1. Sex starts in the mind, stress happens in the mind. That is why it is difficult to enjoy or initiate sex when one is stressed
2. It is difficult to desire sex from someone who stresses you. Maybe your spouse doesn't want you sexually because you are the source of their stress
3. Financial problems cause the most amount of stress, especially in men. This is why often libido goes when there are financial woes
4. No matter how sexy you are physically, if internally in your mind you are stressed, you will not feel sexy
5. When one is stressed, they don't bother looking sexy. They may not bathe, shave, dress suggestively or flirt
6. A stressed up woman takes a long time to climax, she might lose her wetness while in the act. It is not that you don't make love to her good, she is thinking of stressful things
7. A stressed up man can lose his erection mid-way. It is not that he is not enjoying your vagina, he has alot on his mind
8. Insisting on your stressed spouse to have sex with you can lead to your spouse resenting you. Help your spouse address the stressful issue first before seeking pleasure
9. A stressed spouse might be flat, boring and indifferent to your flirty messages. Don't take offense, it is the stress
10. If your spouse is stressed but you are all happy, you will be living in different worlds and your spouse might avoid you, coming home to bed late
11. Stress is the main reason alot of couples have gone for weeks without making love; especially stress they bring to each other. Be peace makers, not stressgivers
12. Stress makes someone closed up, constantly covering their nakedness. Less nudity, less sex
13. Some couples prefer making love when having a stressful day to lift up their spirits so that after the climax, they think better solutions and remember there is more to life than what is stressing them
Address what is stressing you before it ruins your sex life.
2. It is difficult to desire sex from someone who stresses you. Maybe your spouse doesn't want you sexually because you are the source of their stress
3. Financial problems cause the most amount of stress, especially in men. This is why often libido goes when there are financial woes
4. No matter how sexy you are physically, if internally in your mind you are stressed, you will not feel sexy
5. When one is stressed, they don't bother looking sexy. They may not bathe, shave, dress suggestively or flirt
6. A stressed up woman takes a long time to climax, she might lose her wetness while in the act. It is not that you don't make love to her good, she is thinking of stressful things
7. A stressed up man can lose his erection mid-way. It is not that he is not enjoying your vagina, he has alot on his mind
8. Insisting on your stressed spouse to have sex with you can lead to your spouse resenting you. Help your spouse address the stressful issue first before seeking pleasure
9. A stressed spouse might be flat, boring and indifferent to your flirty messages. Don't take offense, it is the stress
10. If your spouse is stressed but you are all happy, you will be living in different worlds and your spouse might avoid you, coming home to bed late
11. Stress is the main reason alot of couples have gone for weeks without making love; especially stress they bring to each other. Be peace makers, not stressgivers
12. Stress makes someone closed up, constantly covering their nakedness. Less nudity, less sex
13. Some couples prefer making love when having a stressful day to lift up their spirits so that after the climax, they think better solutions and remember there is more to life than what is stressing them
Address what is stressing you before it ruins your sex life.