Possessiveness !?

[Deleted member 14785]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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[Drofhrts]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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Possessiveness is happy to enjoy sometimes

 

[SiRa]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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The tighter the grip, the faster the heart escapes.

ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect,

Very very true!

 

[Deleted member 14785]

@ BS : Bull Shit not Baba Sehgal.

 

[Don_disturb]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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But if no possessiveness then there is no love

 

[SiRa]

But if no possessiveness then there is no love

You haven't heard this quote.

"If you love someone, set them free. "If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were."

If someone truly doesn’t want to be with us, we can’t force them. But if they genuinely want to stay, they will always be sincere with you.!!

 

[Don_disturb]

You haven't heard this quote.

"If you love someone, set them free. "If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were."

If someone truly doesn’t want to be with us, we can’t force them. But if they genuinely want to stay, they will always be sincere with you.!!

Yeah I agree, but still little possessiveness is allowed.. even my partner should show possessiveness towards me I love that

 

[Dom55]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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Yes ,you are right.
Sometimes, Possessiveness is considered attractive in small doses, because to most women, it acts as a reminder that the guy they love is highly attentive and concerned about them.
In real, Love means caring for someone and wanting the best for them. Love can be passionate, but it should also be kind and nurturing. Love without possession means wanting your partner to be happy even if you aren't the one making them happy. A relationship can't be a person's only source of joy.
Possessive behavior is often considered negative because it restricts an individual's freedom towards their partner. These efforts are often followed by violent and aggressive behavior in the relationship. This can damage trust in the relationship and increase the risk of conflict

 

[Lovelygal_Sri]

 

[Drofhrts]

You haven't heard this quote.

"If you love someone, set them free. "If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were."

If someone truly doesn’t want to be with us, we can’t force them. But if they genuinely want to stay, they will always be sincere with you.!!

Let your loved ones free
But if within quote enjoy the possessiveness towards you

 

[URum]

Possessiveness is toxic

 

[Custardapple]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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Emi chepavu ra aiyaaa

 

[Alkaline ✧]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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wahh True !

 

[NEPTUNE]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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Maybe yea, it's an evil... banu... But I'm possessive....... I want my dearest ones to care for me n I feel the same way for them. Maybe I'm wrong, but still............ I'm possessive!

I want my people to think of me n love me, since I feel the same..........

I hate it, when my dearest ones donn talk to me......... If any of my behavior isn't digestible, I always ask them to tell me, and I'll tryna correct it.

Maybe I'm possessive, but it's under my control.

At last but not thy least an envy for u cutiee pie

~Tune xx

edit: @HornyBanana did u opt to neglect my msges

 

[Rishiboy]

Etha kullu unte atha love untudi anta

 

[JasGhost]

Absolutely right..! Seem like your research on this topic is vast and you explained it wonderfully...

But But Mr. What if I'm a very possessive person! Can i control you?

(Hehehhehe i can't keep my BS away from this thread)

 

[RJJHANVII]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
​

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You haven't heard this quote.

"If you love someone, set them free. "If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were."

If someone truly doesn’t want to be with us, we can’t force them. But if they genuinely want to stay, they will always be sincere with you.!!

S... Totally agree with this ...
"If you love someone, set them free. "If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were."


But what I say is .. i didn't witnessed .. any real possessiveness these days ...
I think nowadays, people don't feel truly possessive, but rather act possessive. They fake overprotectiveness, believing it's a way to show love.....

 

[Anshhi]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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*A_AICS

 

[Timatee]

Possessiveness, though often mistaken as a sign of love or care, can be quite harmful to any relationship. It arises from a desire to control or dominate another person, usually stemming from deep-rooted insecurities and the fear of losing them. While it may appear harmless in the beginning, possessiveness can grow over time, leading to a toxic atmosphere that damages the foundation of a healthy relationship.

At its core, possessiveness is driven by insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. A possessive person is often afraid that their partner might drift away or give more importance to others. This fear manifests in controlling behaviours, such as restricting the partner’s friendships, questioning their activities, or constantly seeking attention. Though these actions are often portrayed as acts of love, they are rooted in an unhealthy need to dominate rather than to nurture the relationship.

One of the biggest impacts of possessiveness is the loss of trust and personal freedom. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship, but when one partner constantly doubts the other’s loyalty, it creates an environment of suspicion and unease. A possessive person might insist on knowing every detail of their partner’s life, leaving little space for privacy or independence. Over time, this lack of trust can lead to frustration, misunderstandings, and emotional distance between partners.

Possessiveness also stifles individuality and personal growth. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel free to follow their own interests, maintain friendships, and work towards their goals without feeling judged or restricted. However, a possessive partner may view these pursuits as threats to the relationship and might try to isolate their partner or demand constant attention. This not only diminishes the self-confidence of the other person but also creates resentment and a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

In conclusion, while possessiveness may initially appear as an expression of deep affection, it ultimately causes harm by weakening trust, freedom, and emotional connection. True love flourishes when there is mutual respect, trust, and the willingness to allow each other space to grow as individuals. Overcoming possessiveness is challenging, but it is essential for building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.
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yrr sometimes its feels better nd necessary tho