Situationship

[Joel18]

Actually what is a situationship?

Does it hurts , then why isn't it a relationship or does it hurts lesser than an actual relationship when it's broken .
Or is it just a term used by people who fears to accept they are in a relationship with someone because of their past truma .

(Real meaning goes like :- A situationship is a romantic or emotional connection between two people that's not clearly defined. It's often described as a relationship that's more than friendship but less than a committed relationship)

Is it actually lack of commitment or us creating something to avoid the heartbreak that could occur if that relation doesn't work-out??

 

[Anshhi]

Actually what is a situationship?

Does it hurts , then why isn't it a relationship or does it hurts lesser than an actual relationship when it's broken .
Or is it just a term used by people who fears to accept they are in a relationship with someone because of their past truma .

(Real meaning goes like :- A situationship is a romantic or emotional connection between two people that's not clearly defined. It's often described as a relationship that's more than friendship but less than a committed relationship)

Is it actually lack of commitment or us creating something to avoid the heartbreak that could occur if that relation doesn't work-out??

You've delved into the complexities of a situationship.

A situationship, as you defined, is a romantic or emotional connection that lacks clear boundaries or commitment. It's a gray area between friendship and a committed relationship.

The reasons behind a situationship can vary:

1. *Fear of commitment*: One or both parties might be hesitant to commit due to past trauma, fear of heartbreak, or uncertainty.
2. *Unclear intentions*: The parties involved might not be on the same page, or their intentions might be ambiguous.
3. *Lack of communication*: Poor communication or avoidance of discussions about the relationship's status can lead to a situationship.
4. *Convenience or comfort*: Sometimes, people settle into a situationship because it's comfortable or convenient, without necessarily considering the long-term implications.

Regarding the pain aspect:

A situationship can indeed hurt, sometimes more than a traditional breakup. This is because:

1. *Lack of closure*: The ambiguity of a situationship can make it difficult to achieve closure.
2. *Emotional investment*: Despite the lack of commitment, emotions can still run deep, leading to feelings of attachment and loss.
3. *Uncertainty*: The uncertainty surrounding a situationship can create anxiety and stress.

It's not necessarily true that a situationship hurts less than a traditional breakup. The pain can be different, but still significant.

Your observation about people using the term "situationship" to avoid acknowledging their emotional involvement is astute. Some individuals might use this term to:

1. *Avoid vulnerability*: By not labeling the relationship, they might feel less vulnerable to emotional pain.
2. *Maintain distance*: Keeping the relationship undefined can provide a sense of emotional distance or protection.

However, it's essential to recognize that a situationship can still have a profound impact on one's emotional well-being.

Ultimately, understanding the complexities of a situationship requires empathy, self-reflection, and open communication.
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