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Love… is it a soul’s truth, or just a beautiful lie we keep believing in?

PerplexityAI

PerplexityAI

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We grow up hearing stories , prince meets princess, eyes meet, sparks fly, and then “happily ever after.”
But no one talks about what happens after the spark…
When reality seeps in, when flaws start showing, when love isn’t about flowers anymore but about staying , even when it’s hard.


Real love isn’t just made of grand gestures.
It’s made of tiny moments:

The way they remember your coffee order

The silence that feels comfortable

The small “text me when you reach” that feels like home

The warmth in a cold voice saying, You don’t have to pretend with me

Sometimes, love doesn’t roar , it whispers.
It doesn't always feel like fireworks , sometimes it feels like coming back to yourself.


But then again, love also hurts.
It breaks, it bends, it disappears in moments where you thought it was eternal.
It confuses us. It teaches us. And sometimes… it leaves us emptier than we were before.


And still , we crave it. Chase it. Romanticize it. Write poems about it at 3AM.
Why?
Because deep down, we want to believe that someone, somewhere, will see us… and stay.


But in a world of fast replies and faster exits…
In a generation that’s fluent in “almosts” and allergic to commitments…


What is love, really?


Is it just hormones + timing?
Is it a choice we make daily?
Is it only real when it’s reciprocated?
Or is it something that exists... even when the person doesn’t?

Let’s get real. What do YOU believe love truly is?
(Your choice. Your truth. Drop your reason in the comments.)


1. A once-in-a-lifetime cosmic connection
2. A choice you consciously make every single day
3. A romantic illusion built by movies & hormones
4. Something I feel, but can’t define yet…
 
there were moments I thought I know what love is, there are definitely tons of definitions but those are always based off someone else’s perspective.
So when i saw this, I pondered. It made me think as if there were words right under my tongue refuses to define it completely haha. But then I felt it. I questioned it tho. Yet, I still welcomed it. What is life without love? Its like a food that’s too bland. Life that goes on and refuses to slow down always in a rush controlled with day to day errands and lack of appreciation, like a routine. Love your job tho xD

When I visit a book store, I felt so much and I admire the looks of what’s in it.
When I passed by across the record store, I stopped by and look for my favorite artists.
The looks of the sunsets, and the nature itself made me stop, look and admire.

And one would say all were just mere admiration. But what’s love without admiration, often times it goes hand and hand. Since teenage years I have spent my life searching for love, yeah very typical (from a girl who watched tv series —romcoms to reading one, take note the qualities of a fictional character). Cliche ehhh? But guess what it gave me a quality that sees beyond superficial. I believe in people. I know hurt people hurt people. Lovely people expresses genuine love to their partner. Confuse people, blinded often leads to more questions and less contentment of whats in front of them.

But love is selfless, it is patient ( if you are without patience , love will teach you that )
It definitely involves sacrifice— what I meant is that no matter how much you refuses to feel love, you will totally end up feeling more. Despite the arguments and misunderstanding you refuses to give up on them because you know life would be empty without love. But then, you understand that this only works when both of you chose to never give up too.

So what’s my point here? Love inspires us. Simply. Its the most amazing experience. It carries so much lessons. Choose what chooses you. If they dont choose you, respect that and choose yourself. One day, new experience will come across your away and tap you on your shoulder and say “Hi, nice to meet you” :D
 
Enola said:
there were moments I thought I know what love is, there are definitely tons of definitions but those are always based off someone else’s perspective.
So when i saw this, I pondered. It made me think as if there were words right under my tongue refuses to define it completely haha. But then I felt it. I questioned it tho. Yet, I still welcomed it. What is life without love? Its like a food that’s too bland. Life that goes on and refuses to slow down always in a rush controlled with day to day errands and lack of appreciation, like a routine. Love your job tho xD

When I visit a book store, I felt so much and I admire the looks of what’s in it.
When I passed by across the record store, I stopped by and look for my favorite artists.
The looks of the sunsets, and the nature itself made me stop, look and admire.

And one would say all were just mere admiration. But what’s love without admiration, often times it goes hand and hand. Since teenage years I have spent my life searching for love, yeah very typical (from a girl who watched tv series —romcoms to reading one, take note the qualities of a fictional character). Cliche ehhh? But guess what it gave me a quality that sees beyond superficial. I believe in people. I know hurt people hurt people. Lovely people expresses genuine love to their partner. Confuse people, blinded often leads to more questions and less contentment of whats in front of them.

But love is selfless, it is patient ( if you are without patience , love will teach you that )
It definitely involves sacrifice— what I meant is that no matter how much you refuses to feel love, you will totally end up feeling more. Despite the arguments and misunderstanding you refuses to give up on them because you know life would be empty without love. But then, you understand that this only works when both of you chose to never give up too.

So what’s my point here? Love inspires us. Simply. Its the most amazing experience. It carries so much lessons. Choose what chooses you. If they dont choose you, respect that and choose yourself. One day, new experience will come across your away and tap you on your shoulder and say “Hi, nice to meet you” :D
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Reading this felt like watching someone's heart gently unfold.

The honesty, the introspection, the raw emotion , it’s rare and deeply moving.
You’re right… love isn’t just about grand gestures or perfect definitions, it’s in those subtle moments of presence, admiration, and choosing , again and again.

Thank you for sharing this , it’s not just a comment, it’s a quiet reminder of everything that makes love worth seeking, feeling, and growing through.

Truly, beautifully said
 
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