My point of view
If you are a child - you can be possessive - you fight for something with all you want, you are stubborn; possessiveness is good here and environment supports too.
If you are a grown up - if you are possessive of a person or love; until you have people who understand you or supports, it works. But you need to understand that it is still wrong but still people around you are being concerned and understanding about your possessiveness.
For a long time, I tried to convince myself and others that - jealously or possessiveness is highest form of love. But it is wrong, to understand this you need to grow up, experiences will teach you.
If you are possessive, you might be someone suffocating them to death. I know many of my guy friends who had to come out of relationship coz the gfs used to ask minute-minute updates or so possessive.
Higher you love, the deeper the possessiveness is probably coming from someone who doesn't know what love is, who actually didn't love. If you love deeper, you love enough to let go. You care for the other person more, setting them free also sets you free. Again, I am not talking about you sobbing your life in letting them go, you let them go with no strings attached (not the no strings attached you think!).
Problems of being possessive
- Mother is so possessive of the son, the wife is going to have hard time. Wherever possessiveness comes, it is not love.
- Father is so possessive of the daughter, he doesn't let the daughter choose life partner
- Sister or Brother is so possessive, they never accept anyone they date or to date
- Too possessive of the kids, you don't let them try new things
- Any relation.. I could give many examples, if you operate in the mode of possessiveness, the relation is going to die
Being funny possessive is different, that is love, foreplay.
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@ReddyGari ammai - eppudu deeni telugu lo raase opika ledu... but nuvve 10 times chaduko, interviews ki kuda help avthadi)
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