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What is polyamory relationship

Deepak Kiran

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24-year-old Garima loves three boys. All three are her boyfriends. Especially Garima's three boyfriends know each other very well. They all took that bond lightly.

Is it possible for one person to love three people at the same time? That is the question now

Garima answers 'yes' to that.

In fact, this kind of relationship she has is called 'Polyamorous relationship'. Many people know that such a relationship is called polyamory.
Many around the world, including India, are now openly talking about such bonds.

What is polyamory relationship?​

Polyamory is a combination of two Greek and Latin words. Poly(Greek) Emor(Latin) words. Poly means many or more than one, Emor means love. That is, loving one or more than one person is called 'polyamory'.

The most important thing for polyamory is honesty and transparency in their relationships. Each partner in this relationship should understand each other well. He should advance his relationship with everyone's acceptance.
 

Garima, the story of her lovers, from their mouths…​

"I fell in love for the first time when I was around 13-14. We were both very happy. Everything was going well. Then I was attracted to someone else. But I didn't feel like giving up my first partner either. But how can a girl have two boyfriends?

"Some years in my youth were very confusing and difficult for me. I went through a severe 'identity crisis'. Many people who knew me even labeled me as 'tainted'. Many told me that I was addicted to sex and that I should go to psychiatrists," says Garima. ..

"I also went to a counsellor. My counselor told me a lot. He also questioned how any boy can accept his girlfriend having another boyfriend. His words confused me even more".

"In between I went abroad to study. The atmosphere there helped me understand myself. There I read many books on modern relationships, sex, evolution. I met many people like me there. They all said they were not ashamed of being like that".

Slowly I came out of that gloomy and awkward atmosphere. I accepted myself.
 

Found companion but...​

"I found my companion abroad in another man. He was much older than me and wiser. I told him openly about my nature. He told me that he had no objections about my thoughts and my way of life".

"We loved. We enjoyed life. But when I got closer to someone else, that all changed. He accepted polyamory in theory. But when he came to know the truth, he couldn't bear it".

He used to say to me, "Is there something lacking in my love? Is our relationship that weak? If you are attracted to someone else, don't you like our sex life?".

"I told him everything before. So now I don't have anything to tell him to understand. So we slowly drifted apart".
 

Love is born again​

"Meanwhile I met Mihir on the dating app Tinder. Sometimes after meeting I told Mihir everything about myself. We both decided to live with complete honesty and no pressure".

"After Mihir and Arnell were together, I started liking him. I wanted to date him. I told Mihir that. He told me to meet him. I told Mihir that we had a physical relationship after meeting him".

"Hearing all this, Mihir behaved very normally. He didn't feel bad about it. He didn't feel jealous. However, he expressed those feelings very soberly. His behavior affected me a lot. I felt that Mihir would be with me even further. Later he also met my third partner. ".

"After some time I also liked another guy. I also developed a relationship with him. To be honest, I have three boyfriends right now. All three know each other. But my primary (main) partner is Mihiri. I spend most of my time with him".

"However, the biggest challenge of being polyamory is that we get very little time for ourselves. It is difficult for everyone to maintain a relationship. But I am in two-two, three-three relationships at the same time. Then time-management is very difficult".
 

People mean 'pro______________', answer...​

"I told my uncles that I was polyamory. They accepted me to an extent. But they didn't know much about polyamory".

"They are very open about Mihir. He also comes to our house. But they don't talk about my other two partners in our house. I also don't talk about them at home."

"If you ask me about marriage, I would say I am against it. Marriage is a patriarchal system. It is more economic than social. But if pressure increases on me to get married, if my thoughts change in future, I will marry Mihir".

"Even now, some people who know me call me a 'sl??'. But I don't care. If anyone talks too much, I say to them, "Yes, I like to have relationships with all kinds of men, but what?"
 
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