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Safe sex

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TheOne

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Sex with another person is never “safe.” There is always risk.

Of course, by that standard, driving a car is never “safe.” And yet most of us feel safe if we are in a car with airbags and we wear a seatbelt and we drive carefully. We understand that we have minimized the risks as much as possible. Applying that to sex, then, suggests some best practices:
  • Always use barriers, like condoms, for any sex act with significant STD risk. This definitely includes vaginal and anal sex; it should probably include oral sex, but most people don't like a mouth full of latex, so they accept higher risk there.
  • Only have sex with people whose STD status you know. And by “know,” I mean, you've asked them, they've answered you, and you know enough about them to judge them trustworthy.
  • Get tested on a regular basis, to catch any infections early, and to protect your partners.
 
Some great point made
It is also important to remember that reducing the risk is NOT one side, in other words if two people are going to have sex, BOTH must make sure they are both thinking about how to bring the risk down to a safer level.
It can not and should be left to one person.
The same can be said if you are going to engage in a threesome or a group activity, the more people the higher the risk.
In these cases everyone must take the same responsibility to ensure a safe and enjoyable activity.
Let's be honest the last thing you would want to do is to be sat there afters thinking to your self " maybe I should have put a condon on"
Better to sort it out at the start than regret it afterwards.
Keep it fun, but keep it safe.
 
Next time I ask the lady to get both Covid and STD test results. Thanks.
 
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