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Anger control!

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Anger management :Devil:

Whenever I search for it...
Some tips where on the website that I mentioned below:

1. Think before you speak
In the heat of the moment, it's easy to say something you'll later regret. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything — and allow others involved in the situation to do the same.

2. Once you're calm, express your anger
As soon as you're thinking clearly, express your frustration in an assertive but nonconfrontational way. State your concerns and needs clearly and directly, without hurting others or trying to control them.

3. Get some exercise
Physical activity can help reduce stress that can cause you to become angry. If you feel your anger escalating, go for a brisk walk or run, or spend some time doing other enjoyable physical activities.

4. Take a timeout
Timeouts aren't just for kids. Give yourself short breaks during times of the day that tend to be stressful. A few moments of quiet time might help you feel better prepared to handle what's ahead without getting irritated or angry.

5. Identify possible solutions
Instead of focusing on what made you mad, work on resolving the issue at hand. Does your child's messy room drive you crazy? Close the door. Is your partner late for dinner every night? Schedule meals later in the evening — or agree to eat on your own a few times a week. Remind yourself that anger won't fix anything and might only make it worse.

6. Stick with 'I' statements
To avoid criticizing or placing blame — which might only increase tension — use "I" statements to describe the problem. Be respectful and specific. For example, say, "I'm upset that you left the table without offering to help with the dishes" instead of "You never do any housework."

7. Don't hold a grudge
Forgiveness is a powerful tool. If you allow anger and other negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice. But if you can forgive someone who angered you, you might both learn from the situation and strengthen your relationship.

8. Use humor to release tension
Lightening up can help diffuse tension. Use humor to help you face what's making you angry and, possibly, any unrealistic expectations you have for how things should go. Avoid sarcasm, though — it can hurt feelings and make things worse.

9. Practice relaxation skills
When your temper flares, put relaxation skills to work. Practice deep-breathing exercises, imagine a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase, such as "Take it easy." You might also listen to music, write in a journal or do a few yoga poses — whatever it takes to encourage relaxation.

10. Know when to seek help
Learning to control anger is a challenge for everyone at times. Seek help for anger issues if your anger seems out of control, causes you to do things you regret or hurts those around you.

Did the tips above really help you in practice?

:nerdy:
May be few!

Ok now tell me ...
How you will control your anger?

Me : with a smile and walk away to a calm place and will listen to some music or funny vedios from youtube ... It helps me lot ....

What's yours ?:emo:images - 2021-03-21T091937.487.jpeg
 
Hey guysssssss

Good morning yaaaaal.....


Anger management :Devil:

Whenever I search for it...
Some tips where on the website that I mentioned below:

1. Think before you speak
In the heat of the moment, it's easy to say something you'll later regret. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything — and allow others involved in the situation to do the same.

2. Once you're calm, express your anger
As soon as you're thinking clearly, express your frustration in an assertive but nonconfrontational way. State your concerns and needs clearly and directly, without hurting others or trying to control them.

3. Get some exercise
Physical activity can help reduce stress that can cause you to become angry. If you feel your anger escalating, go for a brisk walk or run, or spend some time doing other enjoyable physical activities.

4. Take a timeout
Timeouts aren't just for kids. Give yourself short breaks during times of the day that tend to be stressful. A few moments of quiet time might help you feel better prepared to handle what's ahead without getting irritated or angry.

5. Identify possible solutions
Instead of focusing on what made you mad, work on resolving the issue at hand. Does your child's messy room drive you crazy? Close the door. Is your partner late for dinner every night? Schedule meals later in the evening — or agree to eat on your own a few times a week. Remind yourself that anger won't fix anything and might only make it worse.

6. Stick with 'I' statements
To avoid criticizing or placing blame — which might only increase tension — use "I" statements to describe the problem. Be respectful and specific. For example, say, "I'm upset that you left the table without offering to help with the dishes" instead of "You never do any housework."

7. Don't hold a grudge
Forgiveness is a powerful tool. If you allow anger and other negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice. But if you can forgive someone who angered you, you might both learn from the situation and strengthen your relationship.

8. Use humor to release tension
Lightening up can help diffuse tension. Use humor to help you face what's making you angry and, possibly, any unrealistic expectations you have for how things should go. Avoid sarcasm, though — it can hurt feelings and make things worse.

9. Practice relaxation skills
When your temper flares, put relaxation skills to work. Practice deep-breathing exercises, imagine a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase, such as "Take it easy." You might also listen to music, write in a journal or do a few yoga poses — whatever it takes to encourage relaxation.

10. Know when to seek help
Learning to control anger is a challenge for everyone at times. Seek help for anger issues if your anger seems out of control, causes you to do things you regret or hurts those around you.

Did the tips above really help you in practice?

:nerdy:
May be few!

Ok now tell me ...
How you will control your anger?

Me : with a smile and walk away to a calm place and will listen to some music or funny vedios from youtube ... It helps me lot ....

What's yours ?:emo:View attachment 22264
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Smoking is injurious to health..!
But.....
Smoking is the secret of my energy
 
However, research has shown that smoking actually increases anxiety and tension. Nicotine creates an immediate sense of relaxation, so people smoke in the belief it reduces stress and anxiety. This feeling is temporary and soon gives way to withdrawal symptoms and increased cravings.
 
First things first, is it worth my energy and time to argue with someone? Sometimes they are dumbo enough not to understand a single thing! So better keep my mouth shut

2nd, will this argument ever have a good conclusion in the end?

Third! I dont like when someone tell redundant stuffs ! And reason out the same thing for 3rd damn time

4th will rather check my fridge if i got some good food to eat, than argue-- which consume my energy and will then produce stress hormones!

