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Happy Sunday
Let's talk about abuse today.
What is abuse?
It is an act someone does to disturb someone else's peace of mind or causing pain or discomfort to someone.
Types of abuse:
1)Physical abuse:
It is touching someone else's body parts without their consent, causing discomfort by your touch, or hitting them with something. Most people know about good touch and bad touch. But people must understand that even if it is a good touch according to you, it still can be a bad touch according to the other person. If your touch makes someone feel discomfort but still you continue to do so, you are actually abusing them.
For Ex: There is a girl, if you touch her hand or hold her palm and if she feels discomfort but you continued to do so even after sensing it, that means you are actually abusing her. You are disturbing her peace of mind. You have no right to argue that "it is a good touch only". She is feeling discomfort, that is the only thing that counts. Your intentions don't count.
2)Verbal abuse:
Saying things someone doesn't want to hear. It is not necessarily a cuss word. It can be anything that hurts people's feelings.
3)Emotional/mental/psychological abuse:
Doing things someone doesn't like or bringing up some topic repeatedly which they are not comfortable about or playing with people's emotions. It doesn't matter even if they are good things, it is still abuse.
For Ex: You love someone and proposed to them and got a NO, then you should walk away. You should not do things that create negative emotions in them (like fear, anger, or disgust). It is common nowadays, if someone says no, even after that, some people continue to stalk, they follow them around or wait at a place to see them. Even if you don't talk to them or say anything, your ogling, or stare is enough, you are generating fear or anger in them by showing up there. You are disturbing their peace of mind. So you are actually abusing them (stop following Bollywood movies, stalking doesn't work, you can never turn a no into a yes if you keep stalking).
More examples of emotional abuse:
Some people think that using cuss words is the only abuse, but that is not the case. Asking for sex chats or casual chats, again and again, is emotional abuse (even if he/she is your friend). Asking people to talk to you again and again, just because they chatted with you in the past is also abuse. It doesn't matter whether they chatted with you or sexted with you in the past, at present they do not want to do that, so man up and find someone else to talk.
1st msg: They might not have seen it
2nd msg: They might have seen it and ignored it
3rd msg: Either it is important or simply you are desperate for attention, take a chill pill, drop it
4th msg: You are getting on their nerves
5th msg: You are causing discomfort
6th msg: You started emotional abuse, just drop it, enough is enough
I wanted to write more but thought this is enough
Just my favorite dialogue from Pink
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Added video with English subs
Rephrased some sentences to make them more clear
Happy Sunday
Let's talk about abuse today.
What is abuse?
It is an act someone does to disturb someone else's peace of mind or causing pain or discomfort to someone.
Types of abuse:
1)Physical abuse:
It is touching someone else's body parts without their consent, causing discomfort by your touch, or hitting them with something. Most people know about good touch and bad touch. But people must understand that even if it is a good touch according to you, it still can be a bad touch according to the other person. If your touch makes someone feel discomfort but still you continue to do so, you are actually abusing them.
For Ex: There is a girl, if you touch her hand or hold her palm and if she feels discomfort but you continued to do so even after sensing it, that means you are actually abusing her. You are disturbing her peace of mind. You have no right to argue that "it is a good touch only". She is feeling discomfort, that is the only thing that counts. Your intentions don't count.
2)Verbal abuse:
Saying things someone doesn't want to hear. It is not necessarily a cuss word. It can be anything that hurts people's feelings.
3)Emotional/mental/psychological abuse:
Doing things someone doesn't like or bringing up some topic repeatedly which they are not comfortable about or playing with people's emotions. It doesn't matter even if they are good things, it is still abuse.
For Ex: You love someone and proposed to them and got a NO, then you should walk away. You should not do things that create negative emotions in them (like fear, anger, or disgust). It is common nowadays, if someone says no, even after that, some people continue to stalk, they follow them around or wait at a place to see them. Even if you don't talk to them or say anything, your ogling, or stare is enough, you are generating fear or anger in them by showing up there. You are disturbing their peace of mind. So you are actually abusing them (stop following Bollywood movies, stalking doesn't work, you can never turn a no into a yes if you keep stalking).
More examples of emotional abuse:
- Messaging someone again and again who is not interested to talk to you
- Manipulating people's emotions to use them
- Asking for something again and again (it doesn't matter how politely you ask)
Some people think that using cuss words is the only abuse, but that is not the case. Asking for sex chats or casual chats, again and again, is emotional abuse (even if he/she is your friend). Asking people to talk to you again and again, just because they chatted with you in the past is also abuse. It doesn't matter whether they chatted with you or sexted with you in the past, at present they do not want to do that, so man up and find someone else to talk.
1st msg: They might not have seen it
2nd msg: They might have seen it and ignored it
3rd msg: Either it is important or simply you are desperate for attention, take a chill pill, drop it
4th msg: You are getting on their nerves
5th msg: You are causing discomfort
6th msg: You started emotional abuse, just drop it, enough is enough
I wanted to write more but thought this is enough
Just my favorite dialogue from Pink
Edits:
Added video with English subs
Rephrased some sentences to make them more clear
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