Vulnerable

[Jaanuu]

A self note :-

I'm bad at maintaining human relationships; I struggle to keep up conversations and express my feelings. I yearn for someone to understand me, but I often isolate myself in a dark, closed room. I'm complex, and I've come to realize that my struggles are self-inflicted. I used to think my appearance drove people away, but now I see that I'm the one who messes up relationships.

I overthink, creating chaos in my fragile mind. I blame others for disrupting my mental peace, but I'm the one responsible. I'm anxious about interacting with others, fearing attachment and detachment. I wish to open up and share my feelings, but I struggle to do so.

I thought I was simple, but the more I learn about myself, the more complex I realize I am. I'm trying to accept myself as I am, rather than overthinking. However, when someone who claims to know me well pointed out my flaws, I struggled to accept responsibility. It's clear that the problem lies within me.

Everything that happens inside me is my responsibility; I'm the only one who can make changes within myself, and I'm the only one who can cure myself.

Thank you for whoever openly confessed about how I am.

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

A self note :-

I'm bad at maintaining human relationships; I struggle to keep up conversations and express my feelings. I yearn for someone to understand me, but I often isolate myself in a dark, closed room. I'm complex, and I've come to realize that my struggles are self-inflicted. I used to think my appearance drove people away, but now I see that I'm the one who messes up relationships.

I overthink, creating chaos in my fragile mind. I blame others for disrupting my mental peace, but I'm the one responsible. I'm anxious about interacting with others, fearing attachment and detachment. I wish to open up and share my feelings, but I struggle to do so.

I thought I was simple, but the more I learn about myself, the more complex I realize I am. I'm trying to accept myself as I am, rather than overthinking. However, when someone who claims to know me well pointed out my flaws, I struggled to accept responsibility. It's clear that the problem lies within me.

Everything that happens inside me is my responsibility; I'm the only one who can make changes within myself, and I'm the only one who can cure myself.

Thank you for whoever openly confessed about how I am.

 

[marcello]

A self note :-

I'm bad at maintaining human relationships; I struggle to keep up conversations and express my feelings. I yearn for someone to understand me, but I often isolate myself in a dark, closed room. I'm complex, and I've come to realize that my struggles are self-inflicted. I used to think my appearance drove people away, but now I see that I'm the one who messes up relationships.

I overthink, creating chaos in my fragile mind. I blame others for disrupting my mental peace, but I'm the one responsible. I'm anxious about interacting with others, fearing attachment and detachment. I wish to open up and share my feelings, but I struggle to do so.

I thought I was simple, but the more I learn about myself, the more complex I realize I am. I'm trying to accept myself as I am, rather than overthinking. However, when someone who claims to know me well pointed out my flaws, I struggled to accept responsibility. It's clear that the problem lies within me.

Everything that happens inside me is my responsibility; I'm the only one who can make changes within myself, and I'm the only one who can cure myself.

Thank you for whoever openly confessed about how I am.

yea even though i want someone to spend time & rely on their shoulder, i keep to stay away from them. Maybe its because of past incidents or pain in attachments. Be that old charming girl. Its all about mindset, if we choose to be happy.. We will

 

[TheWiTcher08]

Everyone we see out in the world is more complex in their own ways!
Everyine has flaws, people aren't always the same, aren't always happy, aren't always sad.
Things come n go!
It's ok to isolate, it's ok to overthink, it's ok to be complex, n it's ok to fuck up things at times! . What is not ok is not taking up the responsibility & standing there itself!
Stop blaming yourself for everything, you have taken up the responsibility, now start acting on that where you want the changes! You & only you is responsible for your happiness !
And trust me , whatevere flaws you see in yourself, there is much more good in you!
You were there for me when i struggled.
And there are poeple here for you to reach out too!
Everything's gonna be allright

 

[Ihsan]

A self note :-

I'm bad at maintaining human relationships; I struggle to keep up conversations and express my feelings. I yearn for someone to understand me, but I often isolate myself in a dark, closed room. I'm complex, and I've come to realize that my struggles are self-inflicted. I used to think my appearance drove people away, but now I see that I'm the one who messes up relationships.

I overthink, creating chaos in my fragile mind. I blame others for disrupting my mental peace, but I'm the one responsible. I'm anxious about interacting with others, fearing attachment and detachment. I wish to open up and share my feelings, but I struggle to do so.