I want oxytocin, dopamine most esp. Endorphins!

Inshort , Think before you speak. Think before you React. And lastly, think whether this person deserve evenyour lil attention.
Sometimes in life we open our mouth not to throw out some words. But to put some food in it.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

P.s i this is how i manage my anger
 
Its easy to describe hard to do i am bad at anger management past week i scolded my seniour for irritating me with a fuck word i though he goes to hr but he was silent still silent dont know where he used to place a landmine for me. He told me to work on thr fever i said fuck off
 
Y should i manage my anger wen i know where to react..
According to me ANGER s one of the best emotion than any other emotions in the world...
We will b capable of showing our ANGER only to 2 kinda people..

1) The ones those are important to us
2) The ones v hate the most

So wen it comes to rest of the people juz move away from those dumbos.. If they say u r Coward juz tell'em
"U r nt worth of my arguements"

Simple never lose ur ANGER, lose all other emotions bt nt ANGER
 
Foodie ... :giggle: my best friend (girl) also do the same ... When she is in anger pizza, chocolate cake,french fries will go inside at last shop owner will come and say it's closing time and we end up the conversation :relieved:
First things first, is it worth my energy and time to argue with someone? Sometimes they are dumbo enough not to understand a single thing! So better keep my mouth shut

2nd, will this argument ever have a good conclusion in the end?

Third! I dont like when someone tell redundant stuffs ! And reason out the same thing for 3rd damn time

4th will rather check my fridge if i got some good food to eat, than argue-- which consume my energy and will then produce stress hormones!

I want oxytocin, dopamine most esp. Endorphins!

Inshort , Think before you speak. Think before you React. And lastly, think whether this person deserve evenyour lil attention.
Sometimes in life we open our mouth not to throw out some words. But to put some food in it.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

P.s i this is how i manage my anger
 
Its easy to describe hard to do i am bad at anger management past week i scolded my seniour for irritating me with a fuck word i though he goes to hr but he was silent still silent dont know where he used to place a landmine for me. He told me to work on thr fever i said fuck off
Instead u can say it in a genuine way macha... Okay,I will check it out later like that
 
Y should i manage my anger wen i know where to react..
According to me ANGER s one of the best emotion than any other emotions in the world...
We will b capable of showing our ANGER only to 2 kinda people..

1) The ones those are important to us
2) The ones v hate the most

So wen it comes to rest of the people juz move away from those dumbos.. If they say u r Coward juz tell'em
"U r nt worth of my arguements"

Simple never lose ur ANGER, lose all other emotions bt nt ANGER
Well,said macha ... But u can say these by words but we are human being , without knowing ourselves sometimes anger will express in words due to some frustration or anything else na
 
I have a huge threshold when it comes to anger... Being a very senior HR guy I've kinda been trained not to loose my temper.. Beyond the threshold.. I just ask for a break so to calm myself
 
I have a huge threshold when it comes to anger... Being a very senior HR guy I've kinda been trained not to loose my temper.. Beyond the threshold.. I just ask for a break so to calm myself
Solunga senior :smoking:break time la yaara pottu thallalam nu plan poduveengala
 
Anger Management: is this question for people who gets angry or loses their temper easily.

Then I dont fit in this category. I get furious so stay with caution.:smile1:

Once I reach that zone, the only thing I do is burst out completely no matter what I need to take that pressure out of me.
:timid:Anger with caution ...
 
Well,said macha ... But u can say these by words but we are human being , without knowing ourselves sometimes anger will express in words due to some frustration or anything else na
While u face such situations, juz walk away or pluggin ur earphn and listen some songs macha.. Lets the dog keep barking :giggle:
 
I then realized its difficult to get angry with someone whose close to you.. you cant even shut your mouth, like what i mentioned previously. All you do is blabber and kept trying to win the argument, that u end up losing , forgetting the relationship , friendship you built together.

Too self centered. Too eager to win. But little did i know , i contributed with the idea of risking that precious relationship. For the sake of winning the argument.

They tend to say , communication is the key. But tbh NO its not enough. Comprehension is!
In order to fix and keep the relationship goin, one must communicate and comprehend at the same time.

Ps. If you fought with someone too close to you. Its hard to kept quiet and chill. Communicate and Comprehend.... :(
 
Important Topic it is!
As a saying goes Anger is just one letter short to Danger.The three prominent gates to hell-Lust anger n greed. Even in the medical science its believed there’s more cells destroyed in self then the person it’s aimed at.
Many problems at today are just coz of anger.Just due to uncontrolled anger.Its like we spit venom coz of agitated mind and consciousness we dont perceive things as they are and we end up taking wrong steps.Relationships and broken ,family’s are broken.Its a very dangerous emotion.
Somtimes we find our family teachers or known ones to be angry at us but its for concern and for betterment of us but most of the anger we find in our daily life with others arent aimed for betterment.
Its just coz of egocentricity or pride to put a person down.
A very practical example-If we sitting on the banks of a pond or lake and its very calm so we can see the fishes swimming inside means we can see things as they are coz the water is still.Now ifwe throw a pebble into it thers ripples formed and the water body is agitated and we cant see the fish.
The simple solution to it just wait for sometime let the water settle once all the agitation is gone then look inside and u can see the fishes and start seeing things as they are.
Connecting this example to our discussion the water is like our consciousness.When its calm and peaceful we can see things as they are but as soon as theres some provocation.The pebble of provocation touches the surface of our consciousness theres ripples or agitation and we don’t perceive things as they due to anger.
I try to run away from conversation asap,i try not to act anything if m angry.i tolerate when i go angry,i try just to keep quiet,i try not to react and talk later once the agitation is reduced and m pacified can deal things more efficiently later with peace.
Sometimes i fail too!
 
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