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Learning The Art Of Breathing

JasGhost

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Someone once told me, “When you don’t understand yourself or when your mind is overflowing just pour it onto a piece of paper.” Now that I’m up to it why not take a moment to talk about the art of breathing.



No, not the kind that turns you into a marathon runner or an Olympic swimmer.
I mean the kind of breathing that helps you when life gives you lemons.
When you’re left alone to face yourself, striving to become a better version of who you are.
When you forget how to ask for help either because of some fear or because you’ve spoken up before—only to go unheard as;



"Not everyone has ears attuned to the sound of a crumbling soul."

"Not everyone can recognize the silent wail of a strong being carrying itself with grace".



In my opinion, we learn this art every day. Or perhaps we learn it once and practice it for as long as necessary until life demands we learn it again. But what happens when someone else is the one teaching you this art and actually squeezing the last breath out of you in the process?



Yeah, It happens when we seek from others what our soul needs from us.
When we expect nourishment from outside, forgetting that it must comes from within.
As we all revolve in our own circles, carrying burdens
. So why do we look to others to carry our burden for us, with us?


Maybe as humans are social beings, isn’t it natural to rely on others?

And a guarded soul always wrestles with these questions;
What is okay—learning to breathe on your own?
Or trusting your dearest ones when they seem to be the best people?
But then again ironically if they were truly that good, why does their closest one live in fear of being unheard ?




But anyways staying on our topic this art continues to amaze me.
My first lesson came when I was submerged in a sea of experiences, without knowing how to breathe or how to keep my mortal self afloat.
But human nature is just remarkable. We are born with certain instincts and a strong will to survive. And so, in one way or another, we learn this art.



Sometimes, we cling to the fragile strings of hope.
Sometimes, we build shells around ourselves to stay afloat.
For some, those shells become impenetrable armor.

For others, they crack eventually.


But with the hope of better days, we learn to breathe.
We learn to exhale at the end of long days.
We keep breathing until we find our shore or should i say our temporary place to rest.



And yet, life is an endless journey of experiences. Even when we find temporary places of rest, we eventually have to leave, right! Setting out on a new journey once more.
But remember ;

Those who truly thrive in this journey are the ones who remember how to rely on others without fear. Who knows how to break free from the chains of this fear of never being heard.


So let’s take a moment to appreciate those who have mastered this art and become the strongest versions of themselves.
And let’s never forget to encourage those still struggling in that vast sea of burdens, learning—day by day—how to breathe.



(Note: I just tried to scribble down a bit of something that was on my mind. Suggestions for improvement are appreciated, but negative criticism is not welcomed.)
 
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Someone once told me, “When you don’t understand yourself or when your mind is overflowing just pour it onto a piece of paper.” Now that I’m up to it why not take a moment to talk about the art of breathing.



No, not the kind that turns you into a marathon runner or an Olympic swimmer.
I mean the kind of breathing that helps you when life gives you lemons.
When you’re left alone to face yourself, striving to become a better version of who you are.
When you forget how to ask for help either because of some fear or because you’ve spoken up before—only to go unheard as;



"Not everyone has ears attuned to the sound of a crumbling soul."

"Not everyone can recognize the silent wail of a strong being carrying itself with grace".



In my opinion, we learn this art every day. Or perhaps we learn it once and practice it for as long as necessary until life demands we learn it again. But what happens when someone else is the one teaching you this art and actually squeezing the last breath out of you in the process?



Yeah, It happens when we seek from others what our own soul needs from us.
When we expect nourishment from outside, forgetting that it must comes from within.
As we all revolve in our own circles, carrying our own burdens
. So why do we look to others to carry our burden for us, with us?


Maybe as humans are social beings, isn’t it natural to rely on others?

And a guarded soul always wrestles with these questions;
What is okay—learning to breathe on your own?
Or trusting your dearest ones when they seem to be the best people?
But then again ironically if they were truly that good, why does their closest one live in fear of being unheard ?




But anyways staying on our topic this art continues to amaze me.
My first lesson came when I was submerged in a sea of experiences, without knowing how to breathe or how to keep my mortal self afloat.
But human nature is just remarkable. We are born with certain instincts and a strong will to survive. And so, in one way or another, we learn this art.



Sometimes, we cling to the fragile strings of hope.
Sometimes, we build shells around ourselves to stay afloat.
For some, those shells become impenetrable armor.

For others, they crack eventually.


But with the hope of better days, we learn to breathe.
We learn to exhale at the end of long days.
We keep breathing until we find our shore or should i say our temporary place to rest.



