The most important ingredient for a good time is trust. Trust that your partner will never cross a line, that would lead to pain or even make you feel uncomfortable. Trust that you can say what you like and what you don't like as s/he cannot read your mind. Trust that s/he will not ask you to do something you don't want. Trust that s/he will not use her/his physical advantage to force you into something you don't want. Trust that it is ok not to like something without being nagged about afterwards. Lots of love. #RahulYadav