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Difference Btwn Possessiveness and Doubt..

BadBoyV2

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Precaution: As if am a guys, am saying tis in guys point of view based on wat i learned and experienced by love... No offence please lol..
Possessiveness:
If am in a relationshp, and she speaks to lots of guys i would go to her directly and ask her to stop spking to others.. "I need to spend time wit u, bt am nt getting enuf tym.. U r spking to all others" i would ask tis directly to her and tis s Possessiveness.
Doubt:

The same me, going to the guys to whom she hav convos and enquiring wat kinda convo they r having often.. Kinda 3rd person perspective and tis is Doubt.

(Note:
U Must know tis hurts u, mearly kills u if U fail to know the difference. Well 1 more thing no guys would wish to restrict u, juz he wants to hug u and b wit u in all possible tyms)

THANK YOU
 
@BadBoyV2 where did u get the authority on her to say "stop talking to others"

u can always say "babe i need ur time, can u give wat i deserve in ur heart:" but u cant pull her towards u holding her arms tightly and saying i love n i need u...that really sounds BDSM lol
 
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@BadBoyV2 where did u get the authority on her to say "stop talking to others"

u can always say "babe i need ur time, can u give wat i deserve in ur heart:" but u cant pull her towards u holding her arms tightly and saying i love n i need u...that really sounds BDSM lol
Tats wat i mean... Stop talking maybe suitable for typing.. In real.. V r nt gonna rule her, juz gonna intimate her and plead her
 
Stop speaking with others thats where the problem arise. Doubts need not come from others it can be rooted within yourself, it is a disease that gonna ruin everything for everyone around.

Possessiveness comes out of the insecurities. What is the point of being territorial on someone who is yours, if thats the case.

Giving space and acknowledging their freedom will make them more closer to you rather than controlling their choices.


Women like, want and need a Man in Control not the man who is controlling. Huge difference.

Disclaimer: Individuals percerption do matter. This is solely my views and never intended to find fault with anyone.
Noone is at fault, Thats why EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR. (with consensus*)
The perception u should undrstnd here s.. If a guy s sharing u the way he get hurting s possessiveness... If enquiring to others its doubt..
 
Precaution: As if am a guys, am saying tis in guys point of view based on wat i learned and experienced by love... No offence please lol..
Possessiveness:
If am in a relationshp, and she speaks to lots of guys i would go to her directly and ask her to stop spking to others.. "I need to spend time wit u, bt am nt getting enuf tym.. U r spking to all others" i would ask tis directly to her and tis s Possessiveness.
Doubt:

The same me, going to the guys to whom she hav convos and enquiring wat kinda convo they r having often.. Kinda 3rd person perspective and tis is Doubt.

(Note:
U Must know tis hurts u, mearly kills u if U fail to know the difference. Well 1 more thing no guys would wish to restrict u, juz he wants to hug u and b wit u in all possible tyms)

THANK YOU
if ur so possesive then u must not enter into relationship unless u find the one suitable for ur character caz when u know well of her character before & blaming later is not right :cool1:
 
Friends why ivlo discussions
Once then you bounded relationship with a girl here just you both quit out of the platform


So that you won't put in to this possessiveness or doubt


Always better to prevent than to cure
 
Bad boy I told u to quit from here along with your girl so that possessiveness or doubt may not have a path to retain. It doesn't mean that I asked you to knock your friends out of life.

You can be in touch with your friends in many forms world is open with many ways to maintain friendship. Zozo alone is not a place for friendship.

Real life and relationship of love and marriage has many sacrifices init.

I hope you willunderstand
 
@Mississippi the point you saying is similar to dont come in contact with any human and just lock yourself and say we are the only people in the universe we should spent our rest of our life and time togethero_O
Even corona couldn't contain us within four walls for long. We will end up suffocating and die. Same dont strangle your partners space with all restriction and boundaries.
Your view is correct but tamil peoples society and love marriage family has different views and path. Taking those in my mind I told them to quit and lead a happy family life. It's no way destroys his contacts with human or world
 
Just take notes my dear kids :p u ppl in mid n end of 20s will always say so :p we who have crossed ur age n now in mid of 30s will say let go n they wont go :) thats the confindence we gain in love :) love wont restrict it just says do wat ur heart wants n i am at ur side baby :)

and miss lol leaving this site after finding ur love is not gonna be a solution, cos even then with this kinda mindset the guy will one day gonna say "nee sex chat la amabala thedi vandhava thana" the same in female version too can happen :) so get matured n understand the love and make ur love to feel ur love then no need for possessiveness
 
Am nt blamming her... Am asking her the tym to spnd wit.. There s difference... Blaming nt in my dictionary:p
It may be a guy r girl in relations ship not cares about his or her partner then no need to waste the time, just move out. if ur talking abt relationship in zozo as i observed u need to keep casual relationship and never enter into the serious one lol :Like:
 
I too loved a girl she left me due to her family situations i just loved her from my heart i dont have possesiveness even she have spoken with all my classmates i know her she knows me thats it keeep it simple :heart1:.. still she is in touches as a birthday wish buddy
 
If u trust your girl possesivness irukadhu if u feel insecurity u will get it develop likr corona and spoil the realtionship. Possesiveness is needed but with in the limit . You dont want to control over her just complete with what she is .pazhaisa na kalaradhinga thambi nenju nan punagi poi kadaku . Ena da ena feel pani pesa vekuringala :bandid::timid::tired:
 
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