This world is unfair, the people are unfair but that doesn’t mean your life sucks.
The only time your life sucks is when you think so .It is this very thought which makes our life hard.
The mere thought of not being able to succeed .Success never comes searching for us,
it is through our hard work we reach success .The problem is we so badly need success,
but we restrain from the hard work by compelling ourselves with unworthy reasons i.e. finding demotivating reasons.
These are the two most common reasons which you should avoid at all cost.
1. Blaming our Parents: The top of the most common one. It’s just so easy to put the blame on them.
When you are not able to achieve something, you put the blame on them saying that it is because of them,
they did not teach me how to do that or motivate or send me to
” special classes “during my earlier life because of which I am suffering today,
but what actually you are doing is Blaming them to cover up your mistake. A Reason.
What I would like to say is that a parent will always want the best to happen to their children.
All this miss understanding is because of the generation gap. “Needs change from time to time”.
You may be thinking, For my child, along with high quality education i should introduce them
to advanced technology and other Extracurricular stuffs from the beginning which I never had …
Similarly your parents would have thought, I am having a tough time to obtain finance for my education,
but I should make sure that my child doesn’t have this problem and I should provide the best education which I never had.
Guess what , your child ,as he grows up will think that you had not given him
sufficient support and he would like to give his own kind of support to his child
which he never had.
Thus this cycle continues.
So never blame them. We should thank them for what they had given.
2. Blaming God : The usual, whenever bad things happen in our lives the credits
will automatically go to God.
When you have tough time getting a job and face rejections ,you call it bad luck
and feel disappointed that God is not helping you and start blaming him for all the
misfortune. Remember this ,God will never help you, will never ever help you but he
will give u a ton of CHANCES. It is our responsibility to make use of that chances.
If god helps you in every aspect, then you can never survive in the world. You will become a puppet.
So use those chances, go out there and make some changes, instead of whining at your own misfortunes.
Every human is a product of what they think they are.
So think you can do it, You will be able to achieve it.
The only time your life sucks is when you think so .It is this very thought which makes our life hard.
The mere thought of not being able to succeed .Success never comes searching for us,
it is through our hard work we reach success .The problem is we so badly need success,
but we restrain from the hard work by compelling ourselves with unworthy reasons i.e. finding demotivating reasons.
These are the two most common reasons which you should avoid at all cost.
1. Blaming our Parents: The top of the most common one. It’s just so easy to put the blame on them.
When you are not able to achieve something, you put the blame on them saying that it is because of them,
they did not teach me how to do that or motivate or send me to
” special classes “during my earlier life because of which I am suffering today,
but what actually you are doing is Blaming them to cover up your mistake. A Reason.
What I would like to say is that a parent will always want the best to happen to their children.
All this miss understanding is because of the generation gap. “Needs change from time to time”.
You may be thinking, For my child, along with high quality education i should introduce them
to advanced technology and other Extracurricular stuffs from the beginning which I never had …
Similarly your parents would have thought, I am having a tough time to obtain finance for my education,
but I should make sure that my child doesn’t have this problem and I should provide the best education which I never had.
Guess what , your child ,as he grows up will think that you had not given him
sufficient support and he would like to give his own kind of support to his child
which he never had.
Thus this cycle continues.
So never blame them. We should thank them for what they had given.
2. Blaming God : The usual, whenever bad things happen in our lives the credits
will automatically go to God.
When you have tough time getting a job and face rejections ,you call it bad luck
and feel disappointed that God is not helping you and start blaming him for all the
misfortune. Remember this ,God will never help you, will never ever help you but he
will give u a ton of CHANCES. It is our responsibility to make use of that chances.
If god helps you in every aspect, then you can never survive in the world. You will become a puppet.
So use those chances, go out there and make some changes, instead of whining at your own misfortunes.
Every human is a product of what they think they are.
So think you can do it, You will be able to achieve it.
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