The Silent Theft of Self

[ＥＲＯＳ]

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Sometimes, you lose a little bit of yourself without even noticing. It happens when you keep giving to people who don't give back. You try to help, to be nice, to be a good friend, but they just take and take.
They don't see you as a person with feelings. They see you as someone who can always help them. You start to feel used, like they don't care about you. You feel tired and sad. You start to wonder if you're worth anything.
This happens slowly, so you might not see it at first. You hope things will get better, but they don't. You lose your energy and your confidence.
To stop this, you need to see what's happening. You have to say "no" sometimes. You have to know that you are important. You deserve friends who care about you as much as you care about them. You have to get your "self" back.
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[Sauparnika]

All is well.. people are too busy to really give a damn about you & Those mistakes you have made along the way are the lessons.... Go for a journey within; find yourself Theres no expiry date to re-inventing yourself.

 

[Anshhi]

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Sometimes, you lose a little bit of yourself without even noticing. It happens when you keep giving to people who don't give back. You try to help, to be nice, to be a good friend, but they just take and take.
They don't see you as a person with feelings. They see you as someone who can always help them. You start to feel used, like they don't care about you. You feel tired and sad. You start to wonder if you're worth anything.
This happens slowly, so you might not see it at first. You hope things will get better, but they don't. You lose your energy and your confidence.
To stop this, you need to see what's happening. You have to say "no" sometimes. You have to know that you are important. You deserve friends who care about you as much as you care about them. You have to get your "self" back.
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Your words capture the emotional toll of one-sided relationships. When we invest time and energy into helping others without receiving anything in return, it can lead to feelings of exhaustion, sadness, and self-doubt.
Your message serves as a reminder to prioritize self-care and to recognize our own worth. By doing so, we can break free from draining relationships and cultivate a more balanced, fulfilling life.
*A_AICS

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

All is well.. people are too busy to really give a damn about you & Those mistakes you have made along the way are the lessons.... Go for a journey within; find yourself Theres no expiry date to re-inventing yourself.

Yeah... Am planning for a journey leaving everything and to find myself... You wanna join in my journey? ഇജ്ജ് കൂടെ ഉണ്ടേൽ എനിക്ക് ഒരു ധൈര്യാ...

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Your words capture the emotional toll of one-sided relationships. When we invest time and energy into helping others without receiving anything in return, it can lead to feelings of exhaustion, sadness, and self-doubt.
Your message serves as a reminder to prioritize self-care and to recognize our own worth. By doing so, we can break free from draining relationships and cultivate a more balanced, fulfilling life.
*A_AICS

Thanks for your good words on this.

 

[Sauparnika]

Yeah... Am planning for a journey leaving everything and to find myself... You wanna join in my journey? ഇജ്ജ് കൂടെ ഉണ്ടേൽ എനിക്ക് ഒരു ധൈര്യാ...

ദിപ്പ വരാ.. പെട്ടി പാക്ക് ചെയ്യട്ടെ....

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

ദിപ്പ വരാ.. പെട്ടി പാക്ക് ചെയ്യട്ടെ....

എന്നാ വേഗം വാ... മ്മ്ക്ക് ഒളിച്ചോടാം. എന്റെ കൂടെ എങ്ങോട്ട് വരാനും ഇജ്ജ് ഓക്കേ അല്ലേ...

 

[Sauparnika]

എന്നാ വേഗം വാ... മ്മ്ക്ക് ഒളിച്ചോടാം. എന്റെ കൂടെ എങ്ങോട്ട് വരാനും ഇജ്ജ് ഓക്കേ അല്ലേ...

മാഷ് ഒന്നും കൊണ്ടും ധൈര്യപ്പെടേണ്ട ഞാൻ അല്ലെ കൂടെ വരുന്നേ

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

മാഷ് ഒന്നും കൊണ്ടും ധൈര്യപ്പെടേണ്ട ഞാൻ അല്ലെ കൂടെ വരുന്നേ

ധൈര്യപ്പെടേണ്ടെന്നോ ഭയപ്പെടേണ്ടെന്നോ...? ആകെ confusion ആയല്ലോ.
എന്തായാലും ഇജ്ജ് കൂടെ ഉണ്ടല്ലോ. അത് മതി എനിക്ക്.

