The Unvarnished Truth: Life Isn't Easy (And That's Okay)

[Thegodfather]

Let's be honest, shall we? The curated, filtered versions of life we often see online paint a picture that's far from reality. We see the highlight reels, the perfectly posed moments, the seemingly effortless successes. But behind the screen, beneath the surface, life is messy, complicated, and often, downright hard.
We're sold this idea of a smooth, upward trajectory, where dreams materialize with minimal effort, and happiness is a constant state. But that's a lie. Life throws curveballs, slams doors in our faces, and whispers doubts in our ears. It's a relentless teacher, often delivering lessons through pain and hardship.

 

[Nemo]

For some this is so, but for others they've known nothing but the hard down trodden path, of the life maze. I call it a life maze because in my experience there is so many twists and turns that no matter with was you go you'll find a dead end. If you try to climb the maze walls are to high so you'll eventually fall back down. The path for everyone is an unknown, is it fate or destiny, I don't know. Most of us might have family or friends say something, 'don't worry fate has something good for you' or 'destiny, this is your destiny' etc etc.

But what is the fate of life, or the destiny of life if you can't actually define it for yourself in someway that you could actually physically say 'yes this fate/destiny is for me'. In something of a moral compass in my own overworked exhausted mind the intertwined fate and destiny get a resounding 'no not today' purely because of my past experiences

Sorry for the rambling

 

[Thegodfather]

For some this is so, but for others they've known nothing but the hard down trodden path, of the life maze. I call it a life maze because in my experience there is so many twists and turns that no matter with was you go you'll find a dead end. If you try to climb the maze walls are to high so you'll eventually fall back down. The path for everyone is an unknown, is it fate or destiny, I don't know. Most of us might have family or friends say something, 'don't worry fate has something good for you' or 'destiny, this is your destiny' etc etc.

But what is the fate of life, or the destiny of life if you can't actually define it for yourself in someway that you could actually physically say 'yes this fate/destiny is for me'. In something of a moral compass in my own overworked exhausted mind the intertwined fate and destiny get a resounding 'no not today' purely because of my past experiences

Sorry for the rambling

People say we are there for u but actually when we need them they won't be available and TBH I don't blame them but as u said we need to accept our fate