That side of DEPRESSION

[Hannah]

why do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don't want anything anymore..?
Everybody talk about when it hurts like hell,when you cry,when you cut,when you take drugs,when you break down..
But no one ever talks about wen you just lay down in ur room, with a hole inside of you that u don't know how to fill ,and you don't want to do anything even the thing's you usually like..

So you just spend ur day kinda waiting for it to end..And it's horrible because you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time..
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Depression is not always in tears sometimes its in the smiles even not everyone is a musician nd would know how to play ur mindset well so.that it creates a soothing voice.....at the end depression is...something which u should let come out in words....nd u feel..good knowing that yaah u r alone nd thats okay knowing nobody needs u thats okay knowing world is full of selfishness thats okay too let go..!!

 

[Administrator]

why do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don't want anything anymore..?
Everybody talk about when it hurts like hell,when you cry,when you cut,when you take drugs,when you break down..
But no one ever talks about wen you just lay down in ur room, with a hole inside of you that u don't know how to fill ,and you don't want to do anything even the thing's you usually like..

So you just spend ur day kinda waiting for it to end..And it's horrible because you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time..
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Depression is not always in tears sometimes its in the smiles even not everyone is a musician nd would know how to play ur mindset well so.that it creates a soothing voice.....at the end depression is...something which u should let come out in words....nd u feel..good knowing that yaah u r alone nd thats okay knowing nobody needs u thats okay knowing world is full of selfishness thats okay too let go..!!

1. Because they don't want to
2. Because others do not want to know your weakness.
3. Because they feel like others shouldn't find out their vulnerable part and dominate you with it.
4. Because they simply don't want to think about the bad times they had, they don't want to remember the terrible moment in their life.
more to go on.

 

[ASMITHA ACHU]

why do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don't want anything anymore..?
Everybody talk about when it hurts like hell,when you cry,when you cut,when you take drugs,when you break down..
But no one ever talks about wen you just lay down in ur room, with a hole inside of you that u don't know how to fill ,and you don't want to do anything even the thing's you usually like..

So you just spend ur day kinda waiting for it to end..And it's horrible because you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time..
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Depression is not always in tears sometimes its in the smiles even not everyone is a musician nd would know how to play ur mindset well so.that it creates a soothing voice.....at the end depression is...something which u should let come out in words....nd u feel..good knowing that yaah u r alone nd thats okay knowing nobody needs u thats okay knowing world is full of selfishness thats okay too let go..!!

Maybe even the close ones can misunderstand at times, on what we go through. Especially while being broke from the inside.

 

[KIARA]

why do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don't want anything anymore..?
Everybody talk about when it hurts like hell,when you cry,when you cut,when you take drugs,when you break down..
But no one ever talks about wen you just lay down in ur room, with a hole inside of you that u don't know how to fill ,and you don't want to do anything even the thing's you usually like..

So you just spend ur day kinda waiting for it to end..And it's horrible because you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time..
.
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.
.
.
Depression is not always in tears sometimes its in the smiles even not everyone is a musician nd would know how to play ur mindset well so.that it creates a soothing voice.....at the end depression is...something which u should let come out in words....nd u feel..good knowing that yaah u r alone nd thats okay knowing nobody needs u thats okay knowing world is full of selfishness thats okay too let go..!!

I comitted sucide once when I was 14 yrs ...!!!! 6 yrs back I was very much depressed !!!!But aftEr tat I keep myself so busy n never let tat thought come into my mind !!!

 

[Krish_]

I comitted sucide once when I was 14 yrs ...!!!! 6 yrs back I was very much depressed !!!!But aftEr tat I keep myself so busy n never let tat thought come into my mind !!!

Never think of doing like this dosth. Always remember one thing ending life is not a solution to all problems and also Your life is not just your owns, your parents gave birth to you spent there precious time and resources to you for your betterment. Your life is also related to your parents, grand parents, loved ones, goes on the list. And Also Remember Suicide is a Crime in India according to IPC Section 309.
If you are dead then no-one cares but if by chance you get saved and recovered then god bless you You have to spend rest of life in Court and Jail.
Keep this in Mind Live your Life to the Youngest and Fullest cause what will happen tomorrow no one knows. And ending life is not a Solution to all but the beginning of a new problem.

 

[Krish_]

why do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don't want anything anymore..?
Everybody talk about when it hurts like hell,when you cry,when you cut,when you take drugs,when you break down..
But no one ever talks about wen you just lay down in ur room, with a hole inside of you that u don't know how to fill ,and you don't want to do anything even the thing's you usually like..

