1) Consider yourself in the same light you consider others.
Would you really tell someone else that their feelings aren't important? Or that it is better to shoulder immense responsibility alone, without ever talking about the difficulty of it?
2) Be honest with yourself about how the pressure you feel is emerging in your life.
Perhaps you're secretly drinking more or taking more Xanax. You may be restricting what you eat, over-exercising, or having panic attacks. Your anxiety is rising and you're trying to escape.
3) Realize the real danger of this pressure your loneliness could lead you to suicide. that
It's hard to deny suicidal thoughts when they're in your head. You can try to push them away, but somehow you begin to rationalize that the struggle is too hard that others would be fine without. .....