Lets talk about second marriages, and do it last for a while? or will end quicker than before?. Anyway share your thoughts and ideas about second marriage, and any story to share? go ahead share it.
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Do Second Marriages Last For a While? Or what will happen? Answer the possible happenings
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I love the idea of having multi wifes!!
soo soothing kinda feeling!!
soo soothing kinda feeling!!
In my point of view ,
Of course they do. I don't know the exact statistics nor am I an expert, however I would easily imagine that second marriages work out better than first ones.
Second marriages will be more successful that first marriages as one would expect that the person has learnt from their mistakes. These mistakes generally relate to not knowing the other person well enough, not knowing themselves well enough, or not knowing how to make a relationship really work well enough.
In practice, of course, many people do not take the time to evaluate and learn from these mistakes. Then a second marriage becomes a replica of the first, with the same problems and issues.
The chances of a successful second marriage are greatly enhanced by taking the time beforehand to:
1.decide what you really want in a partner and a marriage: what will be their qualities?
2.understand who you are: What are your values and goals? What is important to you? How do you want to live your life? What are the thoughts and beliefs that have been holding you back from getting what you want and living in a way that is true to yourself?
3.learn how relationships really work: what are realistic expectations in a marriage? How do you communicate and develop trust and intimacy with someone so that things get better with time rather than worse? How do you get things back on track if you have setbacks?
Of course, these are all the things we should know even before a first marriage!
The success of a second marriage is usually in proportion to how much a person has learnt the three lessons above.
Of course they do. I don't know the exact statistics nor am I an expert, however I would easily imagine that second marriages work out better than first ones.
Second marriages will be more successful that first marriages as one would expect that the person has learnt from their mistakes. These mistakes generally relate to not knowing the other person well enough, not knowing themselves well enough, or not knowing how to make a relationship really work well enough.
In practice, of course, many people do not take the time to evaluate and learn from these mistakes. Then a second marriage becomes a replica of the first, with the same problems and issues.
The chances of a successful second marriage are greatly enhanced by taking the time beforehand to:
1.decide what you really want in a partner and a marriage: what will be their qualities?
2.understand who you are: What are your values and goals? What is important to you? How do you want to live your life? What are the thoughts and beliefs that have been holding you back from getting what you want and living in a way that is true to yourself?
3.learn how relationships really work: what are realistic expectations in a marriage? How do you communicate and develop trust and intimacy with someone so that things get better with time rather than worse? How do you get things back on track if you have setbacks?
Of course, these are all the things we should know even before a first marriage!
The success of a second marriage is usually in proportion to how much a person has learnt the three lessons above.
Marriage itself is uselss for current scenario, better go for live in relationship or stay single so can live their own life. But current situation if u have such mutual understanding u wont get any issue anytime and many places even it happens 
Hey Mr. this sounds short n sweet and cool tooMarriage itself is uselss for current scenario, better go for live in relationship or stay single so can live their own life. But current situation if u have such mutual understanding u wont get any issue anytime and many places even it happens
that’s the truthHey Mr. this sounds short n sweet and cool too
Yeah #TRUE THINGS
That would sound same as if foreversingle people giving relationship advice !Lol
Have Seen few falling apart and few very happy.
M like neutral to the topic ,May work or may not work kinda thing!Not sure!
Yupp ....that totally depends on the individual
Depend whom u gonna marry depend upon compatibility of individuals for some first marriage itself is successful for some after the first failure second marriage might bring happiness but thr are some people for whom not evensecond or third or 4th marriage might work 
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Well the imporatnt fact to be considered here is ...
relationships are never independent... it is always the people who are in the relationship never the reationship...
And coming to marriage... marriage is always based on love, care, loyalty, trust, compatability, adjustments, forgiveness...
first or second or next , its not the number but the people... One need to work on their marriage when the other person is lacking any of the qualities stated above...
i.e If you want him/her just look at the love not what they are lacking... and find a way to be with them no matter what ...!!!1
so it"s not ike second marriages would work or not... it will workout , when you want it to be... that"s about it..
relationships are never independent... it is always the people who are in the relationship never the reationship...
And coming to marriage... marriage is always based on love, care, loyalty, trust, compatability, adjustments, forgiveness...
first or second or next , its not the number but the people... One need to work on their marriage when the other person is lacking any of the qualities stated above...
i.e If you want him/her just look at the love not what they are lacking... and find a way to be with them no matter what ...!!!1
so it"s not ike second marriages would work or not... it will workout , when you want it to be... that"s about it..
Second marriages last if they are born out of love, equality, respect, non judgementality . That should have been done in the first one itself, but since that flunked, some hard work must be done to salvage the next one. Marriages either 1st or 2nd dont last if ur partner is just a partner ! You need a friend- an official , legal companion to support you all along ! That's the most simple and most tough thing to do!
Having sex is goddamn easy, having an open converstion is most tough, so get talking if you wanna stay married
Having sex is goddamn easy, having an open converstion is most tough, so get talking if you wanna stay married