I thought I was simple, but the more I learn about myself, the more complex I realize I am. I'm trying to accept myself as I am, rather than overthinking. However, when someone who claims to know me well pointed out my flaws, I struggled to accept responsibility. It's clear that the problem lies within me.

Everything that happens inside me is my responsibility; I'm the only one who can make changes within myself, and I'm the only one who can cure myself.

Thank you for whoever openly confessed about how I am.

You are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen, and I don't just mean it by physical standards!!

You have an inner world that you are constantly exploring and constantly searching for, keep doing it..

It is tiresome enough to maintain a normal human relationship and I know how far you have come from a person who hides her every bit of emotions among words and poems and stories to a person who talks about them out in the open and who realises that this is who I am and maybe some changes need to happen.

Changes are necessary for a human to move forward in life, otherwise the person would get stuck in their endeavours.

And the flaws you see in yourself is actually what makes you!! You are perfect through your imperfections.

And you are going in the right direction and hope you improve and change with every step you take for the greater future ahead of you

 

[JasGhost]

Overthinking is a habit that eats away at you and many don’t realize the battle you fight inside. It often lead to say things you later overanalyze.

If you're working on changing for your own peace that's a good initiative . But i must say It’s hard to remove something that's part of your personality so don’t blame yourself too much. And there are ways to manage the negativity that comes with it.

For example I overthink a lot but never let thoughts pile up too much for many days . I talk to the person involved, sharing my concerns (it helps more if they’re considerate). Still saying things out loud often makes you realize where you might be wrong. Bottling it up only leads to bad outbursts.

Try to balance positive and negative scenarios instead of drawing conclusions too soon ( yeah it's not possible everytime but still try not to draw any conclusion) . Also when your thoughts become repetitive keep yourself busy and stay around people even when it’s hard.

I still struggle with this but someone often says to me, "Don't be hard on yourself." I’ll say the same to you . <3

 

[Ihsan]

Overthinking is a habit that eats away at you and many don’t realize the battle you fight inside. It often lead to say things you later overanalyze.

If you're working on changing for your own peace that's a good initiative . But i must say It’s hard to remove something that's part of your personality so don’t blame yourself too much. And there are ways to manage the negativity that comes with it.

For example I overthink a lot but never let thoughts pile up too much for many days . I talk to the person involved, sharing my concerns (it helps more if they’re considerate). Still saying things out loud often makes you realize where you might be wrong. Bottling it up only leads to bad outbursts.

Try to balance positive and negative scenarios instead of drawing conclusions too soon ( yeah it's not possible everytime but still try not to draw any conclusion) . Also when your thoughts become repetitive keep yourself busy and stay around people even when it’s hard.

I still struggle with this but someone often says to me, "Don't be hard on yourself." I’ll say the same to you . <3

You just took the words right out of my mouth

 

[EkaLustYa]

I'm trying to accept myself as I am, rather than overthinking

First step!

when someone who claims to know me well pointed out my flaws, I struggled to accept responsibility. It's clear that the problem lies within me

Second step!

Don’t fucking listen to anyone, you are as beautiful as you are and don’t trust anyone who says otherwise - just be you! Don’t try curl yourself into the modicum of societal norms just for the heck of it !

Third step!

Wish you all the very best in your self discovery!

 

[Anshhi]

A self note :-

I'm bad at maintaining human relationships; I struggle to keep up conversations and express my feelings. I yearn for someone to understand me, but I often isolate myself in a dark, closed room. I'm complex, and I've come to realize that my struggles are self-inflicted. I used to think my appearance drove people away, but now I see that I'm the one who messes up relationships.

I overthink, creating chaos in my fragile mind. I blame others for disrupting my mental peace, but I'm the one responsible. I'm anxious about interacting with others, fearing attachment and detachment. I wish to open up and share my feelings, but I struggle to do so.

I thought I was simple, but the more I learn about myself, the more complex I realize I am. I'm trying to accept myself as I am, rather than overthinking. However, when someone who claims to know me well pointed out my flaws, I struggled to accept responsibility. It's clear that the problem lies within me.

Everything that happens inside me is my responsibility; I'm the only one who can make changes within myself, and I'm the only one who can cure myself.