So you just spend ur day kinda waiting for it to end..And it's horrible because you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time..
.
.
.
.
.
Depression is not always in tears sometimes its in the smiles even not everyone is a musician nd would know how to play ur mindset well so.that it creates a soothing voice.....at the end depression is...something which u should let come out in words....nd u feel..good knowing that yaah u r alone nd thats okay knowing nobody needs u thats okay knowing world is full of selfishness thats okay too let go..!!

Ya for this part no one Asks about the matter that why are you depressed, why are you feeling bad is because Theres a Saying that In your happy times everyone will come to you even strangers, either to utilise your Moments of happiness so that they can be happy too or to Destroy your happy moments with a selfish attitude.
In Sad times no one cares about us They just try to stay away thinking our sadness can spoil there mood/ time or they become happy seeing our sadness.
Of course well-wishers can be an exception to it.
Its a truth that no one cares about our depressions or Rather we also feel shy and backed sharing our depressed thoughts to some-one.

For me in my times of depression appx. 4 years back, I tried travelling all alone to hills, beaches, hearing useless motivational talks, etc. but found nothing is helping me. So I tried shareing my thoughts to some-one, thus is why I am Depressed, I m hunting for solution. And after that I felt a bit relieved. So Discussing and sharing your problems with some one you firmly believe can kill depression like nothing else.

 

[Octavia]

why do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don't want anything anymore..?
Everybody talk about when it hurts like hell,when you cry,when you cut,when you take drugs,when you break down..
But no one ever talks about wen you just lay down in ur room, with a hole inside of you that u don't know how to fill ,and you don't want to do anything even the thing's you usually like..

So you just spend ur day kinda waiting for it to end..And it's horrible because you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time..
.
.
.
.
.
Depression is not always in tears sometimes its in the smiles even not everyone is a musician nd would know how to play ur mindset well so.that it creates a soothing voice.....at the end depression is...something which u should let come out in words....nd u feel..good knowing that yaah u r alone nd thats okay knowing nobody needs u thats okay knowing world is full of selfishness thats okay too let go..!!

Very true.
Emptiness. Nobody would ever understand what is going on someone's mind but themselves. When someone gone through tough times it is better to just listen and not give advices--at that moment, how hideous, manipulative, poisonous thoughts are. It tells you nobody cares! And when you needed help, you cant easily open up, coz your mind will tell the bad opposite that again no one cares. Being a listener creates a safe space. But not everyone would be there what if it happens at 3am! Or nobody simply understood. You invite the thoughts in and let it consume you , but dont. It took me years to realized how much time i wasted giving other ppl a hint of what am goin through. "Attention seeker" they said. So, Nobody cares. Atleast in my case. Tho theyve seen me with scars , or with tears. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Instead, i journal everytime . That way i would reread and find out myself even more. I could compare that it has certain episodes. That its not happening everday, it only happens when i let it, feed it, freed myself and let it consume me.

Then i realize, its my brain. My mind. I should be in control. Tho it dint vanished completely, yet i managed to let it shooo away.

 

[KIARA]

Never think of doing like this dosth. Always remember one thing ending life is not a solution to all problems and also Your life is not just your owns, your parents gave birth to you spent there precious time and resources to you for your betterment. Your life is also related to your parents, grand parents, loved ones, goes on the list. And Also Remember Suicide is a Crime in India according to IPC Section 309.
If you are dead then no-one cares but if by chance you get saved and recovered then god bless you You have to spend rest of life in Court and Jail.
Keep this in Mind Live your Life to the Youngest and Fullest cause what will happen tomorrow no one knows. And ending life is not a Solution to all but the beginning of a new problem.

Bade dost I didn't think I did !!! N u tat tym I was kid I was just 14 yrs n I did it for vely silly reason jst bcz my classmates were always jealous of me so they use to irritate me tease me !!! So I was fed up of all those !!!But I came too far from tat will never think off!!!

 

[Juliet]

why do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don't want anything anymore..?
Everybody talk about when it hurts like hell,when you cry,when you cut,when you take drugs,when you break down..
But no one ever talks about wen you just lay down in ur room, with a hole inside of you that u don't know how to fill ,and you don't want to do anything even the thing's you usually like..

So you just spend ur day kinda waiting for it to end..And it's horrible because you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time..
.
.
.
.
.
Depression is not always in tears sometimes its in the smiles even not everyone is a musician nd would know how to play ur mindset well so.that it creates a soothing voice.....at the end depression is...something which u should let come out in words....nd u feel..good knowing that yaah u r alone nd thats okay knowing nobody needs u thats okay knowing world is full of selfishness thats okay too let go..!!

There is lot of social stigma associated with the condition that prevent people from talking about it or seeking help, such that most of the signs go unnoticed or suppressed.