And yet, life is an endless journey of experiences. Even when we find temporary places of rest, we eventually have to leave, right! Setting out on a new journey once more.
But remember ;

Those who truly thrive in this journey are the ones who remember how to rely on others without fear. Who knows how to break free from the chains of this fear of never being heard.


So let’s take a moment to appreciate those who have mastered this art and become the strongest versions of themselves.
And let’s never forget to encourage those still struggling in that vast sea of burdens, learning—day by day—how to breathe.



(Note: I just tried to scribble down a bit of something that was on my mind. Suggestions for improvement are appreciated, but negative criticism is not welcomed.)
Interesting topic everyone will relate themselves with. Discussion on how to navigate life’s hardships, emotional struggles, and personal growth is need of hour.Its not about physical tolerance like in sports but to focus on breathing as a means of survival in difficult times—when one feels unheard, burdened, or overwhelmed. In my opinion always to depend on self reliance is not true for all and in all circumstances but one have to look option of dependence on others where you have trustworthy people around you. Acknowledging that different people learn breathing differently—some through hardship, some through love, some through solitude .At the end of the day, breathing is both an art and an instinct. We just have to trust ourselves to keep going. Thank you for sharing. :cool:
 
Someone once told me, “When you don’t understand yourself or when your mind is overflowing just pour it onto a piece of paper.” Now that I’m up to it why not take a moment to talk about the art of breathing.



No, not the kind that turns you into a marathon runner or an Olympic swimmer.
I mean the kind of breathing that helps you when life gives you lemons.
When you’re left alone to face yourself, striving to become a better version of who you are.
When you forget how to ask for help either because of some fear or because you’ve spoken up before—only to go unheard as;



"Not everyone has ears attuned to the sound of a crumbling soul."

"Not everyone can recognize the silent wail of a strong being carrying itself with grace".



In my opinion, we learn this art every day. Or perhaps we learn it once and practice it for as long as necessary until life demands we learn it again. But what happens when someone else is the one teaching you this art and actually squeezing the last breath out of you in the process?



Yeah, It happens when we seek from others what our own soul needs from us.
When we expect nourishment from outside, forgetting that it must comes from within.
As we all revolve in our own circles, carrying our own burdens
. So why do we look to others to carry our burden for us, with us?


Maybe as humans are social beings, isn’t it natural to rely on others?

And a guarded soul always wrestles with these questions;
What is okay—learning to breathe on your own?
Or trusting your dearest ones when they seem to be the best people?
But then again ironically if they were truly that good, why does their closest one live in fear of being unheard ?




But anyways staying on our topic this art continues to amaze me.
My first lesson came when I was submerged in a sea of experiences, without knowing how to breathe or how to keep my mortal self afloat.
But human nature is just remarkable. We are born with certain instincts and a strong will to survive. And so, in one way or another, we learn this art.



Sometimes, we cling to the fragile strings of hope.
Sometimes, we build shells around ourselves to stay afloat.
For some, those shells become impenetrable armor.

For others, they crack eventually.


But with the hope of better days, we learn to breathe.
We learn to exhale at the end of long days.
We keep breathing until we find our shore or should i say our temporary place to rest.



And yet, life is an endless journey of experiences. Even when we find temporary places of rest, we eventually have to leave, right! Setting out on a new journey once more.
But remember ;

Those who truly thrive in this journey are the ones who remember how to rely on others without fear. Who knows how to break free from the chains of this fear of never being heard.


So let’s take a moment to appreciate those who have mastered this art and become the strongest versions of themselves.
And let’s never forget to encourage those still struggling in that vast sea of burdens, learning—day by day—how to breathe.



(Note: I just tried to scribble down a bit of something that was on my mind. Suggestions for improvement are appreciated, but negative criticism is not welcomed.)
This was beautifully written, JasGhost. The way you capture the silent struggles of the soul and the resilience in learning to breathe is deeply moving. We all navigate this journey differently, but your words remind us that hope and strength lie within.
 
Someone once told me, “When you don’t understand yourself or when your mind is overflowing just pour it onto a piece of paper.” Now that I’m up to it why not take a moment to talk about the art of breathing.



No, not the kind that turns you into a marathon runner or an Olympic swimmer.
I mean the kind of breathing that helps you when life gives you lemons.
When you’re left alone to face yourself, striving to become a better version of who you are.
When you forget how to ask for help either because of some fear or because you’ve spoken up before—only to go unheard as;



"Not everyone has ears attuned to the sound of a crumbling soul."

"Not everyone can recognize the silent wail of a strong being carrying itself with grace".



In my opinion, we learn this art every day. Or perhaps we learn it once and practice it for as long as necessary until life demands we learn it again. But what happens when someone else is the one teaching you this art and actually squeezing the last breath out of you in the process?