Thank you for whoever openly confessed about how I am.

Your self-note is a remarkable display of introspection and self-awareness. You're bravely confronting your struggles and taking responsibility for your growth.

This note showcases your:

1. *Courage*: You're facing your flaws and weaknesses head-on.
2. *Self-awareness*: You recognize your struggles and their self-inflicted nature.
3. *Complexity*: You're embracing your individuality and complexity.
4. *Personal responsibility*: You're taking ownership of your actions and emotions.

Remember that personal growth is a journey, and it's okay to take things one step at a time. Be patient and compassionate with yourself as you continue to work through your struggles.

Your words also highlight the importance of self-reflection and seeking support from others. It's okay to ask for help, and it's okay to not have all the answers.

Keep in mind that you're not alone in your struggles. Many people face similar challenges, and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
*A_AICS

 

[Jaanuu]

( Warning note : again another note I wrote in the darkest hour, I know it flows in the same pattern but this are just my raw thoughts, don't read it, If you don't feel, cuz I'm repeating kinda same things again.)


It's been days since I've felt this idle, and it's unsettling that nobody seems to have noticed or cared. I've been trying to make sense of my thoughts, but they're a jumbled mess. Someone's words have been echoing in my mind, and it's scary how true they are.

I've come to realize that I struggle with forming and maintaining meaningful relationships. I get scared when people get too close, and I end up pushing them away. I don't mean to hurt anyone, but I know I do.

I've been thinking about my friendships and how helpless I feel when I try to share my thoughts and feelings with them. I feel like they don't value me, and it's hard not to overthink it. Sometimes I feel like I'm available for them, but when I need them, they're not there.

I wish I could maintain good relationships, but I'm not sure if I'm doing enough. I wish someone would stay beside me and support me when I need it.

I do have a great gratitude towards him, who always showed up for me, listened to me, and accepted me. Thank you, really!

When I think about the memories we shared, I get disturbed. He doesn't seem to care anymore? And it makes me mad. I ask myself, why do I get too involved? Why can't I just exist and live life to the fullest?

I'm drawn to people who show me care and love, but I know those feelings can fade quickly. I try to break this pattern, but it's hard.

I know I'll be okay eventually, but the process of healing hurts. It really hurts.

I incline towards people who show me a little care and love. When they reciprocate, I feel happy, but slowly, one of us will fade away, leaving the other alone. It feels like I'll be left alone again, but I know the both will move on.

Thank you for listening.

 

[JeffJzz]

( Warning note : again another note I wrote in the darkest hour, I know it flows in the same pattern but this are just my raw thoughts, don't read it, If you don't feel, cuz I'm repeating kinda same things again.)


It's been days since I've felt this idle, and it's unsettling that nobody seems to have noticed or cared. I've been trying to make sense of my thoughts, but they're a jumbled mess. Someone's words have been echoing in my mind, and it's scary how true they are.

I've come to realize that I struggle with forming and maintaining meaningful relationships. I get scared when people get too close, and I end up pushing them away. I don't mean to hurt anyone, but I know I do.

I've been thinking about my friendships and how helpless I feel when I try to share my thoughts and feelings with them. I feel like they don't value me, and it's hard not to overthink it. Sometimes I feel like I'm available for them, but when I need them, they're not there.

I wish I could maintain good relationships, but I'm not sure if I'm doing enough. I wish someone would stay beside me and support me when I need it.

I do have a great gratitude towards him, who always showed up for me, listened to me, and accepted me. Thank you, really!

When I think about the memories we shared, I get disturbed. He doesn't seem to care anymore? And it makes me mad. I ask myself, why do I get too involved? Why can't I just exist and live life to the fullest?

I'm drawn to people who show me care and love, but I know those feelings can fade quickly. I try to break this pattern, but it's hard.

I know I'll be okay eventually, but the process of healing hurts. It really hurts.

I incline towards people who show me a little care and love. When they reciprocate, I feel happy, but slowly, one of us will fade away, leaving the other alone. It feels like I'll be left alone again, but I know the both will move on.

Thank you for listening.

Realizing your struggles is the first step toward growth. You're not alone - many feel the same way. Take your time, be patient with yourself, and remember that change starts from within. Keep going, you're doing better than you think.