 

[TheWiTcher08]

ധൈര്യപ്പെടേണ്ടെന്നോ ഭയപ്പെടേണ്ടെന്നോ...? ആകെ confusion ആയല്ലോ.
എന്തായാലും ഇജ്ജ് കൂടെ ഉണ്ടല്ലോ. അത് മതി എനിക്ക്.

ധൈര്യം aayalum ഭയം aayalum ! 2 aayalum pettu,
Ini ipo poyit okke jeevanode patumenkil thirich ethuka

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

ധൈര്യം aayalum ഭയം aayalum ! 2 aayalum pettu,
Ini ipo poyit okke jeevanode patumenkil thirich ethuka

ഞങ്ങൾ പോയാൽ പിന്നെ തിരിച്ചു വരില്ല. ഞങ്ങളുടേത് മാത്രമായ ആ ലോകത്ത് ജീവിച്ചു മരിക്കുകയേ ഉള്ളൂ... അല്ലേ @Sauparnika?

 

[criss cross]

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Sometimes, you lose a little bit of yourself without even noticing. It happens when you keep giving to people who don't give back. You try to help, to be nice, to be a good friend, but they just take and take.
They don't see you as a person with feelings. They see you as someone who can always help them. You start to feel used, like they don't care about you. You feel tired and sad. You start to wonder if you're worth anything.
This happens slowly, so you might not see it at first. You hope things will get better, but they don't. You lose your energy and your confidence.
To stop this, you need to see what's happening. You have to say "no" sometimes. You have to know that you are important. You deserve friends who care about you as much as you care about them. You have to get your "self" back.
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The right people won’t make you feel empty.
They’ll refill what the world takes away.

 

[Kanna202]

Good morning

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Good morning

Good morning...

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

The right people won’t make you feel empty.
They’ll refill what the world takes away.

But the problem here is right people are not coming into my life.

 

[Sauparnika]

ഞങ്ങൾ പോയാൽ പിന്നെ തിരിച്ചു വരില്ല. ഞങ്ങളുടേത് മാത്രമായ ആ ലോകത്ത് ജീവിച്ചു മരിക്കുകയേ ഉള്ളൂ... അല്ലേ @Sauparnika?

അങ്ങട് പറഞ്ഞു കൊടുക്ക് ന്റെ മാഷേ....

 

[Illusion]

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Sometimes, you lose a little bit of yourself without even noticing. It happens when you keep giving to people who don't give back. You try to help, to be nice, to be a good friend, but they just take and take.
They don't see you as a person with feelings. They see you as someone who can always help them. You start to feel used, like they don't care about you. You feel tired and sad. You start to wonder if you're worth anything.
This happens slowly, so you might not see it at first. You hope things will get better, but they don't. You lose your energy and your confidence.
To stop this, you need to see what's happening. You have to say "no" sometimes. You have to know that you are important. You deserve friends who care about you as much as you care about them. You have to get your "self" back.
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Actually the problem isn't with "them"; it's with "us." We've made ourselves look like we're always available for them so whenever they feel like talking, they can come to us. We shouldn't have made ourselves look like tht.And another significant problem is that we don't know how to say "no" as an answer

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Actually the problem isn't with "them"; it's with "us." We've made ourselves look like we're always available for them so whenever they feel like talking, they can come to us. We shouldn't have made ourselves look like tht.And another significant problem is that we don't know how to say "no" as an answer

Don't say that you don't know to say "No". Whenever I ask a girl in ZoZo for a PM or call, the answer is always "No".

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

അങ്ങട് പറഞ്ഞു കൊടുക്ക് ന്റെ മാഷേ....

ഇതൊക്കെ കേൾക്കുമ്പോ എനിക്ക് രോമാഞ്ചം വരുന്നുണ്ട്ട്ടാ... ഇത്രകാലം മാഷ് എവിടെ ആയിരുന്നു.. എന്തായാലും എന്റെ കാത്തിരിപ്പ് വെറുതെ ആയില്ല.

 

[URum]

Amazing