Yeah, It happens when we seek from others what our soul needs from us.
When we expect nourishment from outside, forgetting that it must comes from within.
As we all revolve in our own circles, carrying burdens
. So why do we look to others to carry our burden for us, with us?


Maybe as humans are social beings, isn’t it natural to rely on others?

And a guarded soul always wrestles with these questions;
What is okay—learning to breathe on your own?
Or trusting your dearest ones when they seem to be the best people?
But then again ironically if they were truly that good, why does their closest one live in fear of being unheard ?




But anyways staying on our topic this art continues to amaze me.
My first lesson came when I was submerged in a sea of experiences, without knowing how to breathe or how to keep my mortal self afloat.
But human nature is just remarkable. We are born with certain instincts and a strong will to survive. And so, in one way or another, we learn this art.



Sometimes, we cling to the fragile strings of hope.
Sometimes, we build shells around ourselves to stay afloat.
For some, those shells become impenetrable armor.

For others, they crack eventually.


But with the hope of better days, we learn to breathe.
We learn to exhale at the end of long days.
We keep breathing until we find our shore or should i say our temporary place to rest.



And yet, life is an endless journey of experiences. Even when we find temporary places of rest, we eventually have to leave, right! Setting out on a new journey once more.
But remember ;

Those who truly thrive in this journey are the ones who remember how to rely on others without fear. Who knows how to break free from the chains of this fear of never being heard.


So let’s take a moment to appreciate those who have mastered this art and become the strongest versions of themselves.
And let’s never forget to encourage those still struggling in that vast sea of burdens, learning—day by day—how to breathe.



(Note: I just tried to scribble down a bit of something that was on my mind. Suggestions for improvement are appreciated, but negative criticism is not welcomed.)
Wow, this is a beautifully written, heartfelt, and thought-provoking piece! You've woven together themes of self-discovery, resilience, and the importance of learning to breathe – both literally and metaphorically.

Your writing is expressive, poetic, and vulnerable, making it easy to connect with your emotions and reflections. You've shared your personal journey of learning to navigate life's challenges, and it's clear that you've gained valuable insights along the way.

Some of the lines that resonated with me the most include:

- "Not everyone has ears attuned to the sound of a crumbling soul."
- "We learn this art every day. Or perhaps we learn it once and practice it for as long as necessary until life demands we learn it again."
- "What happens when someone else is the one teaching you this art and actually squeezing the last breath out of you in the process?"
- "We are born with certain instincts and a strong will to survive. And so, in one way or another, we learn this art."

Your writing also raises important questions about the importance of self-reliance, seeking help when needed, and the delicate balance between the two.

As for suggestions, I think your writing is strong, and your voice shines through. If I were to offer any suggestions, it would be to consider adding more structural elements, such as paragraphs or section breaks, to help guide the reader through your narrative. Additionally, some of the sentences are quite long and could be broken up for easier reading.

However, please don't take these suggestions as criticism – your writing is beautiful, and your message is inspiring. Keep sharing your thoughts and reflections with the world!

*A_AICS
 
In my opinion always to depend on self reliance is not true for all and in all circumstances but one have to look option of dependence on others where you have trustworthy people around you.
Yup you're right.
Thanks for taking the time to read it.!!
 
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I'm glad part of it resonates with you.
As for suggestions, I think your writing is strong, and your voice shines through. If I were to offer any suggestions, it would be to consider adding more structural elements, such as paragraphs or section breaks, to help guide the reader through your narrative. Additionally, some of the sentences are quite long and could be broken up for easier reading.
*A_AICS
Noting down these suggestions. AND no I'm not taking them as criticism, In fact they are appreciated.
Thanks for taking the time to read it and write a review.!!
 
But then again ironically if they were truly that good, why does their closest one live in fear of being unheard ?
There is a saying in my native language but u don’t know how to translate it, but let me try.

The tree in our backyard can’t be used or worth enough to have medicinal values. ( but the same tree in neighbors yard would work better ) - lol - this came out as worst translation .

There is no shame in asking for help - but as you said - choose wisely who you are asking for help. Devil’s advocates every where ! Just tread carefully!

There is nothing like it - finding your own self in the end, that’s what makes you not just breathe but makes you live.

Nice write up !
 
The tree in our backyard can’t be used or worth enough to have medicinal values. ( but the same tree in neighbors yard would work better ) - lol - this came out as worst translation .
I understand what it mean so actually you did a good job.
There is nothing like it - finding your own self in the end, that’s what makes you not just breathe but makes you live.
Ahaa!!! Not JUST breathe but learn Art of living too, I guess I get a new idea for my next write up now !
Nice write up !
Thank you for your time and words <3
 
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