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Minervaa

Miss Congeniality
Posting Freak
Umm...as far as I'm concerned there are many virgins out here !!
PS: including me

Fanfiction is entertaining and unrealistic.
How Victoria’s Secret and pornography give men unrealistic expectations of a female’s body and abilities, is comparable to how fanfiction gives women unrealistic expectations with sex and romance.

The following are a few realities that of course there are exceptions to any rule but 99% of the time the stuff is true:

1.Guys do not last a long time until they’re pretty experienced
2.If they have been using drugs or alcohol, it may not work at all. It’s not you.
3.Guys can’t generally keep going after they cum, for at least a few minutes.
4.Clit stimulation makes cumming a lot easier.
5.You need to be comfortable with someone to climax. If you’re worried about if you look fat or if you’re making a dumb face, you’re probably not gonna cum.
6.An easy way for beginners is get into doggy style position and play with your clit while he penetrates you. If he wants to learn how to do it, lay on your back and let him watch how you play with it to feel good.
7.Guys don’t know anything about your mysterious vagina. You have to teach them. They generally don’t do things cuz they’re scared to fail.
8.Guys are very intimidated about going down on you. They don't wanna do something if they think they aren’t good at it. Also, hygiene is good.
9.Communication might be awkward, but tell them what you like and ask what they like.
10.Pay attention to the balls too when you give oral. Also gag now and then cuz they like it. Don’t overdo it.
11.Face fucking is dangerous and forcing cock down your throat can injure you. Be careful and relax your throat if you decide to try but generally no. There’s a vagina for that.
12.You have to be wet to have sex. No lubrication will cause uncomfortable sex.
13.You can catch STDs from oral sex so if you don’t know if they’re clean, use protection. Real Herpes, not the little cold sore strain, but actual full blown- fuck- up - your- entire- month herpes can live anywhere around your ass, genitals, mouth, in the throat, even your fucking eyes and there’s no cure so it’s not to be messed with. I can also lay dormant for seven years with no signs inside somebody so they won’t even know that they have it because they don’t have any symptoms until years.
13.If you are on birth control and need to take antibiotics at some point, they will cancel out the birth control and you can totally get pregnant. Even if you have been on birth control for years and never miss it. As long as you’re on birth control, you’re defenseless
14.Blue balls is not painful. It’s annoying, don’t let them fool you. Never get guilt tripped into anything you don’t want to do. If worse comes to worse they can relieve themselves in a bathroom in a few minutes. It’s not your responsibility.
15.Anal sex requires preparation. Ever wonder how there’s no mess in pornos when they do that? There’s a reason but you google that yourself. Lol


PS : FEEL FREE TO ADD ON ANYTHING YOU THINK SHOULD BE KNOWN
(This is just my knowledge from whatever I've read in articles , blogs and books)
 
Nice one..
Above all, go with Oral which makes u comfortable when having Anal..
Lol, I wonder y u ppl posting such threads in my absence:cry1:
 
  • 1st boys need to understand his girls body n moods..
  • Even a sex maniac have mood swings or act accordingly..else ur balls will hurt haha..
  • Talking is better before having sex..
  • Know ur partner likes n dislikes don't force or do anything he or she doesn't want to try or do..
  • Thoughts while sex doesn't take u till climax..so better pause ur brain n concentrate on enjoying ur partners every inch of the body..

Hmmm when it comes to me sometimes passionate sex sometimes I become sub for my dominate man..:holiday:(don't forget about foreplay haha...) :rofl1:
 
  • 1st boys need to understand his girls body n moods..
  • Even a sex maniac have mood swings or act accordingly..else ur balls will hurt haha..
  • Talking is better before having sex..
  • Know ur partner likes n dislikes don't force or do anything he or she doesn't want to try or do..
  • Thoughts while sex doesn't take u till climax..so better pause ur brain n concentrate on enjoying ur partners every inch of the body..

Hmmm when it comes to me sometimes passionate sex sometimes I become sub for my dominate man..:holiday:(don't forget about foreplay haha...) :rofl1:
Well said gurlll ....Thank u for the reply !!!
 
Communication is the first erogenous zone.
Oral sex is not bad, but men especially virgins need to be appreciated by their partners even if they do it wrong.
A female can have coital orgasms as well.
Never think of the fuck period just enjoy the passion as long as it lasts
Guys, thighs of women are excellent boards use it well.
Girls, If both of you are virgins, a mutual masturbation session will help understand each other n get rid of initial discomfort .
 
Why does it hurt during sex?
Painful sex can happen for different reasons, including medical conditions like a bacterial infection to sexual dysfunctions like vaginismus. Sometimes, being not lubricated enough or the presence of ingrown hairs can cause intercourse to hurt too.


1.Pillow under waist

This is a simple but effective position if you find yourself in pain during sex. Lay down with a pillow under your hips and have your partner lay on top of you as you wrap your knee around him. The pillow raises your hips so you are at a more accessible angle for penetration, making sex hurt less.

2.Woman on top

If you’re still new to sex, being on top can induce some discomfort but it actually gives you more control so if you are in pain, you can adjust quickly. Have your partner sit cross-legged and sit on top of him. You can balance on his chest to make it easier for you and go as fast or slow as you would like.


3.Spooning
With this position, your partner can’t go too deep when you’re on your side, which is a good thing. You can still enjoy sex without having to be in pain. Start off in a spooning position, then try to position yourself in a way that you can be penetrated. It might take some time to find an angle you’re comfortable with, but it’ll be worth it.

4.Leg lock

Angles makes all the difference when it comes to sex. If you are sitting on a surface (smth like a table or chair) it can be a lot easier to have someone inside you. Try sitting on a table and have your partner stand in front of you while holding your legs.

5.Standing

If sex is really hurting you, then you should take a break from penetrative sex for a while. You can stick to some non-penetrative moves while standing that will build intimacy between you and your spouse. It will help you feel more comfortable with each other and might help make you more ready to have sex.









 
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