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My POV AFTER READING THREAD "If you speak the truth, it will hurt."

JasGhost

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Amm, first of all, what people say shouldn't affect you that much. Here are some tricks from my secret notebook that I follow:

1. Value Truthfulness
Always be honest, as I personally dislike liars. However, respect others by keeping their secrets confidential.

2. Set Clear Boundaries
Set clear, strong boundaries and make them known. Avoid overreacting to minor issues. True boundaries aren’t triggered by small comments; they’re firm lines that minimize arguments.

3. Avoid Fruitless Arguments
Don’t engage in debates with individuals who are unwilling to consider other perspectives, as it only leads to frustration.

4. Practice Wise Silence
In disagreements, staying silent can prevent unnecessary conflicts. Speaking less often reflects wisdom unless you have a crucial comment that can resolve the situation.

5. Speak Up When Necessary
While it's beneficial to remain silent in many situations, it’s important to voice your concerns when witnessing harm or when rights are at stake. Staying silent in these cases is ignorance.

6. Choose Your Company Wisely
With close friends or family, feel free to be expressive. If they judge you for being loud or talkative, they might be toxic. It's better to be alone than to keep such people in your company.

Remember
"It's better to cut off a rotting limb than to die."

Hope this helps you, sweet lady. You can't make everyone happy that's just how this world works. @curly
 
JasGhost said:
Amm, first of all, what people say shouldn't affect you that much. Here are some tricks from my secret notebook that I follow:

1. Value Truthfulness
Always be honest, as I personally dislike liars. However, respect others by keeping their secrets confidential.

2. Set Clear Boundaries
Set clear, strong boundaries and make them known. Avoid overreacting to minor issues. True boundaries aren’t triggered by small comments; they’re firm lines that minimize arguments.

3. Avoid Fruitless Arguments
Don’t engage in debates with individuals who are unwilling to consider other perspectives, as it only leads to frustration.

4. Practice Wise Silence
In disagreements, staying silent can prevent unnecessary conflicts. Speaking less often reflects wisdom unless you have a crucial comment that can resolve the situation.

5. Speak Up When Necessary
While it's beneficial to remain silent in many situations, it’s important to voice your concerns when witnessing harm or when rights are at stake. Staying silent in these cases is ignorance.

6. Choose Your Company Wisely
With close friends or family, feel free to be expressive. If they judge you for being loud or talkative, they might be toxic. It's better to be alone than to keep such people in your company.

Remember
"It's better to cut off a rotting limb than to die."

Hope this helps you, sweet lady. You can't make everyone happy that's just how this world works. @curly
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Couldn't agree more!! :clapping:

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JasGhost said:
Amm, first of all, what people say shouldn't affect you that much. Here are some tricks from my secret notebook that I follow:

1. Value Truthfulness
Always be honest, as I personally dislike liars. However, respect others by keeping their secrets confidential.

2. Set Clear Boundaries
Set clear, strong boundaries and make them known. Avoid overreacting to minor issues. True boundaries aren’t triggered by small comments; they’re firm lines that minimize arguments.

3. Avoid Fruitless Arguments
Don’t engage in debates with individuals who are unwilling to consider other perspectives, as it only leads to frustration.

4. Practice Wise Silence
In disagreements, staying silent can prevent unnecessary conflicts. Speaking less often reflects wisdom unless you have a crucial comment that can resolve the situation.

5. Speak Up When Necessary
While it's beneficial to remain silent in many situations, it’s important to voice your concerns when witnessing harm or when rights are at stake. Staying silent in these cases is ignorance.

6. Choose Your Company Wisely
With close friends or family, feel free to be expressive. If they judge you for being loud or talkative, they might be toxic. It's better to be alone than to keep such people in your company.

Remember
"It's better to cut off a rotting limb than to die."

Hope this helps you, sweet lady. You can't make everyone happy that's just how this world works. @curly
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So much care and so much love. I hope this time your friend will understand everything.
#WomenGang
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Osprey said:
STATEMENT 1: Always be honest, as I personally dislike liars.
STATEMENT 2: However, respect others by keeping their secrets confidential.

Both statements are contradicting each other!!

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"Honesty builds trust, and confidentiality respects it" you can be truthful without breaking someone’s trust. Too many people reveal secrets under the guise of ‘honesty,’ which is why I emphasize confidentiality.

You made a great point there:Like:
 
JasGhost said:
"Honesty builds trust, and confidentiality respects it" you can be truthful without breaking someone’s trust. Too many people reveal secrets under the guise of ‘honesty,’ which is why I emphasize confidentiality.

You made a great point there:Like:
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Honesty and confidentiality are practically best friends, until someone starts "harmlessly sharing" in the name of transparency. So this points to the first question I've asked in the thread!! "whoz that drama queen" ??:blessing:
 
Osprey said:
Honesty and confidentiality are practically best friends, until someone starts "harmlessly sharing" in the name of transparency. So this points to the first question I've asked in the thread!! "whoz that drama queen" ??:blessing:
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Oooo... You mean for whom it was written down!

Actually I saw this post in Hindi room and in process of writing reply i thought maybe i should post it in main room( you can find that post there)

No drama whatsoever going on here as i personally don't know the person ( should have corrected that "friend" part earlier) ...
Also not spilling any secrets :Cwl:
She's tagged tho cz some credit goes to her too ...
 
JasGhost said:
Amm, first of all, what people say shouldn't affect you that much. Here are some tricks from my secret notebook that I follow:

1. Value Truthfulness
Always be honest, as I personally dislike liars. However, respect others by keeping their secrets confidential.

2. Set Clear Boundaries
Set clear, strong boundaries and make them known. Avoid overreacting to minor issues. True boundaries aren’t triggered by small comments; they’re firm lines that minimize arguments.

3. Avoid Fruitless Arguments
Don’t engage in debates with individuals who are unwilling to consider other perspectives, as it only leads to frustration.

4. Practice Wise Silence
In disagreements, staying silent can prevent unnecessary conflicts. Speaking less often reflects wisdom unless you have a crucial comment that can resolve the situation.

5. Speak Up When Necessary
While it's beneficial to remain silent in many situations, it’s important to voice your concerns when witnessing harm or when rights are at stake. Staying silent in these cases is ignorance.

6. Choose Your Company Wisely
With close friends or family, feel free to be expressive. If they judge you for being loud or talkative, they might be toxic. It's better to be alone than to keep such people in your company.

Remember
"It's better to cut off a rotting limb than to die."

Hope this helps you, sweet lady. You can't make everyone happy that's just how this world works. @curly
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Agreed. :cool:
 
JasGhost said:
Oooo... You mean for whom it was written down!

Actually I saw this post in Hindi room and in process of writing reply i thought maybe i should post it in main room( you can find that post there)

No drama whatsoever going on here as i personally don't know the person ( should have corrected that "friend" part earlier) ...
Also not spilling any secrets :Cwl:
She's tagged tho cz some credit goes to her too ...
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So, no more drama from now!!:rolleyes:
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