...keep it up darling...

My two cents: When you want people (particularly in zozo) to know something, keep it succinct.


If anyone is suffering from depression, they must stay away from virtual world, there are more freaks here, it can further mess up things.

well tbh people who wrote many topics here are mostly googled or researched rathar than experienced.... And I don't actually see anyone keeping their content brief even though all they (some ) do is copy n paste ....
I wrote what and how i felt....at that point of time...it might be lengthy for some to read... But it's not a story to brief it....

And for the second cent you have provided...
You might not know but most people here came either they felt lonely or depressed ... Not every one who comes here ..come for sexting or fun....
But i agree.... you are half right ... There are freaks here... Just like in reality... And yet who means to us will be there when we need a hand to pull us out of darkness...

But either way even though we have differences in our opinions.... Thanks for reading or reacting ...

 

[URum]

Well said